STBEX is trying to keep the house, I want it sold and the equity divided 50/50. She’s refusing to go to work, she made good money when she did, three kids at home (elementary, middle and high school), she is asking CS and alimony, the judge is trying to force her to work, but I don’t think anyone can force her, she’s basically “milking” the system, we will be in court in month to exchange financials and start the divorce. I feel that she’s going to make drag it, I already spent thousands on legal nonsense, what should be my strategy to get to the finish line?