What is your age, and what percentage of women that you have met accurately represent your beliefs?

Ego73 · 2025-09-01T06:46:35+00:00

I'm an upper middle class 26 year old and do think about a third of women within my social circles are repulsed by male sexuality, to one degree or another. Really, as you go up the social ladder, feminist sentiments grow stronger. This is where they talk about the male gaze, or how porn is the worst thing to ever happen. Curiously enough, even if these views are less common among queer women I follow online, I've found no difference between straight, lesbian and bi women's views IRL (my pool of openly ace women is too small to draw conclusions).

Now, there's also the other kind of feminist woman, who unironically thinks the end of history is when women can close the wage gap to be able to buy more make up (AKA: girlboss feminism). This is about half of young women I know, with some overlap with the former (the correlation is probably zero, meaning about one sixth of women are radical girlboss feminists). Basically, they expect men to deconstruct their masculinity yet don't ever think of deconstructing their own femininity. I made a whole post here about them.

This leaves about one other third of normie women. So I generally think most women I'll interact with do fit specific narratives propagated by the red pill.

James_M_Croft · 2025-09-01T13:20:18+00:00

I would say it is 80% on big blue cities like the one I currently live in. The exceptions being mostly immigrants, who of course are married or have some kind of relationship already. But I know a church in the deep south that is known for having mostly "good single women". I am just not really into racist zealots.

Much of what you are not understanding is "What women see/hear" is not really "what actually happens". Many women think that TRP is gaslighting women when the actual gaslight is from society, way too much of our society is men and women telling women false information or letting them tell themselves and each other false information in order to make women feel better. Hiding or downplaying the negative traits they may have, or how hypocritical they usually act.

You see, before becoming a single mother, my sister thought she was pleasant person, but the fact is, every single man (and also plenty of women) recognize her as insufferable, but we all kept it from her because we knew she rather believe the lies of others that would use her than the actual truth, so we kept it hidden from her too. We knew she would cut contact if she knew. It took a horrible divorce and her husband hating her for her to notice it, I think, a first since we were kids.

So we are talking about the same people, we just do not go for what people say, but what people do. I recognize that many women will say they and their friends are not greedy for example, but they act very much greedy every time I use my money to get them. I just do not pull the cover from their eyes nor waste my time correcting them, I am part of those who just keep the lie going and use them for my benefit. There is no incentive to show women their true selves and of each other, so men only to talk about it between ourselves. It is not like women will believe us anyway.

DzejSiDi · 2025-09-01T14:36:25+00:00

What is your age, and what percentage of women that you have met accurately represent your beliefs?

Basically 100%. If that was not the case, I would need to recalibrate them a bit. Some generalisations are also applicable in close to 100% cases. Don't believe me? Then find me a woman with horizontal, not vertical slit. We, people, share the same biology and our biology is the core of our mentallity.

When it comes to less obvious generalisations, I think they're viable if applicable for more than 70% of cases. And we can make a lot of them. If some are not working well, you just need to narrow the scope and they're accurate again.

From the large yet admittedly disproportionate amount of women I know, I’d say about <10% of them fit the redpill description.

You don't know redpill, so how would you know how much of it is accurate?

Money is never involved (...)

I can not name a single one of them who married for the sake of money(...)

At what age does romantic partnership become a business exchange, (...)

See? Find me claims in TRP that money is the most important factor by far. You have limited life expierience by your age, but it is still way more significant and vast than your redpill uderstanding, which likely lands near that <10%.

So I’m curious. At what age does romantic partnership become a business exchange, and at what age does it turn back into a romantic partnership? And where the actual hell are you finding all these women who are not only emotionally unstable but incapable of love and masters of finance/practicality? Are they all in their 30s? 40s? Are they ALL in America?? Maybe Europe?

All relationships are transactional, but no, most marriages are something more than coochie for $$ Related: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CrnzlI8HHuE No, not all women are "emotionaly unstable", unfortunately a lot of them are, but... but sorry, I got tired of correcting you point by point.

