Hey guys. In a high conflict divorce with a narcissist ex wife. Trust me she’s a narcissist. 100 percent.

I have strong traits myself. But nowhere near as delusional as she is.

We’ve already blown through 100k in attorney fees. Two ex partes. Child custody evaluation underway. High conflict parenting classes ordered. Talking via app. Police reports and false allegations. Parental alienation on her end. The whole 9 yards.

Guys, you can never “win” with them. They always have to win. They will be petty, bitter, spiteful, no matter what. If you say no to them about ANYTHING they ask. A recent example she wanted to pick up my boy on my moms bday from school despite it being my day. Because of me telling her no, it’s a full on shit show with her doing everything she can to be difficult.

We don’t have orders yet. Which makes this very tough. But I’ve learned something about myself through the process.

I beat her when I left her. I won my life when I decided to get rid of her. I left her to gain my life back. She’s the loser here. She will end up bitter and ruined. Her drinking will destroy her body.

She will have her little victories with the kids. Maybe she will successfully alienate me from my older one. But it doesn’t matter. Because I escaped from her toxic soul. And saved myself. She can never win because I saved me.

And that brings a smile to my face