So what are short men supposed to do?

PurplePillDebate-ModTeam · 2024-06-01T16:38:02+00:00

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Good_Result2787 · 2024-06-01T15:59:37+00:00

The same thing disabled men do, speaking as a disabled guy. The same thing anyone does, really. Though of course I agree that some groups struggle in dating more than others. It's fine to vent and feel disappointment, too, IMHO. As long as you don't make all that someone else's problem.

Whenever I was dating, I personally never felt bitter because to me that implied that I placed some kind of blame on people rejecting me, which always seemed silly. I've always maintained that finding a partner is a very important experience (regardless of length of relationship) and it is one of the most discriminatory things we can do, so I understood why I was passed up often.

I have preferences too, and some women would be invisible to me (as romatic prospects, not human beings) just like I am invisible to some people.

Naraksama · 2024-06-01T16:08:37+00:00

I (5'7) asked myself the same thing and came to the conclusion: If a woman calls me cute, I basically won. Some women love soft, short boys.

superlurkage · 2024-06-01T16:13:41+00:00

Date short or similar height women, like all the short guys I know do.

Also, you do know ethnicities other than “white” exist, right ?

PiastriPs3 · 2024-06-01T15:58:47+00:00

Become a passport bro. Im sure thete are countries where you're height is seen as the norm or atleast not an extreme outlier.

AbbreviationsPure274 · 2024-06-01T16:12:22+00:00

I live in a town full of single mothers and meth heads. My hight has nothing to do with me being single. I’m 5’5” and picky as fuck. I have money. I have responsibilities. I have desires and goals. I’m not going to lower my standards just so I don’t feel alone. I would rather be alone than with someone I don’t like as a person.

Lenovo_Driver · 2024-06-01T16:06:45+00:00

Complain on the internet to people who can’t relate or don’t really care…

Also wtf is this most women’s nonsense? You don’t need to attract most women to find a partner. If a man is truly all of these traits you mentioned he will have no trouble finding a partner. If a man is those traits in his head then he won’t, cuz all he will be is a delusional short man.

With this dumb mindset, you can find anything about yourself and say it’s not attractive to most women.

Lastly, this belief that short men are inherently better than anyone else and their height is the only thing holding them back is bullshit and ties back to that delusion I referred to earlier.

alwaysright12 · 2024-06-01T16:12:53+00:00

Short men get dates and have relationships

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AbbreviationsPure274 · 2024-06-01T16:08:19+00:00

A dating pool as more to do with proximity than anything else. Online, short men are at a disservice because everybody is online. But, a job full of women, and one short guy, every woman in that office will get to know that guy. Their dating pool will include that short guy.

Charming_Parking_302 · 2024-06-01T16:15:26+00:00

The same thing anyone can do. You hope to find someone you can date and share a life with. If you do, you do. If you don't, you don't.

Plus-Sprinkles7852 · 2024-06-01T16:26:58+00:00

google whatever physical equivalents women face and put yourself in a position to interact with those types of women maybe?

if the majority of women consider height a physical priority or visually appealing feature then figure out if and which typically appealing physical and visual things you could overlook in a woman and focus your attention on women that possess those features

edit: oh and dont bother w dating apps - put yourself around women in activities that will give you and them the opportunity to get to know eachothers vibe gradually w no pressure

Fragrant_Might3467 · 2024-06-01T16:27:33+00:00

The short guys (5’2” and 5’3”) I know that get attractive women regularly are loaded, in great shape, have fun lives, and betabux. They get hot girls though.

obviousredflag · 2024-06-01T16:03:38+00:00

I don't know what you call short, but if you are a virgin, that's not due to being short. Short men fuck.

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CFHunfiltered · 2024-06-01T16:19:01+00:00

I’m 5’7” and I’ve never had a problem with women lol. To my knowledge I’ve never been turned down because “I’m short.” I married way out of my league and social class.

Here’s what happens, short guy goes on a date, regurgitates some redpill Andrew Tate bullshit. Date dumps him. He goes home and writes on Reddit how “women don’t want short guys!”

Granted, I’m not 5’4” but you know what, in the army I knew multiple dudes who were 5’4”-5’5” and got tons of women. I swear, this one guy every weekend in the barracks had a brand new beautiful woman.

So again, I call bullshit. It MAY impact peoples lives to an extent, but not as much as they claim. It’s just become an excuse men use so they don’t have to look inward at other characteristics that they can (and should) change.

Solondthewookiee · 2024-06-01T16:27:21+00:00

You work on the things you can. Get in shape, be well-groomed, dress and smell nice, be charming and funny.

but if he is short- most women see him as a loser and a non-option

Dudes here really need to understand "woman is not attracted to a man != woman hates a man"

Clear-Ad3193 · 2024-06-01T15:56:07+00:00

The only you thing you can do past a certain age is LL but that’s dangerous and expensive

DarayRaven · 2024-06-01T16:05:17+00:00

So then I ask, what are short men supposed to do?

There's studies that show the shorter you are, the more money you've to accumulate but in my experience short guys are absolutely doing great since most players are short guys since they are incredibly charismatic/pro social

cherrybby802 · 2024-06-01T16:07:45+00:00

You date people who are attracted to you

pg_throwaway · 2024-06-01T16:10:15+00:00

Move to a country where short is no problem, which is basically everywhere but America, so you have lots of options. The world is full of beautiful women and nice places to live, there's no need to lock yourself in the American bubble (which is a pretty bad place to live overall anyways).

Title	So what are short men supposed to do?
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Date	June 1, 2024 3:51 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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