Do I look feminine

doesanyonelse · 2024-11-18T12:56:21+00:00

In the nicest way, a little bit. But it’s not your looks or features, it’s the hair. It looks like a cheap wig that isn’t sitting quite right on your head.

If it’s your natural hair I would dye it dark brown, and if you’re wearing a wig because of hair loss etc then get a dark one. With dark hair your features will pop. You’re a beautiful woman, just the hair isn’t doing you any favours!

vegancigarette · 2024-11-18T15:45:00+00:00

It’s the wig. It doesn’t look natural and these days when something looks “off” whether that’s fake hair, too many fillers, or heavy makeup it can be mistaken for transgender.

pferdchenpojuzt · 2024-11-18T12:18:08+00:00

No, but I would recommend a more natural and feminine makeup and hairstyle

zzzzzzzzzzzzvzzzzvzz · 2024-11-18T16:27:59+00:00

It’s the wig babe, look at getting a color that compliments your skin tone; the blonde is too harsh also a more realistic wig, especially in thefront; preferably human hair if your budget allows

earthbaby_eyes · 2024-11-18T13:18:05+00:00

cut way down on makeup, you’re probably more beautiful without it

Zealousideal_Row_378 · 2024-11-18T13:04:40+00:00

Like another comment mentioned, it's not your face, your hair just doesn't suit you and seems to be a wig? If it is a wig going for a darker colour and bangs to hide the crown would make a big difference. If natural hair, keep it dark.

Necessary-Sun-8411 · 2024-11-18T12:11:25+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/u/Necessary-Sun-8411/s/LvWynX4Lq2

youllknowwhenitstime · 2024-11-19T00:48:48+00:00

Did you ever get told this before the wig?

Like others have commented, it seems to be the culprit. I can't quite tell what your ethnic makeup is, but a wig that closely resembles your natural hair color, texture, and is a more commonly obtainable length would cut down on the 'fake' vibes. More natural lashes, softer brows, and less full lips could assist as well. (And are you wearing contacts?)

serene_brutality · 2024-11-18T17:28:21+00:00

Bluntly and with no offense intended, while you are average to above in attractiveness your hair and makeup resembles like that of a drag queen’s.

As a caveat men generally assume women only want to date taller men, so dating for tall women is difficult (according to my 5’9” girlfriend, I was completely oblivious to that, being around 6’2” myself 99% of women are shorter than me and I never took notice to the guys shooting their shots with them) unless she shows undeniable signs of interest. Which is a double edged sword, you will get dates making the first move but a lot of guys will mistake curiosity for interest and move quickly taking it for granted, thinking they can take her to bed without trying.

GroundbreakingFox504 · 2024-11-18T17:44:15+00:00

softer brows

tac0kat · 2024-11-18T20:54:48+00:00

I would get a different wig! Maybe a higher quality one. I think you are beautiful and would not come across as trans with the proper wig. Your eyebrows are great. I think the wig color is off for your skin tone, like not in your palette. You should try a blonde with a different undertone.

VigilanteJusticia · 2024-11-19T03:50:47+00:00

It’s definitely the wig. Not the height. A friend recommended either watching YouTube videos to make less expensive wigs look much better. Or spend the money on getting a custom one which will be tailored to you. Yes it’s expensive but if this is something that matters to you, I’d recommend it. And depending in what country you’re in, there are organizations who help with this. So look around and best of luck.

feral-pixi-starling · 2024-11-19T03:55:28+00:00

taller than you, never been asked that.

you’re very pretty but you dress like you’re cosplaying as a woman or are in SW. the wig…

Littaballofun · 2024-11-19T08:13:21+00:00

If you want to keep the blonde, get one with a shadow root. It will look a ton more natural on you! I always have the best luck with wigs with a fringe. That way, the hairline can't look fake because you can't see it!

worldlysentiments · 2024-11-18T18:38:01+00:00

I would go to a medium brown/medium length human hair wig, even a shoulder bob would be cute!

