What are some things you guys say when approaching in real life.?

Rob775533 · 2024-04-06T19:30:44+00:00

I've found that just saying hi and playfully commenting on what's going on is a good start to a conversation.

Endgame2648 · 2024-04-06T19:37:03+00:00

It's never about what you say but how you say it. You need to radiate confidence. I don't prefer the nervous "I think your eyes look pretty" as it has more chances to turn the lady off from you.

I had approached a girl the other week and asked her if she thought my tie looked bad. It's always about wtarting the conversation.

Zero_Gravvity · 2024-04-07T02:47:30+00:00

I’ve never approached a woman irl in my life, but my uncle is the most accomplished cocksmith i know. He tells me some variation of the following line is a favorite of his that has never failed:

“I mean look at the two of us, our children would be a master race. For breeding purposes alone we should give it a shot, not for fun…but like a duty to our species”

This sounds weird over text, but the way he says it kills my sides everytime. And it probably does the same for a woman, with the dual purpose of making her think about sex with him. He’s also 6’5 and only does this with taller women, so it makes more sense with that context lol

Atriev · 2024-04-07T06:31:12+00:00

“Real life…?” What the hell have you been doing, approaching bitches in the metaverse?

Ok_Bunch_1429 · 2024-04-07T12:41:27+00:00

A good one is to notice things around you and make a comment about it to whoever you're trying to talk to.

For example, this place I go into a lot for work has a koi fish tank, there's always this black koi that just lies at the bottom unmoving. So I've used that little guy as a jumping off point. The girls and I will start talking and she'll come over to the tank to look with me, and I go from there.

Best thing to do is talk to her like you're already friends and maybe more. Run with the idea that she has interest in you. In a way you have to take it for granted that these girls like you. Doing that makes it more likely that they will I have learned

epimpstyle · 2024-04-06T20:42:24+00:00

Something simple: "Hey, two seconds, do you know of a pizza place/Chinese restaurant that recently opened in the area?" [her answer: NO] .... "A friend of mine said blah blah blah .... by the way do you live in this area? [yes / no] ..... Cool... but you have an exotic look, I could bet you from XYZ ....." now sky is the limit.

Nowadays people like to promote a direct approach because it shows you are a man, have confidence bla bla bla ... but actually my preference is to go indirect and build from there as I do in this VIDEO starting with a simple question.

You can be direct, like I did in Ukraine in this VIDEO (after warming up) or this VIDEO, but I don't recommend such an approach, especially if they don't speak the same language as you, because I said a joke, but it took them a few seconds to get the joke. But when you're in the mood, you don't care about anything and you just go for it.

DenverFlorida · 2024-04-07T08:20:31+00:00

Hi I'm (your name) What's yours?

Not rocket science

Miguell7 · 2024-04-07T08:51:28+00:00

”Hi, you look very lovely”

”Hi, you look like a dragon!”

Doesnt really matter, as long as you have good energy.

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-04-07T11:41:36+00:00

I walk up to them, pat down my pockets as if looking for something and then I say "Excuse me, I seem to have lost my number. Can I have yours?"

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-04-14T08:40:10+00:00

ask for an opinion, a genuine one works pretty well

PrinceDestin · 2024-04-06T21:18:44+00:00

There’s nothing special you can say that’s a preset line rather than the situation but I’ll give you one my best lines

Excuse me, once they look or say huh or yes or sum I then say

I just wanted to meet you…. After that your on your own buddy! But it’s a pretty well received line

Even I fucked up after saying I wanted to meet you, before but hey that part of the line is high percentage!

tdwriter2003 · 2024-04-07T01:21:04+00:00

How you doin" ?

Joey

InterestingSquash519 · 2024-04-06T22:22:56+00:00

Walking towards her with calm and grounded demeanor: “Excuse me..Hi..hmm..you seem interesting..tell me a little bit about yourself”

Title	What are some things you guys say when approaching in real life.?
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Date	April 6, 2024 7:20 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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