My wife of 6 years and partner of 15 filed for divorce almost two months ago out of nowhere. Although the marriage was only 6 years by law, we had a joint account and lived together for over 11 years. For many years I made most of the money and took care of all the finances. After Covid hit real estate in NYC had shut down completely and I began to look for a new career. We started a joint venture as I wanted to become a CTA. She was a paralegal at a top NYC law firm and started law school with a promise to have a job when she graduated. During her time in school not only did I work but I did everything possible to make her life as easy as possible from doing everything in the household to driving her to and from buses and trains for her commute into the city. Not only did I do things for her but I would also drive her brother to and from work for almost two years when he did not have a license. Our plans were always for me to work at home and take care of children once we had them and that is what she wanted. That was the biggest mistake I probably ever made. After she finished law school and passed the bar she ended up filing for divorce less than a month later leaving me solely reliant on her. Our business was joint and not doing well. I also discovered calls and messages when attempting to take care of debts she owed from looking at numbers that she said were calling her on our phone bill. When I confronted her about the texts and calls she completely lied to me and said it was not possible even though they were right on our bill. I never had any reason to doubt her and never looked through her phone so this was all shocking to me. What is disturbing is we were literally trying to have a child less than a month before all this. She cut off all communication by changing her number and making sure I couldn’t contact her like I was some abusive husband which was so far from what I was. She asked me to leave for space after telling me she didn’t need me anymore and refusing to do anything or see anyone to work on any issues with our marriage and simply said it’s unfixable. You can just tell by her nasty attitude she found some new d*ck which was later definitely confirmed after finding out she gave me HPV a month after the divorce was filed. It is crazy how in a matter of a month someone you’ve been with you’re whole life can change in an instant. She thought she was a big time lawyer now and I was just disposable. But she did not stop there. We are almost two months into the process and she filed a TRO for harassment because she refuses to give me any of my clothing or personal property back or sign two years of tax returns that we not only need for our divorce but has a refund over almost $60k. Since the email said please don’t make me come find you to get this stuff done she had told the cops she felt threatened and three of them came to my parents house to serve me with this. In 15 years I had never done anything to her to make her feel like she should be threatened. The thought of her being able to do this is mind blowing. She left me with 1,200, no place to live, no access to my clothing’s or any of my belongings, and an STD from the person she was not calling or texting at all hours of day and night and early morning. While I’m left with nothing she’s collecting a check for almost $30,000 a month. Her thought of being superior because she works for big law now has put her on a whole other level and I can say if it wasn’t for me she probably wouldn’t be there because for the majority of those years I was the one supporting her and paying for her undergrad loans, rent, etc. I sacrificed everything so she could live her dream and we could have a family and this is the thanks I get. The “I don’t want this life anymore”. Anyone else in a remotely similar situation?