RedPillDad · 2024-11-18T22:15:16+00:00

Were you asked in a curious way or with an intention of putting you down? Just as women will use biting comments to put others down, so will men.

I'm curious. Did the question come from a man or a woman? And would the question hit harder coming from one versus the other?

Looking at your photo, your eyes and lips are winning features, accentuated by a thin face. The only thing detracting might be those extreme eyelashes. Reminds me of 'thug barbie' Angel Reese.

Leonhart93 · 2024-11-18T14:23:55+00:00

Height is not a measure of lack of femininity. Easy counter-example: runway models which are predominantly tall. However if you are overall big like having wider shoulders then it might be a factor.

What you can do to offset it: longer hair, feminine clothes (like dresses) and definitely avoid stuff that masculanizes your appearance, like tatoos or piercings.

ArkNemesis00 · 2024-11-18T14:17:57+00:00

I think you look a little like Megan from Katseye. If you have some old pictures with different hair and makeup that could be helpful to see.

Trick-Consequence-18 · 2024-11-18T14:40:22+00:00

Try more subtle, more ‘natural’ looking hair and makeup. Less eyelashes.

Your clothes are actually masculine leaning (blazer, white button up). That might read feminine on some but it’s apparently not working for you. Assuming you’re dressing and it’s not a uniform, you might try a blouse and blazer in softer fabrics with more delicate stitching, a feminine semi fitted sweater in a neutral/feminine color (cream?), and some delicate necklaces to help

Necessary-Sun-8411 · 2024-11-18T19:11:18+00:00

Did you see my profile photo? Or the other photos I posted so I can understand

tequilathehun · 2024-11-19T14:21:47+00:00

You can cut a bit of the front of the wig hairline to make baby hairs, it'll help blend it and make it look a bit more realistic:)

CloudsTasteGeometric · 2024-11-20T20:02:23+00:00

Who asked if you were trans? What was the context?

Maybe they were confused, or just trying to throw shade, or be weird.

You look very feminine and objectively very beautiful. And 5'8" is by no means too tall to be feminine - its hardly qualifies as tall at all to men 5'10" and up.

Beachdog1234 · 2024-11-24T15:27:37+00:00

Based on your pictures, no way. You are very pretty and feminine.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2024-11-18T20:06:43+00:00

So you don't look like a TG to me at all. The hair color doesn't go with your ethnic background. You look like you are an Asian mix so you m ight play more into that. I wouldn't go with shorter hair as it's less feminine in general. Out of curiosity, how tall are you?

DramaticNothing9691 · 2024-11-19T07:04:09+00:00

I’m going to provide a different viewpoint. It doesn’t matter.

You’re good looking. Enough so that most men would want to take you out on a date ( if that’s your preference) . After that, I think it’s a matter of your charm, your ability to connect and understand the person, and your sexual compatibility. I’ve seen some absolutely beautiful bald women Whose confidence speak louder than anything else. Looks matter, confidence in personality trump all, especially if you’re already beautiful

Also, no, you don’t look transgender

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eversummer705 · 2024-11-20T09:46:40+00:00

did you get asked this irl, or online? there is a lot of trolls online who will tell women they looks trans simply because they want to be mean.

Tittytoucher6969 · 2024-11-23T11:40:28+00:00

Lmao your gorgeous.

Its probably your height emasculating dudes. Dudes dont want a chick that can dunk on them🤣

Im about 6"6 and i love tall women because they are more proportionate to my body during sexytime. Personally i find you incredibly physically appealing.

You can safely have confidence.

moonchildcountrygirl · 2024-12-05T02:35:54+00:00

It’s the hair, try something shorter and darker / red with curtain bangs, and more natural lashes. You’re gorgeous though

Title	Do I look feminine
Author	Necessary-Sun-8411
Upvotes	13
Comments	53
Date	November 18, 2024 12:04 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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