I asked 100 girls on a date

furkanx32 · 2025-04-12T19:47:05+00:00

I will always have respect for a man who goes out there and approaches girls instead of social media dating. I feel like a man needs to go through that cold approach phase to get over his fears of talking to hot girls. I’ve done it and I don’t regret a bit.

TuneSoft7119 · 2025-04-12T20:07:58+00:00

I did that once in college and I got 100 rejections.

carlos11111111112 · 2025-04-12T22:31:31+00:00

Most of them seemed to find you attractive. Only thing is you come off as not very serious even at the end you always say “No worries it’s ok, no worries.” Kinda like just throwing darts 🎯 at a wall. I used to do the same thing that’s why it stands out so much to me. Ask them out like you mean it and you are into them.

PrinceDestin · 2025-04-12T19:35:58+00:00

Keep at it, I know you can build a big fanbase and props to you for approaching that much

I don’t even think I approached 80 in my entire life Most girls I’ve talked to was from online But I’m getting there

KoleSekor · 2025-04-12T21:51:15+00:00

Bro this is very cool. Well done and thanks for sharing.

One issue that you're going to have is that you're not showing these women you actually find them special. To them, it seems like you'd settle for any date with any woman and that's going to make them reject you.

It's walking a line of demonstrating she's special without being needy or desperate.

Ok_Potential359 · 2025-04-13T03:29:37+00:00

Props dude. You gave me the confidence to try this challenge myself but just for myself.

IanPowers26 · 2025-04-12T21:16:35+00:00

Loved the video. Way to push yourself out of your comfort zone! Also you look like a fun guy! Subscribed.

Also, from another guy with social anxiety, and who never can imagine doing this, how did you get yourself in the right headspace before making this video? Did you focus on some exercise, maybe talk to strangers who weren't girls first? Or did you just said ''fuck it'' and just started without much planning beforehand?

Zestyclose_Slice_492 · 2025-04-13T00:15:49+00:00

Great video idea, looking forward to seeing more of your content. Maybe doing longer approaches with conversations? I know I could personally learn a lot from seeing someone else’s style.

BuyHighValueWomanNow · 2025-04-13T01:38:31+00:00

nice

epimpstyle · 2025-04-13T08:18:53+00:00

These types of videos are always funny and perfect for a YouTube/ TikTok video. However, they are purely for entertainment, and they are completely ineffective in real-life situations.

Chipster339 · 2025-04-13T15:38:50+00:00

The girl that asked “how tall are you?” has me dead

TeraWolverine · 2025-04-12T22:20:17+00:00

I'm doing a similar challenge to overcome my social anxiety but I am not filming and not asking them on a date, like basically I would just get their instagram or other social media

JustAnotherGorilla · 2025-04-12T22:43:24+00:00

I can’t bring myself to do this. It’s like my own brain blocks me

Gray_Gray_Gray · 2025-04-13T03:15:00+00:00

I'm inspired by Ur Channel bro, I wanna try to do the same video format but I don't think it'll work in an Asian University lmao. America is very open-minded maybe it'll be scary

Untitled_Memes · 2025-04-13T03:36:10+00:00

I've seen your video. Kudos to u for taking the courage to approach them asking a complete stranger out. Ontop of that going above and beyond by sharing Ur experience with us!

Thank u

PegasusIsHot · 2025-04-13T04:09:54+00:00

"Uhh... I'm 14" Wildest part of that video

warfunder · 2025-04-13T04:23:34+00:00

What is your video gear

MeteoraRed · 2025-04-13T05:19:57+00:00

Kudos to your courage and efforts 🌟

aerosteelzero · 2025-04-13T06:09:11+00:00

well done!

devonthed00d · 2025-04-13T07:19:25+00:00

So what was the final numbers & what was the most effective opener?

DickDraper · 2025-04-13T11:04:11+00:00

Exposure response prevention is a valuable tool for anxiety

Tiny-Parsley-3959 · 2025-04-14T17:00:04+00:00

Maaan you will have much better results if you make the approaches with the intent of actually getting their number. It totally seemed like you just only wanted to make a clip about approaches and build some confidence, not actually dating them which just shattered your results!

kidcatti · 2025-04-13T06:26:57+00:00

This is not beating anxiety. You still lack the proper skills to form a real deep connection with someone.

When I worked at a call center I could easily chat with 50+ people a day and maintained a 98% or higher satisfactory rating.

Does that mean I am an A+ conversationalist? No it means I know how to parrot things to strangers I’m never going to entertain again.

Find a few girls you’re actually interested in then narrow that down to 1 or 2 and actually make an effort to get to know that person, what they like or dislike. They will do the same for you and your social anxiety will fade naturally. This won’t do anything for your condition unless you’re just looking to become some kind of public speaker who can’t actually talk to a girl in real life.

DeityofDeath · 2025-04-12T22:04:03+00:00

Yo bro the fact that youve even done this means you are leaps ahead of anyone else. This is inspiring and makes you think how easy it really is

Conscious-Smell-8844 · 2025-04-13T03:12:58+00:00

Pretty impressive what you were able to accomplish. Approaching more women in a few days/weeks than some men will EVER approach in their life!

Out of curiosity - the ones that said yes - did you actually follow up? Do you know your conversion rate from yes to date = actual date?

MapacheD · 2025-04-13T02:52:00+00:00

on my city 100 girls then you are asking half of the woman there

PrudentLandscape7229 · 2025-04-13T03:49:33+00:00

Muito interessante cara. Costumo abordar garotas na rua e tenho registrado algumas dessas abordagem.

Chipster339 · 2025-04-13T15:41:46+00:00

It feels fake, you aren’t showing your actual first approach to the girls.

You are showing that at some point in the middle of a conversation where you already introduced yourself off camera you say that.

And honestly that’s the hardest part. Get talking with a girl and you skip it entirely

rallaqueso · 2025-04-13T16:55:26+00:00

Basically you just showed how easy is to talk to women

as an idea, you can also help other guys to overcome the anxiety on a group. Like approaching group of girls with a group of boys.

MiataMX5NC · 2025-04-13T19:39:59+00:00

I'm impressed, that takes some courage

fuzzyandred · 2025-04-16T19:18:00+00:00

This post resonates with me as I deleted all my online dating accounts. I got dates, but it was just getting dates on easy mode. I need a higher difficulty if I want to improve as a man.

Ok_Salamander_9011 · 2025-04-17T07:06:02+00:00

Bro you are definitely amazing, I have much respect people who push themselves. Keep it up

iblameLaurent · 2025-04-17T17:19:37+00:00

Cold is mint. Respect.

allanjameson · 2025-04-13T04:47:58+00:00

You go up to groups of girls and ask if they’d go on a date with you? It sounds like you’re taking a survey to see if you’re attractive. You need to learn game. You’ll learn quickly that you need to get their guard down and ask them out after talking for at least 5 minutes. Even if they give you their # you haven’t built enough rapport for them to go Out with you. You’ll just get ghosted. This video is just a farce

MrPound4Pound · 2025-04-19T03:51:23+00:00

this isn't proper approaching at all. This is no different than the phone rejection drill I use to do where I would walk up to random attractive women and immediately ask for a number to practice some desensitization to rejection.

Just replace asking for a number with asking for a date and it's literally the same rejection drill. Are you even trying to have a conversation with any of the women cause based off the one chick who said they would go on a date if they knew you better shows me you just walked up to them and asked this question.

All your doing is throwing a rock at the ocean and hoping to hit a fish.

Title	I asked 100 girls on a date
Author	DawnSparky
Upvotes	196
Comments	61
Date	April 12, 2025 7:28 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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