Story time/field report my dudes:

So I broke up with my previous GF 3 months ago. Afterwards I tried online dating to no avail. OKC, Tinder, nothing but a lot of rejections, ghosting, and being ignored with no dates. I'm a handsome guy who is intelligent and funny, but that can not be conveyed through some pictures and text (unless that's where you game specifically). So I was like fuck it. I deleted all of my profiles and went to the mall, started chatting up people and just generally being the extroverted happy guy that I am (and want to be more of).

I know it's hard for a lot of you guys to just go and do that. Hell, I'm an extrovert and still took tonnes of mental preparation and thought to do. Sure people will think you are a fucking weirdo go saying hi to them, but once you chat for literally like 20 seconds and show you aren't trying to sell them something or a crazy person and they are more than happy to keep talking to you. I went straight for cute girls that were standing or walking alone, which is probably crazy, but that's just how I did it. This was on Sunday, the second or third girl I approached was super receptive and I got her number after about 10 minutes of talking. I just had a date with her yesterday (Thursday).

Tl;dr After 3 months of hard work on my online dating presence, I had literally 0 dates. On my first day of really seriously cold approaching girls in the wild, I had a number and a date within a week. If you are getting frustrated with online dating like I was, wipe it all out and start doing things the old fashioned way. Its easier and more fun, maybe stressful at first but worth it.