Short men success stories?

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-08-20T21:18:56+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

taysoncat14 · 2025-08-20T18:11:25+00:00

I’m 5’7.5 and I’ve had taller girls hit on me first … get over your height insecurity .. I don’t even have big muscles, I’m just medium size.

Kaihua- · 2025-08-20T18:08:30+00:00

go outside and open ur eyes, theres your success story

miami2881 · 2025-08-20T18:23:33+00:00

Go to bars, game ultimately is what matters. And game just improves with experience, anyone can do it.

Rhino3750ss · 2025-08-20T18:43:13+00:00

Women prioritize strength over height.

In a modern world of comfort and entitlement and sugar and screens where most men aren't strong, of course women are going to default to the tall dudes when all their options lack strength....which leads men to create the false beliefs that only tall chads can get anywhere with a woman.

I've had some friends that were way shorter than me, one was 5'0" and got more ass than a toilet seat because he was strong enough to not have limiting beliefs, many of us were in the right mindset because the internet was in it's infancy and social media didn't exist to spread the limiting beliefs.

Strength has many forms, abundance mindset and outcome independence are huge strengths that are highly attractive but most modern men severely lack.

buddhakamau · 2025-08-20T18:44:13+00:00

The shorter the monkey, the longer the tail 😂

number2chevyfan · 2025-08-20T18:49:24+00:00

Get jacked, and go after women in the 5’ to 5’3” range and youll be fine

CrotaLikesRomComs · 2025-08-20T18:12:05+00:00

Last weekend at my small town bar the hottest girl at that place was married to a guy who was most likely 5’6”. His wife was probably the same height.

Imaginary_Extent_696 · 2025-08-20T18:19:13+00:00

Some short guys are doing well, just gotta be patient. It definitely makes things like dating apps harder but if you’re confident and have your stuff together it’ll go a long way.

SetLucky1121 · 2025-08-20T18:33:10+00:00

It may mean you have to work a little harder but staying active, going to flea markets, doing stuff out and about while simultaneously being a good person makes it much easier.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-08-20T18:28:47+00:00

5'5 here. A girl at a karaoke party last week told my good acquaintance that I'm her perfect type after seeing me sing Linkin Park. I dress Gothic, look amazing and perform passionately, so it's unsurprising that I'm attractive. I love my height because I can be on the same level as most girls in my country, and it's so easy to hold them, kiss them, look them in the eyes. I know I would hate to be taller.

Pedro_Moona · 2025-08-20T18:37:58+00:00

I have noticed a lot of men in distinguished careers are shorter. Just saying ways to make up for it.

No-Compote-2127 · 2025-08-20T19:05:31+00:00

Don't dwell on your real or perceived flaws. If you can improve or do something about do it, but for things like height. Just shrugg it off and accept the way it is.

If you limit yourself with one factor you are undoing all the other positive qualities you have or can develop in the future.

Your weight, muscle mass, personality, social status, charisma, career, interests, sense of style are all the things you can do something about it. Focus on those

Kylearean · 2025-08-20T19:09:00+00:00

You'd better have a pretty face.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-08-20T19:12:24+00:00

If it makes you feel better, I'm 5'11 barefoot (upwards of maybe 6'1" in shoes but I often just wear flats and sandals for comfort in Southern California), and have been rejected for guys closer to your height. Height does help, but it's not everything.

I've also posted about it before, but one of the most Casanova guys I've ever seen was maybe like 5'5 max, much shorter than me. It was a guy who was in our vacation group a few years back and women were literally competing for him. I was in the hot tub at the resort and a woman started asking me why that guy doesn't like her. She was really attractive. The guy had more charisma than plenty of celebs. His room was pretty much an open turnstile of women coming and going. It was bizarre.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-08-20T19:26:14+00:00

I have two friends at around your height doing decently okay with women. Getting about 5 lays a year.

Obviously they put in the work to make that happen. And they have patience realizing many won't be interested so they have to shoot their shot more and accept some more rejection due to height.

They both put in effort in their other areas apart from height. Like career, clothes, and social skills

MonkeyThrowing · 2025-08-20T19:34:18+00:00

Confidence > Height any day of the week.

If you are short and have no chance — then you have nothing to lose. So fuck it. Just go for it. I think you will be surprised.

I was in college pre-Internet so I did not realize I was not suppose to be getting the girls. Frankly I always had a date. And I never left the party alone.

Here is my secret. I talked to them and asked them out.

You don’t need game. You don’t need looks. You don’t need muscles. I have none of that. You need confidence and the ability to make lighthearted chit chat.

And when you ask them out, get creative. No dinner and movies. Find out something unique that’s happening in your town that weekend, and take them to that.

Redditor_2020_ · 2025-08-20T19:43:01+00:00

Tom Cruise

bagman_ · 2025-08-20T20:50:26+00:00

One of my best friends is 5’5, brown and balding and does great. Charisma>>>physical stats

Yveskleinsky · 2025-08-20T20:51:59+00:00

My brother is 45 and about 5'6. He's never had any trouble getting women. Now, granted, he's the first to admit that some women pass him up due to his height. However, he is seriously so much fun to be around, m intelligent, supportive, caring, and sincere. Everyone wants to be around him all the time.

ClitPlayaBootySlappa · 2025-08-20T20:54:55+00:00

social media is fake, dude

go outside, plenty of short men with bitches, girlfriends, wives, families everywhere

MeltedRadi0 · 2025-08-20T18:21:53+00:00

If you're short you have to at least not be fat

Title	Short men success stories?
Author	HF_Twat2004
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Date	August 20, 2025 6:06 PM UTC (11 months ago)
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