For background, I prefer short men, so don't come for me. I've had 5'7 dudes say I'm too ugly.

Anyways- I always have understood the times I got friend zoned by guys, that if they would've been forced to date me anyways, it would've been incompatible and a dead-bedroom marriage. I never felt like they should be forced to date me in order to "raise the US birth rate". I mean yeah, these same guys claimed they were "so lonely they'd take anybody" but I realized most likely their standards would change as they got older and more mature.

So going to the situation of red pilled men saying that women should be forced to be with men they aren't attracted to. On a post where a woman said she was struggling to find commitment, one man commented "Oh let me guess, you only wanted rich tall guys because other guys give you 'THE ICK'".

Nevermind the fact that "the ick" is a really annoying term people need to stop using. But if someone is physically repulsed by someone, what are the implications of forcing them to be together? Regardless if it's over a silly height thing or not? When you marry someone and have children with someone, it's a lifelong commitment. A permanent roommate who will see you at your best and worst. Someone who you will HAVE to get along with for the most part unless you want your resentful kids in therapy one day.

From my own perspective, I'm an autistic person with sensory issues who hates touching flour for example. You can make me touch it a thousand times and it's still not going to make me like touching flour.

I see a lot of attempted solutions on Twitter/X for this like "Make the government ban birth control, and force women to be with men and have 8 kids" (From people who I guarantee have never had to hear a screaming child or pay bills) or "Pavlov yourself into liking them by really trying to convince yourself with affirmations that you're attracted to them" Or the classic "Make it where women can't have jobs and have to rely on men" (Ah yes because we should all have 8 kids but not enough nurses to deliver the massive amount of babies....86% of nurses are female)

I'm just saying that with a 50% divorce rate already in the U.S., telling women to marry a man they're not attracted to just so they can have a sperm donor to breed with, and someone to pay their bills is a garbage idea.