I’ve been married for 18 years with my husband. We’ve had a pretty good marriage. Three kids. I’m still crazy about him and I think the passion is still there for both of us. A few weeks ago, I noticed there were reels on my Facebook of women in lingerie and bikinis. We share the same Facebook and I know how the algorithm works and that I’m not the one watching those reels. I asked him about it and he didn’t deny it but said he wouldn’t do it anymore. I know he has looked at similar pictures online before. I’ve never seen pornography and he’s so busy that I know it’s not something he does too often. But it’s something that has bothered me. After this last time, he’s been handing me his phone and has just been trying not to be on it much when he’s home. The other day, he was on it for a while in the living room with the kids and I was in our bedroom. I sent him a picture of me in my bra and he ran right in and locked all the doors to keep the kids out. lol. It seemed like he really liked it. I’ve been thinking that maybe I should send him more pictures like that. I’m a pretty shy person though and I would never send any nude photos. Is it normal in a marriage to send sexy photos? If I could get more of his attention, it’s not something I mind doing. Is it ladylike? lol.