Chinese Billionaire pretended to be Average on a dating show and this happened

MosheBenIssac · 2025-03-09T03:43:07+00:00

There was this joke going around in Shanghai years ago, A brain surgeon discovered something when looking inside the brain of Shanghai women. He discover dollar signs all over the brain. It sounded funnier in Chinese.

ZealousidealFly4848 · 2025-03-09T01:16:57+00:00

Chinese women have always been materialistic. Sad reality

gittenlucky · 2025-03-09T01:24:38+00:00

$790M USD

gmnotyet · 2025-03-09T01:54:10+00:00

| 5,700,000,000 Chinese Yuan equals 787,918,410.00 United States Dollar

Wow.

5.7 billion yuan = $788 million dollars.

Almost a billionaire in US dollars.

corporate_robot_dude · 2025-03-09T05:07:17+00:00

I'm Chinese and unfortunately this video isn't even exaggerating the behavior of many modern Chinese women. I'm no where near this guy's wealth, but I am a low key millionaire in my 30's. It's actually quite difficult finding someone genuine, and all my male friends share similar experiences with dating asian women. All these passport bros thinking going to an asian country to find a wife are out of their minds. Asian women are extremely intelligent when it comes to manipulating men. It's a social status competition amongst them to find the richest man. Often times their families are in on it too and will guilt trip your wallet dry. Western guys only have the novelty factor going for them, asian women know these sort of men are usually the brokeass losers of their countries. They still would rather opt for a successful CEO (from either the west or east), but they may drain a passport bro's wallet in the meantime.

The more attractive they are the crazier. But what's funny is even the 2's and 3's are intolerable these days too. I have a friend who is truly a man with a kind heart, willing to go for this 3 because at first she had a good personality. Quite literally the face only a mother could love. But as he got to know her, even she turned out to have dellusional expectations. As a simp, even he could not put up with it.

OH and lastly, the dellusion for how good looking they actually look (and therefore expect to be treated) is a problem too. On the internet you'll see SO many attractive asian girls on social media. But asians are the masters of using filters and makeup in real life. Sometimes they forget how average they really are.

No one wants to be alone, but in this day and age, opting out seems to be the only sane path.

tiredfromlife2019 · 2025-03-09T07:06:22+00:00

The 80/20 rule is not a virus. It's hypergamy. It has always existed just that it was constrained by society and technology not allowing women the ability to see everything in the world.

So as women advance in the world, the more hypergamy is released from restraints.

NoAntelope2026 · 2025-03-08T23:39:45+00:00

It was ever thus. They're just more open about it now.

FH-7497 · 2025-03-09T16:52:14+00:00

It’s called hypergamy and it’s the byproduct of female biology. Women don’t like to admit that the rules society made for them was because it was necessary for cultural survival (same is true for men)

aigars2 · 2025-03-09T11:39:29+00:00

This proves all love related TV shows are nonsense. That's why you never see those people together after the show.

Happy_Secret_1299 · 2025-03-09T12:58:28+00:00

So not for nothing. The 80/20 rule always existed for female attraction. Society controlled it via marriage in the past.

It’s like the same thing when you see a girl who is a 3 on the looks scale. Most men wouldn’t want to be seen with her. But with family planning and marriage society controlled for this.

All bets are off however in post feminist society and you can see the differences when we don’t control genders for their natural instincts.

Fact is men know when they’re in the top 20 percentile because they actually get female attention. Which makes them less inclined to settle down with just one woman. Which drives to some extent the problems we see today.

But really, 80 percent of men were always invisible to women. That’s just how attraction works. Since the dawn of time.

Welcome to reality my brother.

Prestigious-Hippo950 · 2025-03-09T15:52:54+00:00

You've really made me sad today watching this. About 6 yrs ago I was at a family dinner or birthday. One of the husbands was talking to my Uncle and then turned to me and said "So (my name) can FINALLY get a real job" in a mocking tone. a couple people at the table laughed. Of course I had a "real job,", it just wasn't seen as a real job in his eyes. I can't believe I let that slide without checking his ass but I didn't want to make a bigger dinner scene that was already made out of it during my grandmothers birthday.

Cloxxki · 2025-03-11T18:46:41+00:00

Women expect a man to end their struggles, and her lifestyle to be lifted an order of magnitude higher. The man is expected to he already fully built, women don't seem to believe in a man working towards dreams and accomplishing them, and they most certainly won't invest in supporting him without hard guarantees.

Men on the other hand, demand only virtues from women, not diplomas, income or even old money. They want a woman who will be there for the good times and the bad times, and who will do her part supporting her man, building him up where she can contribute in her own ways.

The Chinese women in such clips seem to not spend a word on feelings, spirituality, mental states, happiness, just status. As a man who's held a woman and changed her spiraling mental state in a matter of seconds, I know the real value in a man is not the money he makes, although it can be a perk.

Where are women like Amy Earnhardt, Madi Mitchell and others that end up with public outreach race car drivers? Such women use to be THE NORM, now we're supposed to see them as unicorns or even [expletives]?

Black-Patrick · 2025-03-09T12:55:06+00:00

Hahaha, harpies.

