How to change my mindset around men’s emotions?

Forsaken-Sand-5268 · 2025-04-12T23:18:43+00:00

You have to choose to change nobody can do that for you.

VladTheGlarus · 2025-04-12T23:24:25+00:00

It's ok, most men learn at some point of their lives that women experience "the ick" when they see us weak or vulnerable. We all do this mistake ONCE. Only once.

We've been conditioned since age of 5 to not cry, "be a big boy", "you are a man", "don't be a pussy"... and not just by random people but by our own mothers usually.

We figure out that any display of vulnerability is a social, professional and romantic suicide. We just don't have an outlet to express emotional pain, because if we do that women start resenting us.

So not only we are in pain and in our most vulnarable point, but when we see the "ick" in a woman's eyes we then start feeling humiliated and embarassed. You feel less than human, less than animal, more like a piece of furniture that's broken and needs to be disposed of. Useless. It's soul crushing and dehumanizing.

And we literally can see "the ick" - it's like the light in your mother / GF / wife / friend's eyes just goes away and gets washed with repulsiveness and disdain. It's like a switch that flips. All the adoration, love, respect, kindness - gone there and then.

So what can you do? I have no clue, I personally think it'ssome kind of an instinct women have in their lizard brain. But props for admiting "the ick" to yourself and trying to grow as a person. Most women I've met don't.

michaelpaoli · 2025-04-13T06:34:55+00:00

I feel uncomfortable when I see men cry. It makes me think they’re unstable, weak, and less of a man.

Yeah, ... you need to work on that ... noting about a man crying necessarily implies unstable, weak, or less of a man.

I know I’m young

Yep, lots to learn, ... I'm 60+ and still keep learning - there's always more to learn.

worry about feeling that he’s somehow less of a man

Well, your feeling about that may adjust over time, notably as you better learn what it really is and means to be a man, and what does, and does not, matter in that regard.

Punder_man · 2025-04-13T01:26:13+00:00

I'm not offended at all however this does help support the reason why we as men are closed off and don't expose our feelings..
Because I can guarantee that OP isn't the only woman who feels this way..

And sadly, there are women who will weaponize a man's emotional vulnerability against him at a later date.
Or there are women out there who are more open about their disgust / feeling of men who are emotional as being "weak"

As such we as men are quickly conditioned to not open up emotionally around women because it either is ineffective at best or potentially harmful to us at worst..

And yet we are also blamed for "Not opening up emotionally"
Its a bit of a no win scenario for us men..

If we open up emotionally we are "Weak"
If we don't open up emotionally we are exhibiting "Toxic Masculinity"

organicchemistry1119 · 2025-04-13T05:44:20+00:00

Well, in the cases where you have a strong man that just happens to "wear his heart on his sleeve," just think about the fact that when things matter, he's dependable / strong, possibly (but not necessarily) even stronger than the ones that always seem strong.

I doubt that feeling you have would translate to your boys / male children, though, even if you can't overcome it for men in general (because, if I'm right, that's a sexual selection thing, and you presumably wouldn't see your boys / male children in that way).

What I really take issue with, regarding what you said, is that you said, when they cry, you lose respect for men, which is different than just being sexually unattracted to them (even though that can very often be an ineffective sexual selection strategy).

World-Three · 2025-04-13T12:52:52+00:00

Being scared of spiders is more rational than losing respect for a man for caring about things enough to cry.

The fact that you're considering resenting men for having the ability to cry without unreasonable damage to your opinion of them is more selfish than anything because it should tell you that you feel you're doing something you don't have to do. Like being diplomatic with someone who almost got you fired.

The way you change your mindset is to change what you think a man is. Just the same as men have been encouraged to do for women's body positivity and gender roles. A fat girl is still a girly worthy of respect, just as a woman who can't cook clean take care of the house is.

Why would you even want to be attracted to someone who you won't even let show you a raw real emotion? Ask yourself that. Why are you perpetuating and substantiating an emotion that will hurt you as an individual and every relationship that has a man who cries at any point, for whatever reason?

Why are the only men you care about losing respect for family? That's like saying I'm cool hating all women but I love my mom sister cousin daughter wife etc... You're not going to know if you're going to get better at this unless you respect EVERYONE. Women struggle with this so much. You can treat people well without them needing to be your boyfriend friend or hubby. That friend who cried that you lost respect for. Respect him. Respect the fact he came to you to cry, and respect yourself for being worthy of that interaction.

