Side effect of learning seduction

BishopDayGame · 2019-02-13T13:14:53+00:00

"After fighting, everything else in your life got the volume turned down. You could deal with anything."

Fight Club quote. That's what cold approaching and the community remind me of. Congratulations my guy! Hope you are acting responsible with your new developing superpower ;)

Josh-Davis · 2019-02-13T13:51:15+00:00

Welcome to the other side my friend. Be careful with your new powers. Only gets better from here

Exhaustedsphincter · 2019-02-13T15:20:00+00:00

Yup, you'll also learn that you'll become the favorite in your family, be up for job promotions, be the rockstar, and life opens up to whatever the fook you want as long as you put the hard work in. These are soft skill trainings with a focus on getting women, but applies to most of life and you also are learning to learn.

Keep it up dude years down the road you'll wonder what the fuck is happening and how did you get there.

justeatsandvches · 2019-02-13T19:38:33+00:00

I’m at the part in my life where I’m just too shy to approach new people, specially college women. My game lacks and my social level is not on to par with others. As of right now I’m mostly in my dorm, smoking up my “close friends”. Plus I also wanna add that I’m just too hopeless to find any girl to even hook up with. Who knows... maybe I’m just really weird when it comes to talking to people. I can’t keep chasing if I’m only just gonna get hurt again :/

chesterfieldelitist · 2019-02-13T17:23:59+00:00

It seems crazy but yes. It is almost as if straight men become attracted to you as well. I started to get the feeling I could ask certain business associates to blow me and they might do it.

Audentes · 2019-02-13T16:15:15+00:00

Recently was in a meeting where someone was arguing leadership was a thing you only had or didn't have. Asked him if picking up women was too, which was of course was a yes.

After a couple minutes of breaking down the interaction and steps to learning and then succeeding he broke down and agreed it could be learned and that maybe leadership could be too.

Some people only see the art of picking up women. Some people see the art of picking up yourself in this lifestyle choice.

UrbanDevice · 2019-02-13T12:51:39+00:00

Yeah happened to me aswell. But i guess thats normal.

bidex6 · 2019-02-13T16:49:38+00:00

Could you link me back to what you read? I'd like to get as good as you :).

Rhyat250 · 2019-02-13T19:45:35+00:00

"What would the legend of Hercules be without his 12 labors? What purpose would he have and why would we care? Without his labor we wouldnt have mark his tale and his stories in history"~ Random Greek Guy

hawkeye4500 · 2019-02-13T17:05:23+00:00

Same here. I've only been approaching for a little while, but lately I feel more comfortable and open around people, men or women. Freer.

art0nic · 2019-02-14T06:08:44+00:00

I love hearing this. No one wants to believe me that I used to be this introvert who did nothing but play video games. Now I'm going out, traveling and meeting all these new and interesting people! I got into pickup for more success with women. But honestly it has given me way more than that. I always love hearing stuff like this. Keep it up and good luck out there!

Teilchen · 2019-02-13T22:25:02+00:00

It's just the abroad mindset. It will pass, don't worry.

recyclablebanthas · 2019-02-14T05:38:05+00:00

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But I've noticed that after even considering the idea of approaching a woman out of the blue and expressing romantic/sexual interest, suddenly approaching people to make friends becomes SO EASY.

Yep. Seduction, at its core, involves basic social skills.

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And I'm still a guy that gets really nervous at the thought of a cold approach.

I mean, a cold approach can still be a challenge to push yourself, but don't discount this:

At a party, at an event, literally anywhere chatting people up and making friends becomes really easy.

Most people NEVER get to this level of social confidence. Also, social circle stuff and mingling at parties and such, is a great way to set up a pipeline for yourself, dating-wise. It can be like Easy Mode, that way, if one wants it.

802Prince · 2019-02-13T23:49:20+00:00

Consider my theory that every human is scared, lonely, and confused. The man who brings positive, social energy to the world is loved and respected.

Serpent73 · 2019-02-14T02:01:50+00:00

This has been my experience as well. Well said!

beastboi27 · 2019-02-14T02:12:49+00:00

Really cool. I used to feel that way..trying to regain some of that confidence. Ain't easy when you are down in the dumps..but oh well.

EnvironmentalTwister · 2019-02-14T04:30:02+00:00

Yup, it makes you more social

Title	Side effect of learning seduction
Author	nickchabob
Upvotes	488
Comments	50
Date	February 13, 2019 12:22 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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