You wonder how other guys you see get sexual and intimate with women that fast.

Well here is one thing :

Problem might be your conversations are too platonic and friendly.

IMO a huge part of building sexual tension lies in the ability to be okay with your own sexuality and desires, by owning your sexual side.

You know how girls hate to take responsibility already, and how they never lead. It's your job to lead and create the sexual vibe.

If you're okay with your sexuality and you can bring it in a non-forced way, non-judgemental way, there's no reason girls wouldn't like it.

Bring sexual topics to the table yourself.

Worst case she's a prude and she'll let you know.

Best case you can escalate the conversation to more and more sexual topics, to prepare her mind to the idea of wild brain-blowing sex with you.

EDIT BECAUSE I'VE BEEN ASKED FOR SOME EXAMPLES :

  • Owning it if you drop your XXL Magnum condom pack from your back pocket instead of being shy about it

  • Misinterpreting what a girl said on purpose as if she said something sexual

  • Making sexual innuendo and sexual jokes

  • Talking about sex and not shying away from details

  • Sharing what turns you on and talking freely about it

  • Not making fun of women or shaming them when they talk about sex