Razaberry · 2025-03-09T21:06:41+00:00

None of the women’s or crowds reactions are shown in the video

Mechanik_J · 2025-03-10T10:31:09+00:00

I mean, Mythbusters did this too. Showing hypergamy when one set of women were shown dudes with working class jobs, then another group of women were shown the same guys, but with professional jobs like a doctor or lawyer.

But it really comes down to women dating pragmatically. And men dating for romance.

toblotron · 2025-03-09T09:01:39+00:00

In a way i can understand most of the reactions of the female contestants. If the translation was correct, he basically asked for a girlfriend who could support him and his parents, while he seemingly had no realistic prospects for financial improvement in the future

I don't think life on China is likely to be any dance on roses - who would want to start a relationship with someone who seems so likely to lead them into a future of financial hardship?

In my own, relatively care-free country, I would not expect his situation to be That much cause for concern, as there are social safety-nets, though I think even here his started situation would not exactly attract any women

Golden-Grate-242 · 2025-03-10T06:47:08+00:00

I think asian men have it particularly hard. I say this as a tall white guy with a good asian single guy friend. He said on apps he just gets ignored or even bitchy comments. I believe that there is some element of natural selection at play due to the shorter stature and there being a desire for height programmed in for reproduction. Simply put its a disadvantage that they have less inches upstairs and downstairs on average. I think there may be some remnant of "white is better" BS as well among asian women?

2025-03-12T14:43:30+00:00

It's not becoming anything, don't be naive. It's always been like this and always will be. But, there will always be good women out there too who see beyond status and wealth, they are just less common.

Eden_Company · 2025-03-09T05:07:55+00:00

The funny part is I've met some billionaires through this process XD. If you're nice to everyone and treat everyone well you're bound to find nice people. Keeping them is another headache but having them be friends is another thing too.

Own_Cardiologist_956 · 2025-03-13T05:04:33+00:00

The more developed the country is, the more materialistic the women there will be. As a Chinese, i feel like Chinese women seem to be more 'pure' on their materialism because China is not only an extreme right capitalistic Country, but also got this tradition of competing for limited resources, trade life and blood for superficial mundane success like money and social status. This earth cultivated women's worst side, especially younger generations who are patronized as little princess their whole life.

Gengis-Naan · 2025-03-15T16:36:39+00:00

I bet that 80/20 "rule" is the same for men, only it's probably more like 95/5.

Individual_Hold_4661 · 2025-03-09T01:52:26+00:00

I'm a straight man and I don't see the point. Naive, idealistic dreamers have always had an air of 'repugnancy' around them, regardless of their sex. It's (typically) an indication of psychological immaturity. When he revealed himself to be a billionaire, of course he becomes attractive again. Money is sexy, wealth is an indicator that something is 'right' / 'life-giving'.

OkSet2015 · 2025-08-02T09:59:10+00:00

Have seen like 4 different versions of this story and all different footage with BS A.I narration so click bait

donaldyoung26 · 2025-03-09T04:31:49+00:00

This video is ragebait. its sooooo stupid!!!!

In the video it lists these things

Pretty man, relatively young? Well dressed well mannered

job. front desk receptions

3000 yuan or 414 USD PER MONTH 36000 yuan per YEAR

living with his parents

no house

no car

father is a worker

mother has mobility issues

not finanacially well off

10 000+ yuan in debt

Average catering employees make more than this fake receptionist.

In 2023, the average annual salary for employees in urban China was around 120,700 yuan, with significant regional and industry variations, such as IT sector employees earning about 231,800 yuan and hotel/catering sector employees earning around 58,100 yuan.

GOOD EXAMPLE

If list of attributes went like

[50k USD per year ,Plus commissions. Im in sales. Im still learning my trade. I aim to double and triple my income in the next 2-3 years. I mingle with high level executives everyday to learn what I can from them. I DONT have any debt. I have great credit. I live alone. I dont rely on my parents. I rent and I wont be buying a house because buying a house in America is a money losing proposition. Unless ofc you are buying in the middle of the country where houses are 100k. I dont have a car but will buy one that is 4-8 years used. Definitely dont mention that your mother has disability.

Cherry on top hes relatively young and handsome. ]

This would be a great example to test on the show.

What that guy said in the show SHOULD be rejected by every human being in the world!! male or female

lmao

PhulHouze · 2025-03-09T12:35:32+00:00

Meh, there is definitely some harshness in the way the female contestants communicated with him, a lot of which is due to cultural/language differences.

But at the end of the day, this guy is deceiving everyone and pretending it makes him some hero.

And the women are being reasonable. He comes in presenting an image of prosperity, and then shares a story of woe and low achievement. Yet at the same time painting a picture of a fairy-tale life. (Which somehow ends with opening a bar!?)

People can unconsciously pick up on inconvenience - when things just don’t add up. And it’s one of our least-favorite qualities in a person. You could say his deception was as much at fault for the rejection as his feigned poverty.

Tireless_AlphaFox · 2025-03-09T01:33:46+00:00

This is literally patriarchy, and some people still deny its existence and how it harms men

Title	Chinese Billionaire pretended to be Average on a dating show and this happened
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Date	March 8, 2025 11:04 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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