What are some "worked like a charm" examples of PUSH/PULL strategy you applied to get a girl chase you like hell?

Kenic_In_MD · 2019-05-13T13:26:34+00:00

A girl shit tested me a few weeks back making a joke of why I was out alone and how I didn't have any friends. Agreed with her that I had no friends, and amplified by jokingly saying I was leaving since she made me "depressed." I obviously wasn't going anywhere but I physically stood up and and put out the energy that I was really leaving.

She literally grabbed my arm and said "I was joking!!!" to which I replied "I dunnoooooo." It was all jokes but it worked.

Another that i've recently done that works really well is disagreeing with the girl. Be confident enough in yourself to disagree with her. Nobody likes a kiss ass and guys kiss her ass all week and all night. You be the dude that's different, it will instantly create a push pull dynamic. Disagree with her (whatever it is) at first then be a little more agreeable as time goes on. She will be attracted to you in some way.

Lastly what i use is spacing. Like actual spacing, it can get a little complex and you NEVER want to move away if a girl gets close to you like in your personal bubble. But if things are vibing really well and you're already touching her, try getting up to go to the bathroom and come back then sit yourself a couple of inches further away. Not far, just a little bit. Neglect her for a few minutes but keep staring into her eyes and keep giving her that sexual vibe. It builds tension pretty quickly, let that tension rise until you can't stand it anymore. Then move closer to her, just a little bit. Then do it again.

You know if you're doing this right when your heart starts racing. When your heart starts beating fast and you're staring into a girls eyes/touching her then you are building sexual tension. She should be feeling the same way, if not more.

zincSF · 2019-05-13T14:22:14+00:00

I asked a Chinese tourist I'd just met if she was 21 (in regard to taking her out to some clubs). I got back the "I'm 31, you always think Asian women are so young!". I teased her that she couldn't be a day over 23.

Later, when I first texted her, I said "you are very cute and a liar, but I like you anyway". I was not yet certain the # was good, or that she'd engage via text vs. just blow me off. I got back "why am I a liar? lol" Perfect, my push/pull tease got her. "Trying to present yourself as an older woman, you can't fool me!". That's my recent "worked" example. (Yes, I got her out that evening, great time.)

Apfeltee · 2019-05-13T16:45:57+00:00

Just this last week. Had a great date with a girl and we talked for hours in my car in front of her dorm. I had to go to the bathroom and asked her if I could use hers. Went inside and said I will leave now. Told her I won’t leave without a kiss and we made out a little. I still insisted on leaving.

5 Minutes later she texts me it was a great date and if my hotel room is that bad, like I told her. I said yes and she replied: well my dorm is small but my bed will probably fit two...

Guess who F-closed this (tinder) date a few minutes later.

yayornayoryay · 2019-05-13T14:52:33+00:00

I pretty much always open with, hi (insert specific compliment about something) I had to talk to you or I would have regretted it for the next 30 seconds.

Another one I like is ‘I certainly don’t see us getting together, we’re too similar we’d never get along’

suckymeh · 2019-05-13T18:53:39+00:00

More of teasing than push pull but there are similarities.

Went on a first date with a Brazilian woman. I drive her home and went inside for a bit. So far we had only hugged and only acted friendly during the date.

I could sense some attraction between us. We're sitting on the sofa just talking but I would get super close to her, just inches between our faces at times. Minor kino touching her legs or something. Yet I acted completely cool like we're just 2 friends hanging out. Basically I was making the attraction overtly clear, but refusing to close the gap. With my demeanor it's obvious I was playing a game.

I kept this up for some time until finally she lost her shit. She pushed me back on the sofa, jumps on top of me, and starts madly making out with me. Before long we're in her bed with clothes coming off.

legend503 · 2019-05-13T13:47:33+00:00

I'm curious about this myself

VDKay · 2019-05-13T17:50:28+00:00

I opened up to this girl once (I mean really cheesy stuff) but she was really confused and she didn't want to take it further. She told me that she does not like me in that way, she only sees me as a friend, blah, blah. So I respected it and backed off. Soon she initiated contact herself, we started talking again a bit but now as friends. We went out once more in a mixed group. There, I isolated her and started telling her cheesy stuff again, only to have her reply that she is really rather attracted to my friend over there. Being a gentleman as I was, I remained calm, I swallowed my pride and offered her a ride home as it was really late... only to drop her off somewhere else (heh). She was pissed the whole night sending me angry texts. I replied her that I did it so I could go back to pick her best friend and drive her to my home instead. More angry texts.

Next day she requests that we meet to clear up the situation. She is confused again and we talk for a good hour or so. Long story short, she eventually confesses that she is really attracted to me and even grabs and kisses me in my car.

Girls are crazy man!

undextrois · 2019-05-13T15:33:22+00:00

Go look for the book of Swingcat’s Real world seduction and read the part about PRIZING frame. Theres a few example there on how to frame yourself as a prize

Example

Pua: you are making me feel nervous

Hb: why

Pua: because im starting to think that youre way too good of a person for me( communicating that you have standards that you are the prize and challenging her)

Hb: blah blah

Pua: ok then give me the basics .. do you know how to cook? ( qualifier)

👍🏻

AutoProblematic · 2019-05-14T18:04:59+00:00

Where did you drop her off? If you dropped her off in the ghetto...not cool; If you dropped her off somewhere safe but different than what she expected...cool because it reflected higher value for you.

Title	What are some "worked like a charm" examples of PUSH/PULL strategy you applied to get a girl chase you like hell?
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Date	May 13, 2019 11:55 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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