Personality:

Women get carried through conversations a lot. Other women will be super open to them, guys will simp with ice breakers, etc. Men generally have to try harder to either make friends or get conversations started with women. When the "honeymoon" phase or whatever ends, and the guy no longer tries to carry the entire conversation with only his own effort, you'll see whether the woman is actually a good conversationalist.

Fitness:

tl;dr average heavy men look good, average heavy women don't

The average man is 5'9, 195 lbs in the USA. This is probably an attractive weight for women (especially if you've converted any of it to muscle). Every guy on Google images with these stats (googled 5'9 195 lbs) is decently handsome, even if they don't have muscle.

5'3 women who are 165 lbs have obvious disadvantages. Chubby women who look like this are average in the USA, and I've never had issues getting laid with women who look like this. Women on Google images under 5'3 165 lbs look like my average Tinder match because, well, they're average for age 25 women in the USA. Fit women, on the other hand, are kind of rare to find in the first place, and from my estimate, have a bigger pool of good looking men to choose from than I have good looking women to choose from.

Money:

Women still earn slightly less than men, on average, age 25 - 34