I see many women saying their standards are being raised and they don’t want to settle for less when they see a man doing something nice for other women. For example, in a group chat I’m in, a woman shared how a man carried her home after clubbing because her feet were tired. All the women said this makes their standards higher and asked “why can’t more men be like that?”… Similarly, I don’t know if you’ve seen that post about a man who cycled the world to see a woman. A catchphrase used by many women is “if he wanted to, he would”

This is similar to how some women were saying that men are lonely because they’re not good enough for women. However, men don’t hold these same standards for women. Men have pretty low standards and the reason why is that they can’t.

A man buys a girl flowers, cycles across the world for her, Carries her home after clubbing because she’s uncomfortable, pays for all their dates… etc.All of these acts involve some kind of sacrifice from the man but what do women do for men?? Where are the men that have the same standards for women?? The bar is so low.

Imagine a man having standards for women that they pay for every meal, help carry them when they’re tired of walking, carry their bags after they’ve been shopping, travel the country for him, etc.

Men CANT have these standards because most women would never fulfill them. Women can have high standards for men because men actually do stuff and provide for women. Women don’t do the same for men

Men shouldn’t settle for women who expect them to do this but wouldn’t do the same in return. If a woman expects this from you and doesn’t do the same for you, what is the point in being with her?