True respect means valuing another person's inherent worth, acknowledging their feelings and opinions, and treating them with consideration and dignity, even when you disagree. It's about accepting someone for who they are, respecting their boundaries, and recognizing their unique experiences and perspectives. Respect is also about treating others the way you would want to be treated yourself, showing kindness, and being mindful of their feelings and needs.

When AI understands respect better than people do...

Quarto6 · 2025-04-13T00:11:26+00:00

Ask a counselor, not random people on the Internet. The cruel response you're describing is ingrained and will take work to root out. Somewhere along the way someone taught you this fucked up way of thinking. It's good you're aware of it, but you're going to to need help getting to the bottom of it and being held accountable when it surfaces. I guarantee you if you respond this way to men's emotions, you have other gender role related shit you need to deal with.

Shedding · 2025-04-13T02:08:22+00:00

I am going to tell you this only once. Men have feelings. Real deep, sad, strong feelings. That's it. We will probably only cry once and learn our lesson to never ever show this side of us.

DecrepitAbacus · 2025-04-13T12:59:54+00:00

and less of a man

It isn't your place to be determining what constitutes a man whether good, bad or indifferent.

No_Reaction_2168 · 2025-04-13T10:58:59+00:00

Firstly, identify why it is so important to you that men are strong at all times instead of seeing them as fellow human beings with slightly different body parts. We're not robots and I'm sorry to say, but if you expect a man to push away his feelings every time he feels an emotion strongly simply because it makes you uncomfortable ... you're not ready to be with a man nor are you ready to have a son. Do you hear how selfish you sound? "I know that he's going through severe emotional distress, but he should have just bottled it up like a real man because I can't handle a man who displays any form of emotion!"

It's likely that society has made you believe that men don't cry. It's a lie of course, even that Chad you find so irresistable will cry sometimes. Just not in front of you, this is exactly why. Ladies love to virtue signal about displaying emotions and how it's okay for men to be vulnerable in public, but the reality is that the way you're feeling about it is the norm, not the exception.

throwout176 · 2025-04-13T13:24:58+00:00

At a minimum, I would hope you and any other women who are conscious of this can avoid denying this with men in the future. It's so frustrating having women say stuff like "you can X and still be a real man" or talk about "toxic masculinity." Because at the end of the day, all masculinity is is the grouping of traits that are considered attractive to most women. Telling a man to avoid these is lying at best, or setting him up for loneliness at worst.

CharmingSama · 2025-04-13T14:46:39+00:00

you need to learn to look past him being a man and see that he is as human as you are... in this gendered world, thats something that is often overlooked. think about all the emotions you experience and consider how those emotions are not just female emotions being felt, but human emotions being felt. there's a difference between experiencing emotion and expressing emotion. what we focus on in the moment often takes the main position of what we consider, so if you focus on how you feel about a man crying, you will over look seeing another human suffer. remember, men expressing emotion is just proof that he is as human as you are...

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2025-04-13T13:49:05+00:00

You are in front of a paradox. What you think and what you feel are two very different things. You could always begin by asking the question: Why am I losing respect for him? And everytime you answer, ask why. Till you reach the wrong core believe.

It's very funny at times

lazymud68 · 2025-04-13T00:23:13+00:00

Women like you make life even worse for men. I literally rather be alone with no support than a partner like you who would just crush me even more.

Women like you are why men should stop giving a shit about what women think of us. We should love ourselves and female approval shouldn't mean anything to us.

Key_Butterscotch1009 · 2025-04-12T23:48:44+00:00

Understanding Carl Jung thought on Shadow Work might help in creating a healthier mindset.

Clan-Destin · 2025-04-13T00:55:38+00:00

Good morning,

As some say, but not enough for my taste, thank you for being honest and that you come to ask the question here proves that you are trying to make the right choice

For me it's not a question of biology but of education, your father is stoic and your mother doesn't cry so crying in others is foreign to you, especially if they are male

Yes, men have the right to cry and as some have said in general we don't show that more than once because we are often immediately confronted with what you are experiencing now except that to my knowledge few (adult) women make the effort that you make here, which further underlines your maturity

Some people talked about going to see a professional and I would also go in this direction, otherwise you will carry the seeds of oppression, not recognizing the pain of the other for what it is, and over time evolution will cause you to reduce it until complete annihilation.