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Logical_Breadfruit49 · 2025-09-01T21:58:43+00:00

US 30s male, with dating experience in east coast and southern USA.

The degree to which money plays a role in dating is heavily dependent on the woman's own financial situation and her desire to have children and on whether she is looking to settle down. If she is working class, and expects to have multiple children in a high COL city, she will place a very high emphasis on high income and financial stability. She might not ask a man his income, but she will definitely ask whether he owns a home and about his views on money and finances, as those are close proxies for income. This has been true in ALL of my experiences with working class women, especially women that came from conservative families (Muslim/Christian/Jew etc.)

Very well educated successful women tend to not be as focused on income itself, but place a high value on education itself and the pedigree/prestige of the institution. I think most women would ideally want a man with similar academic credentials, if not higher (woman with masters who want a man with at least a masters). I know a woman in her 40s with a PhD who has accepted she will never get married due to her standards and has funded her own eventual euthanasia. She is basically the archetypal boss babe/alpha widow combo. She has become a staunch anti-natalist, despite having wanted children earlier in her life, perhaps as a grapes-are-sour response to her situation.

Also, I know some women that dated actual drug-addicted criminals, possibly because of a savior complex or because they (the women) came from abusive households and felt that they did not deserve a "normal" man's love. These women tend to be quite naive, and do things which actually enable their boyfriend's addiction, and then end up leaving out of frustration from the boyfriend not changing his ways. Most of them do eventually settle down with a normal dude though.

I've also met a lot of women who brag about having flirted with celebrities (famous musicians or actors) and some claim to have such celebrities slide in their DMs. I fully believe it, as it is simply raw hypergamy in its purest form. I have not met any women who have actually slept with a celebrity, though I can't imagine they would advertise this fact if they had.

I have also met your average girl, who is neither religious nor hypergamous nor a radical feminist, but they are few and far between. Most women I have met/dated have often fallen into one or more of these above categories.

N_Count_Council · 2025-09-01T23:52:38+00:00

I'm mid 30s and it fits the heavy majority of women. I'm going to throw out a number like 80% if I had to guess.

Money is never involved and, I have to note, some of the most unattractive dudes out there are getting game. Usually because they’re funny, smart, or share interests.

I have seen this but generally it's with low value women and low levels of attraction/desire, meaning these guys aren't getting the quantity of sex they'd like.

Who are either unattractive or balding

Most men in their 50s are unattractive and balding though... so what? That's a 50 year old woman's looksmatch. Yall act like 50 year old women are more attractive than a 50 year old man and let me tell you, the average 50 year old woman is out here looking rough.

So I’m curious. At what age does romantic partnership become a business exchange

In my personal experience, the only time a man ends up marrying a woman who is better looking than him is when he has money. In basically every other scenario, the man has to punch down. So yea women are "dating for attraction in 2025", to men's detriment.

SeemedGood · 2025-09-02T03:29:53+00:00

Upper 50s

USA (urban coastal & flyover rural) though I have also lived in the UK and traveled all over the world, but mostly Western Europe for biz

Social set spans East Coast Prep/Ivy/Banking Establishment through Rocky Mountain ski bum to logging/mining/farming rural blue collar

RP philosophy is basically that set of knowledge which my uncles who were popular with the ladies tried to pass down to me when I was younger but I ignored thinking that they were anachronistic chauvinists (in accord with our social indoctrination). In retrospect it perfectly explains the multitude and myriad of my interactions with women from childhood through now, many of which were utterly befuddling while living under the illusion spun by our common social indoctrination. I find its predictive power to be insanely accurate and its application consistently leads to higher quality interactions with women, including with my wife.

That said, you should undertake further investigation into that of which RP philosophy consists because your question is constructed in a manner which suggests unfamiliarity with the subject.

Title	What is your age, and what percentage of women that you have met accurately represent your beliefs?
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Date	September 1, 2025 6:13 AM UTC (10 months ago)
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