The idea that men struggle in "dating" refers to the fact most men cant get a lot of attractive women to sleep with them casually. This often gets confused because people think that men struggle with getting relationships as well.

Men want the validation of casual sex. Its not a very noble thing to do they're just trying to tap and gap- pleasure themselves and get validation then leave. Oftentimes they have to try and manipulate these women into sleeping with them as well. This isnt an activity to be praised- especially considering how most men will also judge women who sleep around harshly. It also isnt something to pity men for, why would I pity selfish behavior?

I think dating apps prove this. They're known as hook up apps for a reason. Most guys on there will explicitly state in their profile that they're just after something casual. Contrary to popular belief its not just chads who want casual sex either, there is plenty of ugly guys who want it as well. Making it a no brainer for women to choose the hotter guy when engaging in casual sex.

Its easy for men to get relationships if they're a decent person because all they need to do is be kind and genuine, talk to women and have a job.

So think twice about feeling sympathy when you hear about the male loneliness epidemic or male dating struggles because they're just chasing validation and personal pleasure through casual sex.