I am now going to address an essential and difficult point, does talking about it with your friend seem possible to you? If you really are friends and close, it seems essential to me to help each other on an equal footing, then your values will be true and libertarian, for the sake of understanding I still recommend that you do not dwell too much for the moment on the disgust that can provoke male tears to keep the dialogue open

Maybe later explain to him what you might have felt?

Whatever happens, be well and keep up the good work

Stardread1997 · 2025-04-12T23:34:28+00:00

Women are manipulative by nature. When not applied to her husband's benifit or a similar, the manipulation is destructive. You are seeing weakness without the need to even probe for it. So obviously it's a turn off for you. And this is where you failed as a woman: you would rather see him crumble than work to his benifit, which would actually be to your benifit. As his success would raise you as well. You saw him as a glass half empty instead of half full. You were looking at him as something to take from rather than something to fill.

This is coming from a man, so my wording and reasoning may not align well with you. But you should put this post to your saved posts. This information I just gave you is valuable if you use it for good.

EDIT: fixed fumble finger typing mistakes.

Valus22 · 2025-04-13T07:20:25+00:00

You suck. Good on you for being honest but still, you suck. Men are real people with deep emotions and thoughts. Many men experience sadness and despair deeper than you could imagine. I’ve been hurt by multiple women like you and it caused me to not be able open up to/get close to women anymore. Pls don’t have kids.

YetAnotherCommenter · 2025-04-13T05:57:52+00:00

Good for you.

You've identified one of the bad components of the female lizard brain. The lizard brain is where all the sex differences are (the neocortex is sex-neutral from what we can see, although men are better with 3d spatial rotation tasks).

And frankly you've displayed impressive self-awareness when identifying it and analyzing it. You're aware that this trait is a form of Toxic Femininity.

Here's the good news: forewarned is forearmed. The first step at managing a cognitive bias or "ick" like this is to know of it, and know that it is unfair and irrational. Basically you've already done the hardest part.

What you have to do next is to use your rational brain to hold these lizard-brain impulses in check. This is a matter of mindfulness and habituation. Basically, you have to keep remembering that male pain and suffering is just as real and valid as female pain and suffering, and remind yourself of it regularly, and disown those internal 'icks' as unfair and cruel.

Eventually, your feelings should start to follow your conscious thoughts, or at least be more in tune with them than they previously were.

EnormousPurpleGarden · 2025-04-13T13:21:38+00:00

You seem to know that your reaction is wrong, yet are unable to change how you react. That's above reddit's pay grade. You need to talk to a psychologist.

xaliadouri · 2025-04-12T23:43:15+00:00

First off, it's great you're honest. If you get backlash, remember you have the integrity to look hard in the mirror, and that says a lot about you! It's actually noble to provide comfort despite your secret lack of empathy.

Many (not all) women have this problem. Like bell hooks said in "The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love":

When I was in my twenties, I would go to couples therapy, and my partner of more than ten years would explain how I asked him to talk about his feelings and when he did, I would freak out. He was right. It was hard for me to face that I did not want to hear about his feelings when they were painful or negative, that I did not want my image of the strong man truly challenged by learning of his weaknesses and vulnerabilities.

Here I was, an enlightened feminist woman who did not want to hear my man speak his pain because it revealed his emotional vulnerability. It stands to reason, then, that the masses of women committed to the sexist principle that men who express their feelings are weak really do not want to hear men speak, especially if what they say is that they hurt, that they feel unloved. Many women cannot hear male pain about love because it sounds like an indictment of female failure. Since sexist norms have taught us that loving is our task whether in our role as mothers or lovers or friends, if men say they are not loved, then we are at fault; we are to blame.

Anyone who finds this odd can imagine: What if your male CEO or teacher occasionally had a nice cry? I imagine many would start polishing their CVs. We live in a brutal, superficial world that punishes such things.

If this phenomenon is rooted partly in biology, not just culture, it'll be tricky to rewire. Maybe you can see it as artistic; don't artists weep? Or the tears of a warrior? Could you expose yourself to images of strong beautiful men crying?

