the men who care about how you feel in public, who care about women's rights, who are invested in the resolution of inequality, who respect women's opinions, and think of them as human equals, they left at your behest. you know who didn't? the men who are the exact opposite of those descriptors.

lets say one in one hundred women will put up with such a guys mysoginy. he doesn't care what women think and thus is unpreturbed by rejection. he will ask out those hundred women and one of them will say yes. he will be successful the good men wont, not because women don't prefer good men but because the good men are gone. the good men listened when you said you didn't want to be approached in public, they listened when you chose the bear, you know who didn't? the men you despise. so what will you do?

DONT REPLY IF YOUR GOING TO SAY SOMETHING ALONG THE LINES OF: well its not our fault. it adds literally nothing of value.