Most incels aren’t bad people and most misogynists have sex. The fact that people make inceldom all about women and how women feel is very telling. People lack empathy and virgin shame men. Incels deserve compassion and empathy because they haven’t done anything wrong except be lonely. Sometimes they might say bad things but that comes from sadness and frustration rather than actual hate and I can’t blame them for that. It just shows how people view men who don’t fit into their standards of what men need to be: sexually active, attractive, providing for and offering society, have a focal point on women and protecting and caring for them.

Most incels just want to be loved and if they are “bad” people, it’s because of how they’re treated. People are very ignorant to the way lonely, quiet, ugly, often autistic men are treated. Either they’re bullied or treated like they’re invisible, of course they’re not going to be happy.

People tell men they just need to talk about their feelings and the male suicide rates will magically drop but when they do they’re told to shut up and stop “whining” or told they’re throwing a pity party.