A girl grabbed my phone and put her number in it.

ikram_001 · 2019-05-26T06:23:26+00:00

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the_-photographer · 2019-05-26T07:03:02+00:00

This gives me motivation man! Have started working out and working on my body. Hopefully in some time I can get back my confidence. 🙃

ryanq214 · 2019-05-26T10:46:21+00:00

hate to say it but looks absolutely matter. If you look better you will be getting more attention.

Good for you OP, this is a little inspiring to hit he gym harder and improve my died myself (hard to change that).

BitsAndBobs304 · 2019-05-26T06:07:13+00:00

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Murfdigidy · 2019-05-26T13:05:54+00:00

This is great, now you need to have the courage to approach girls and do fun stuff like that. We're all human and girls like attention from well put together guys, introduce yourself to them

Guys have this thing in their head that every approach is a potential future girlfriend. No! How bout approaching with the idea of let me get to know this cute girl and see if she's worth having a conversation or two with

Chrisanova_NY · 2019-05-26T18:47:16+00:00

1st comment ever on Reddit. Looks like I'm reeaalllly late to the Reddit party.

There is/was a seduction society some time back, called Deep Seduction (hello Q, wherever you are). This was not the Neil Strauss crowd, or the peacock jokers, or the "seminar scoundrel frauds" charging $1,000/weekend to desperate men. This was comprised of men who REALLY wanted to become better with women, and in a holistic sense. It's not about "just getting chicks" or manipulating women, but to become a better self overall, and let that permeate into your daily life. Women want to be around men. Give them legitimate & lasting reasons, instead of all the mind games that were crafted 10 years ago.

Before I rattle forever, DS has one funny expression among many others: "It's the body, stupid". No one has to look like 1970s Arnold either. Conclusive proof exists that most women gravitate to reasonably muscular "ottermode" bodies.

Having the self-respect, and discipline to eat better - ditching sugar (carb face is real), hit weights.....

Having the vision to get clothes that drape nicely off that new body, and adding nice accoutrements (maybe pocket square, nice hat, understated cuff links, lapel pin) without being cheesy or turning into a dandy/peacock that you're not.....

.....it all adds up.

Congrats on your new "you".

offinthewoods10 · 2019-05-26T14:39:05+00:00

It's crazy how much girls dig the "I'm smirking at your comment, but pretending that I wasn't listening"

greenlittleman · 2019-05-26T15:49:08+00:00

It is a dream of any loser who can't approach girls consistently. If you are really good looking and put yourself out there then sure, you encounter some situations like this. Few times a year. Maybe it would allow you to sleep with 1-3 girls per year. Of course those girls, at most, would be average because really hot girls already have a broad choice among handsome guys. Being goodlooking isn't a magic pill if you want to get consistent results with girls. It is enough to be 5/10 in looks to get laid consistently and it means getting new hot girl each month would be easy. For that you need to have solid inner game (frame control, non-neediness) and take action, nothing else. Still if you won genetic lottery and worked on your body then you could get 6-7/10 girls consistently with Tinder, but even then it would take some time and efforts.

waqas_hussain7 · 2019-05-27T01:57:54+00:00

This wouldn't work for me because I have a fingerprint lock

hippocampsinbrocas · 2019-05-26T06:35:46+00:00

How tall are you and how much do you weigh?

_d3nnis_ · 2019-05-26T13:49:03+00:00

Bless you homie, it's fresh to get better ;)

thenewavenger5 · 2019-05-26T13:55:49+00:00

The phone number was Sarah burges's.

Jay_Bonk · 2019-05-26T16:05:38+00:00

Does the grooming include hair? That's always been the toughest for me. My beard sort of maintains itself, I have to trim it like once a month at most.

tombzie · 2019-05-26T19:13:37+00:00

Feel this as well. Pretty much did the same thing went out to a club, which I don't do often. The attention I got was really strong. Still the same thing as you, the confidence hasn't caught up yet.

Slomojoe · 2019-05-26T20:20:07+00:00

How did she get into your phone?

TaeKwonPiccolo · 2019-05-26T21:12:45+00:00

You made the good decision not to be reactive. Very sexy. Women are turned on by this because it makes you look like you're not thirsty.

I've recently lost 95 pounds. You're right, women do take notice when you put on muscle and are a healthy size. Fashion completes the look.

MayanJ34 · 2019-05-27T00:56:22+00:00

Respect ++

Murmaider · 2019-05-27T03:55:34+00:00

"I'm going to bed soon but keep the conversation interesting and maybe I'll stay awake"

Fantastic qualifier! Mind if I steal it???

chief_yETI · 2019-05-27T04:43:54+00:00

excellent work mate, keep it up. I will say to be careful though, because stuff like this is usually pretty sketchy. But assuming that this isnt one of those moments, all the best.

blackjesus75 · 2019-05-27T04:53:36+00:00

Maybe she venmo'd herself $5k

uberdank · 2019-05-27T05:29:09+00:00

I've changed my diet and lifted weights religiously for the past year

This is a guaranteed recipe for increased pussy, energy, self-esteem, athleticism, optimism, respect, and more. Its basically a win, win, win, win, win......

sanepanda · 2019-05-29T09:01:28+00:00

Working out and dressing well is magic.

2019-05-30T14:29:23+00:00

Wow so nice! Im so happy for you!! :/

2019-05-30T14:49:02+00:00

No fucking way you changed to that guy by just starting to lift weights. I call that bullshit. I do push ups im still the pathetic loser.. im angry at this post because it could never be me and im also jealous.

fart_reactor · 2019-05-26T15:22:31+00:00

So did you keep the conversation interesting? That’s the part where I struggle..

RevolutionaryDrive5 · 2019-05-26T21:13:14+00:00

I'm so sorry you had to go thru that.

suscribednowhere · 2019-05-26T14:01:54+00:00

guarantee OP is at least 5'11"

gnarlin · 2019-05-26T14:54:06+00:00

Aaaaand if a man did that with a woman's phone... he'd be arrested.

Title	A girl grabbed my phone and put her number in it.
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Upvotes	764
Comments	87
Date	May 26, 2019 6:03 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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