Furthermore, it could help for you to just be upfront to male friends & boyfriends about it, sympathetically counseling them to find friends better at this. We can't all be perfect friends for everyone in every situation.

Myron from Fresh & Fit counsels men never to cry in front of women, because you never know if she's the sort who loses respect over it. It's best if we were all upfront about these things, so it's not just up to shockjocks to tell the truth.

dougpschyte · 2025-04-13T07:33:09+00:00

https://menaregood.com/the-invisible-blue-taboo-the-burden-of-boys-and-men/

This should help you understand that your inbuilt reactions are common to nearly all women.

ColdCold4558 · 2025-04-15T01:02:00+00:00

We’re not offended, this is very typical but also why most of us really don’t value your opinion

user147852369 · 2025-04-13T00:42:49+00:00

Probably a good candidate for exposure therapy I'd imagine. Talk to more men. Ideally in an emotional context. Focus on how your brain is processing the interactions with a specific focus on understanding the visceral reaction you have.

SidewaysGiraffe · 2025-04-13T00:46:24+00:00

No offense taken- not by me, at least. You're confronting an ugly, deeply entrenched reality, and whenever you do something like that, it's best to make sure you know the truth. Only then can you be sure you're going in the right direction. And heading down this path means fighting not just cultural indoctrination, but biological roots; you're in for a hell of a fight. Let's look an even darker thing than thinking someone weak:

I turned eighteen when my country was getting ready to go to war with Iraq, and I was terrified the SS (the military slavers) would come knocking for me. When they sent me the registration card (legally, they considered my filling it out and sending it back to be "consenting" to their actions, even though they'd send me to prison if I refused), my mother saw it before I did, and was furious when I told her I had no intention of sending it in. We had the longest, most intense fight we ever had (and believe me, that's saying a lot), and were still going at it when dad got home. My father had faced the same threat during Vietnam, and I knew that HE, at least, would be in my corner.

He wasn't.

He demanded to know what was going on, I thrust the card in his face, and he collapsed into a chair, staring at it. Mom and I waited silently, each hoping he'd come in on their side, but he didn't. He just sat and stared. I don't think I even saw him blink. Finally, mom and I started up again without him, and when I stormed off to my room some time later, he still hadn't moved.

Everyone assured me the danger was purely theoretical; that "it would never happen" and "I had nothing to worry about". I know this because I turned to my other sources of support: aunts, uncles, my surviving grandfather, my friends and peers- and NO ONE was willing to make enough of a stink about it to see anything change. After all, it wasn't a REAL danger.

Then the President said it was time to reassemble the draft boards. I saw a perfect opportunity, and went to the SS's website to fill out an application request; they said they'd mail me one. Perfect. I stopped getting the mail, sat back, and waited. A few weeks later, mom approached me in an odd mixed state of fury and relief, saying that she'd seen the letter from the SS and briefly panicked- and that was when I struck.

I placed my hand on her shoulder and pulled her close, telling her that what she'd felt when she saw that letter was what I had felt every single day since the registration card arrived- and that when I'd objected, she'd chastised me for it. What was a moment of fear for her had been months of terror for me, and looked like it would be YEARS more. Shifting my hands to her shirt collar, I pulled her face right next to mine and asked: NOW do you understand? NOW do you see why I intended to refuse what was obviously wrong?

She didn't. My mother- who was not just my mother, but the single most caring and empathetic person I have ever known- still couldn't get it through her head that I valued my life more than her convenience.

And the really heartbreaking thing? If you ever find yourself in the same place, you'll do the same thing. Hey, prove me wrong. Please, for the love of God and humanity, prove me wrong.

Now, there are those- you'll probably see a few of them in the comments- who think that women are incapable of self-reflection, or defying the social consensus, or other such hooey. It's nonsense; you're just as capable as we are- you just have different internal obstacles.

Consider the stereotypical vegan (not the typical vegan; they're usually not so bad in reality, but the stereotype): he (or she) is a whiny self-righteous dipshit who claims a moral code s/he doesn't actually adhere to (try asking one if they drive a car with rubber tires), yet still feels entitled to lord his/her superiority over everyone else, completely ignorant of ecological disruption everyone going vegan would cause (to say nothing of the damage they usually do tho their own bodies; you CAN be perfectly healthy as a vegan, but you really have to work at it)- at best, they're well-intentioned naifs with a god complex; more often, they're deluded and underinformed narcissists.

