Preciously posted about last week. Well I’ve been waiting to talk to my wife about things and she left me a letter last week saying it’s over. We talked agreed to see a couple councilor and today she left me paperwork for separation not a divorce. I’m stunned and confused. She hasn’t said much since the letter. Just small talk and dinners. I just got a new job and it’s not going to be enough hours for what I need nor do I have health insurance. I was hoping not to go to court or get a lawyer and thought we could have a mediator. But I’m just lost rn. Not only loosing my marriage, but the cold shoulder and let’s get this over and way it’s happening is killing me.