So my ex has been a cluster fuck of drama, for 1.5 years now I have dealt with her shit. I helped her get an apartment, she ends up losing it and is asked to leave the place. She then begs me to stay in my house for a few weeks to figure out where to go. She has another guy but he is no real help, lives with his dad, has 3 kids of his own he doesn’t take care of. She seems to always run to him when she needs help to drop her other child off to school(daughter) but our son is not allowed around people like that. He buys her little shit, will eat shit off the ground if she asked him to, I don’t get it lol anyways, I said I’m not dealing with the drama, she said she won’t cause any drama and we agreed to be discrete with any outside activities bc obviously there is history and that’s just respectful. I say fine, stay a few weeks.

Long story short, she just lets this dog pee and crap all over my house, she has no respect, treats me like total shit and thinks it’s cool to stay out all night with a dude while I watch her kid and dog. I have gone out twice, but not when I leave her with kids/dog, I make sure it’s when she’s working or my son sleeps at my mom’s house. So I told her I want her out asap, if she refuses obviously I’ll have to evict her but am I being a dick? I feel like I’m respecting myself not allowing someone to shit on me. I offered to put $ down and increase my child support to help you but I’m not co-signing anything.

I feel like a total dick bc then my son won’t really see her, I feel like that’s my fault and not fair to him but I am just sick of being treated like shit 24/7.