Now, think of the FIRST vegan: someone who looked around at the endlessly blood-soaked cycle of survival, where every living thing survives only on the deaths of other living things, and said "No". He chose to defy millions of years of human and proto-human history, and billions of years of evolution, out of simple morality. He looked on the result of uncountable zillions of lives and perhaps even the will of the gods, and thought he could do better.

What kind of response do you think he got? Whether he evangelized it, set it up openly as a personal goal, or kept it to himself, when word got out, he'd've faced mockery at best; accusations of blasphemy and maybe even exile at the worst.

That's the level you'll need to be working at- and a reminder that, if you're willing to suffer the slings and arrows, not only is it possible, but you can make the world a genuinely better place for those around you.

If it's something you really want to do, you'll need to face these feelings head-on: the instant they arise in you, call them out. Ask your brain WHY it feels that way, and don't let up until it answers you. If it can't- and it probably won't- refuse to let it decide your feelings. Declaring that you're not going to let nature OR nurture get in the way of what you believe to be right means a life of constant self-reflection and reexamination of your motives, but it's possible.

And I can tell you from experience that being able to look back on your prior actions and see that you chose to do what was right instead of what was easy, even when it came at a terrible cost, bolsters your self-image like nothing else.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2025-04-13T10:35:14+00:00

Big part is very easy. Just cause you feel a type of way. Don't mean everyone else does.

Men and women are wired very differently. Both logical and emotional. If a men think and feels the same as a women did he would be invisible and would be struggling in every part of life. That's the simple fact.

And you have to understand also that there is a big compromise going on in both sides. So if you want true easy cheat code. For emotional and support and understanding.

Give as much as you take. So if you have your female emotions and outbursts. But you want understanding or be taken serious. Is it weird to not give the same room and understanding in return.

That's in most cases the problem. People always want to be in the chair of i demand I want I need i long that you or him or he. Change to my feelings my needs.

World is about compromises. Friendship. Family. And relationships. People only gonna make compromises for so long at the cost of them selfs.

And its not hard to give the same respect the same understanding. The same love. The same kindness. You expect or demand others to give to you.

And a big part of it is just that. Cause you think you have to change or be open for men's feelings and emotions. But yet men do the same thing all the rime at ever level for women. And cause its not given the same level of understanding or respect back. Is how people just treating people how they treating them.

And in relationships there is big ingrained survival for women to be disgusted by emotional men. Cause they are often the weakest men. And for women they can't feel safe around those men. Trust and safety is a big part of female survival mating strategy.

Same way purity and loyalty is for men.

Its what we are wired on instinct to value over all else. And both logical and emotionally.

And women look for good leadership qualities. Its normal to be disgusted by men to not see them as relationship qualities if they show weak leadership qualities.

The same is if women show bad followership qualities.

If women look for a leadership qualities. But want to be the leader at the same time naturally will create a lot of conflict.

But not to make it about relationships or anything but its the easiest to explain the emotional differences.

A women feels safe with a men that is not emotional and her emotional outbursts and feelings crash like a wave against a rock.

A men that would be just as emotional.

Well to give a beter example. Have you ever been in a accident. Its bad. Your freaking the fake out. Your in pain your hurt. Your mind racing and scared and everything.

Would you feel beter if a person would be just as freaking out with you?

Or would you feel much safer to have a very calm and collective person being like. How do you feel. Where does it hurt.

Just line after line pulling you out your emotional fear filled storm. Pushing true it with logic and reason.

Like dont worry. We will get you out. Where does it hurt. How well can you move. Mam calm down calm done just look at me. Are you stuck. Can you count to 20 for me.

That's female and male dynamics. And why we are disgusted by treats.

So a boss women is as disgusting to a male as a men is being overly emotional is to a women.

People like to forget men and women are ting and yang. We are 2 opposites that support each other's shortcomings. But often its even seen as sexism to have desires of what make us men or what makes us women. That we like and are drawn by or even find very attractive of each other. And what fulfills our needs we have.

And men do understand females a lot. But women often dont want to understand men all that much. What makes in time we know and get the feeling of women but cause they dont care men also dont care.

