Who do you think is the best seduction trainer in the world?

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-04-05T18:14:58+00:00

You don’t need the “best person” to teach you, a good enough would be decent. I know there’s a few guys out there who do the full time pro training like the movie “Hitch”. Basically one on one full time for a few weeks with accustomed lessons based on your unique personality, instead of putting you together with other guys in a small room and charge everyone the same price regardless differences of social skills everyone has in that room. They cost a lot, like $10K+. But of course guys like them they don’t promote themselves, let alone making videos on social media. They already got enough clients fully booked for an entire year.

I personally believe who your teacher is doesn’t really matter that much. Because we talk about (social) skills. That means you gotta practice even after being intensely taught. Your practices matter more.

MysteryLiezer · 2025-04-05T17:56:16+00:00

Come to NYC, and I got you!

becomesharp · 2025-04-05T20:28:16+00:00

Brother, you're a newbie who likely can't approach (and there's nothing wrong with that) but youre worried about how to "get women in bed fast" and also (disturbingly), how to "manipulate women and fuck them." Also, you said you have no money. There are so many things wrong with this equation.

Without knowing much else about you, i would recommend therapy first. It sounds like there's a lot of deep seated issues going on here that coaching can't fix.

Plastic_Friendship55 · 2025-04-05T22:33:55+00:00

I think every man who has reach a high level of seduction skills has found his own path.

There are plenty of influencers out there are self pronounced dating experts (even in this sub) who can give you the basics. Because basics can be learned in a million ways and pretty fast. PUA were great teaching the basics. The trad cons who teach you how to be a gentleman can teach you the basics. Mernie The wing girl can teach you the basics. Actually you can teach yourself the basics. That’s how all men 35+ learned it before there was a financial market for “dating skills” and that was a natural part of being a teen.

That’s because the basic are pretty easy to learn and you can mess up a million times without many consequences.

So it doesn’t matter what you do. You don’t need at coach or pay money to learn the basics. Just do something.

If you want to reach higher levels and like you say “get sex fast” basics aren’t enough. And it’s a lot of effort and hard work, years, to reach that level. It’s s personal journey and even though people can point you too different paths, it’s something you have to do on your own. You have to learn, practice and adept based on your personality and situation. Lots of introspection.

I had the basics in place in my late teens. I could get laid. I went on dates. I couldn’t be picky and luck played a large role. After years of learning to master things like social skills, social competence and emotional resonance (the path I chose), I reached a point where I could get sex very fast, always have options and pretty much it’s always the woman who approaches me. Nobody taught me that. Nobody could because it was about me being observant of my own and other’s vibes and energies. Day after day for years. But it worked and definitely worth it.

But start with getting the basics in order.

thisisnotme__-- · 2025-04-05T18:15:41+00:00

Magic, the guy who runs Attraction Methods. His marketing videos might not convince you. His accent might make you skeptical. But the guy knows his shit and, more importantly, is very good at teaching.

Most people don’t consider the fact that teaching is itself a skill and most people don’t have it. Magic does.

KoleSekor · 2025-04-05T18:50:18+00:00

I am definitely not the best in the world, but it is my goal to be the best one day. Right now, with my book finally finished, I'm taking on new clients for next to nothing, just so I can get better and create the best program possible. Please feel free to take me up on this (or anyone interested for that matter).

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-06T01:28:32+00:00

The best trainer is yourself. What I recommend is learning the free avalaible material first, get started and only hire a coach after that. A coach can specialize to your needs.

If you want sex fast with girls you probably need to lower your expectations. My first lay was around 450 approaches, but I didn't have a coach back then, so I was a bumbling fool

See my post on how to learn pickup to get a rough roadmap on what you should focus on and learn.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2025-04-05T18:09:30+00:00

A trainer is going to hype you up and you may do well for the time you are with them but when you go back to normality you will realise you wasted money and more importantly time.

Trainers only work for people who are nearly there and need small push.

MettaKaruna100 · 2025-04-05T18:19:16+00:00

Karisma King

Kobe_curry24 · 2025-04-06T14:49:22+00:00

Todd V is greatest of all time if y’all would just go watch his videos or join some of his shit idk if he still does boot camps , but he would save y’all time from coming up here and posting rookie questions he literally outlines everything you need to do to get good with women ,not just Rpd but actually having a relationship with women , the next one is Pat Stedman he’s on Twitter , and has a YouTube and he’s cool as Fck you could Dm him and he would hit you with a response but he’s a paid coach

Majestic_Bet6187 · 2025-04-07T01:11:34+00:00

Julien Blanc. Heck even a mid one like Ross Jeffries would be awesome

JoeGoldberg79 · 2025-04-05T17:56:54+00:00

mystery, ross Jeffries, styles (aka Neil Strauss)

niktrop0000 · 2025-04-05T19:37:00+00:00

Modern: Todd V, Old School: Mystery

johnny-faux · 2025-04-05T20:06:22+00:00

michael sairtain. follow his instagram. he is around hot girls constantly. he has many threesomes and such with them. his bootcamp is pretty sweeet as well. couldnt recommend it more highly. saw delayed success, but pretty damn good success. check him out!

Turbulent_Cry3134 · 2025-04-05T20:47:01+00:00

You guys really think it's about the "game" in 2025?

koolestkidever123 · 2025-04-06T04:29:52+00:00

Brother that’s not gonna fulfill you , find god

Title	Who do you think is the best seduction trainer in the world?
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Date	April 5, 2025 5:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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