Debate: women do not care about their safety on dating apps as they claim here.

When I first joined dating apps, I was riding high on a newfound sense of success and status, completely lacking self-awareness.

Not like I became some mega celebrity overnight. I had success and disposable income and lots of people knew me by my name and work so I was feeling like a king (initially you feel like this for a few years)

Going around on dating apps and saying mean things to women like, "Are you even worth dating? I have more matches than you; most of yours are broke guys, mine are supermodels," surprisingly worked. I had no interest in seriously dating women. After I finished my work and acted mean on dating apps, I made lots of friends this way.

When women were rude to me, I told them, "Do you realize I am a rich guy, and you are a broke woman, I could sue you for offending me and you'll end up bankrupt"

My classic angle of attack was making them feel poor, worthless, lacking social status. I'd tell them "So you are probably waitress who dates a truck driver, right? "

Another one "Come to me I live in a posh area, won't drive to your ghetto area risking my safety".

I offended many women on dating apps, but it worked on those with low self-esteem who even drove to meet me at 1 am, without even knowing who I was. They saw me as some big shot.

What's super strange to me is that women always scream about "safety," yet women who don't know me are impulsively driving to me. So I understood that when they see something they want or maybe feel worthless, and when a man validates their worthlessness, they become impulsive and do whatever the man wants. The less they know about it, the better it works. There was no difference in age; women from 18 to 35 acted similarly. Was it hormones? I don't know. Was it mental health issues? Perhaps. But the impulsivity I experienced was crazy. I never drove to a woman I didn't know, so I was dumbfounded when women completely ignored their lack of safety.

When woman showed up at my door! I understood something is wrong with her. I didn't take advantage of her, we mostly talked and I let her go.

But this made me wonder what it I was a criminal? How could those women have saved themselves from me?

After a couple of dates, those women realized I am not really living up to the image I initially created. I am mean but not mean internally. What naturally followed was I started getting treated like an emotional tampon.

It's controversial to say this, but if my goal was casual sex, I'd have easily acquired it. But all those women were broken in one or many ways.

You could push them around and play with them, yes, but I instead chose to listen to their problems and lost my appeal gradually. The girl who wanted to sleep with me the first day of meeting her now made me beg for simple dates.

I knew all of them were depressed, but I didn't know exactly what depression is. They all appeared hyper-selfish to me; they wanted all support and empathy but didn't have any for me.

After a few girls went on antidepressants, the apathy they displayed was mind-numbing. Now they've all become an island and they'd avoid confrontation and be cruel to me. Texts would go unanswered and replied to hours later when initially they were replying instantly.

So what you see here is a kind-hearted man will absolutely get crushed if he has no experience with depressed ladies. You cannot help them; yes, they can say the right things once in a while but will never follow through.

You may become addicted to them for this reason. Because the reward (of them saying something kind and relatable) is so unpredictable and rare but not rare.

Most of them believed they were worthless. So the initial asshole me, with a superiority complex, appealed to them. I told them even with their college degree, they'll end up as waitress. I also told then you'll always be broke and your beauty will be wasted on broke men who can't buy you much.

The whole thing I was doing here to to make them feel powerless, worthless in front of me (and mentioning everything they lacked)

Most women had friend circle but I boosted my friend circle of 2000 people knowing me by my name in an specific industry. I'd do this to every girl, and they became submissive and started attending to me.

But I started seeing other values in them and started believing they were not worse than me in any way. It's when I got rug-pulled and cruelty begins.

These scenarios are completely ignored by women here.