People treating people a type of way in turn make it only normal in a big way they get treated the same way in return.

The same way that people complain about ghosting often did the most ghosting but when it happens to them they dont like it. And much of society is like that. They feel they are only allowed to dish out but when they get the same treatment they upset. Why the saying is you want change lead by example cause if you just doing what everyone else does. You have no right to complain.

Hope that helps enlighten the difference and why we are so different in thinking and feeling and what we acept or disgust by. Its often to support or needs and the needs for the other side. Why when you try and go against instinct you will always lose even with all social rules and principles and pressures.

IngoTheGreat · 2025-04-14T00:53:48+00:00

To be frank, I feel uncomfortable when I see men cry. It makes me think they’re unstable, weak, and less of a man.

Try turning that around. What are some things you do, or could do, that would make you think yourself unstable, weak, or less of a woman? It's something to think about that could help you come to new conclusions and even feel differently.

I would suggest looking into philosophy as a concept. Learning how to use ultra-basic basic formal logic (As in, A is B, B is C, so A is C) and think rationally was a life changer. I wish more than almost anything else I had been introduced to philosophical thinking earlier in my life.

Organic_Tea8264 · 2025-04-14T10:20:47+00:00

Well I don't know what to tell you on that there are women that sit there and say that they hate seeing men cry but then there's women out there that say they love seeing men cry because it shows their sensitive side maybe this isn't a one fit all answer

Local-Willingness784 · 2025-04-15T02:39:13+00:00

sucks to know that most women also operate like you but if you are functioning on the basis of your instincts and expect the man to be like that, so be the stoic leader that the female monkey brain wants, then you know that the male monkey brain will also wants someone who is submissive and nurturing and stuff like that right?

are you willing to live like that? as "traditionally" as it could be?

ArtifactFan65 · 2025-04-12T23:39:40+00:00

You can't change your biology. It's normal for humans to despise any display of weakness, the standards of strength that are expected are just slightly higher for men.

Just don't make any promises you can't keep, for example telling a guy you're dating it's okay to open up, when in reality you're going to lose attraction to him afterwards.

KirillNek0 · 2025-04-13T06:38:56+00:00

That's a neet thing: You don't.

Global-Brother3274 · 2025-04-12T23:29:36+00:00

Good post, and no post offence taken.

I appreciate your honesty and perspective. In my opinion, it's not uncommon for women to feel this way.

It's okay if you feel uncomfortable when seeing a man cry, but you should try to remember that they may be going through serious hardship. It's okay if you don't feel attracted to that person at that time, just be a friend to them. Treat them as a human.

Also, remember that if you judge someone who's at their worst moment, it may not be an accurate indication of who they are as a person.

Regarding having a son in the future: you will likely feel differently if it is a child. I doubt you feel any of empathy if you have a child that is crying in front you.

Thank you for your post, it's refreshing and insightful!

LumpyAbbreviations24 · 2025-04-13T12:03:45+00:00

You can't. Its your inhirited nature. Women can never get over their instincts.

Suspicious-Text-8549 · 2025-04-14T02:13:38+00:00

There is a reason why women and children are much more likely to cry than men: it really is a sign of weakness. It is designed to show your suffering to another person so they will be merciful with you, or even help you, and will not view you as a threat. Men have been genetically rewarded throughout history for appearing strong, like they are not suffering. For this reason, adult men very rarely cry, if ever. I am a middle aged man and I have not cried since I was a pre-pubescent boy. It's not social conditioning, it's fundamental genetic programming. If you see a man crying, you will naturally be more inclined to comfort or help him, but less inclined to mate with him. You can't change it.

DeadSkullMonkey · 2025-04-14T18:07:03+00:00

Change and grow as a person. Men are humans with feelings too.

CooperSterling-4572 · 2025-04-13T02:16:34+00:00

Yeah, this is also a natural male reaction to another guy being what you might consider as overly emotional. There is some basis in this from culture, evolution, genetics, and our testosterone. There is absolutely room for a guy to be vulnerable and show emotions without being weak and a wreck.

Morgana-is-a-pervert · 2025-04-13T04:33:18+00:00

Men are stupid creatures.

Title	How to change my mindset around men’s emotions?
Author	Sensitive-Cover6393
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Date	April 12, 2025 11:05 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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