For context, I'm a 33 yr old guy in America. I've had my fair share of casual sex and a handful of serious relationships. Most recent one lasted about 2 years and we broke up earlier this summer. All that being said, I haven't had any issues getting laid and have a fair amount of "game". High double digit body count.

But the thing is I admit most of the women I've been with are a bit below my "league" in terms of physical attractiveness. I know this is a bit of a negative mindset and some don't believe in this concept. I'd say I'm about a 7 and most of the women I've had sex with were in the 4-6 range. Especially the casual sex ones. Relationships trended more to 6-7.

So the new woman in dating is also 33 and is pretty damn hot, to put it bluntly. Definitely one of the most attractive ones I've been with. I'd say a solid 8. Met her via cold approach. Exchanged solid eye contact as I was leaving a bar and she was entering. Did my thing and got the digits in a minute or so.

We made out hot and heavy on the first date (went for a daytime hike in a park) and she came over to my place on the second date. Within 5 minutes she threw me on the bed and we got down to business. First time sex wasn't the best as it typically never is. Still were getting used to each other's bodies and what we like/don't like. It's gotten much better since. I've made her cum via both oral and penetration. She says she enjoys the sex, but isn't very vocal at all during the act. I'm much more vocal in bed, so this is also something I need to get adjusted to.

Overall, I think she's an incredible woman and she has solid GF/wife potential. Not just a casual fling. The physical connection is definitely there and the emotional connection is very strong as well. We're going on a little vacation together (few hours drive away) next weekend and will probably ask her to be my girlfriend then. It's just a formality at this point.

But the one hesitation I have is that she doesn't seem to really enjoy giving me head. I don't really like asking for it as it feels forced and I want her to want to do it unsolicited. But it seems like a chore for her. She does a decent job but only for 2-3 minutes and then just wants to have sex. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoy sex, but I LOVE blowjobs. I'd honestly rather just get consistent, quality head rather than sex without any head at all, if I had to pick one or the other.

So my theory is that this might be one of those cases where hot women don't give head because they feel like they don't need to try as hard to please their man. Thinking back on all my lays, the handful of other woman I've been with who were at her "level" in terms of looks also didn't seem to enjoy giving me head and did it quite reluctantly with little to no enthusiasm for very short periods.

But given I have such a colorful past, I can't help but compare her to some of my "greatest hits". Some certified throat queens who just worshipped my dick and acted like it belonged to Jesus himself. Sloppy, enthusiastic blowjobs for as long as I wanted until I told them I was ready to fuck. I remember one even blew me for 75 minutes to completion on the first date while I let her take brief water breaks and to get me another beer. While I don't expect this level of freak and submission from her, I'm just saying I have experienced that and it was amazing, so I can't help but compare.

TL;DR: My new girlfriend is hotter than most women I've dated in the past and is pretty great overall, but she doesn't seem to really enjoy giving me oral. This is very important to me and I've tried verbally expressing to her my love for blowjobs. Haven't told her about all the wild sex I've had with others in the past.

Is it true that hotter woman don't like to give head and I'll just have to get used to it? How do I get her to do it for longer unsolicited and with more enthusiasm? And yes, I go down on her regularly and we do plenty of foreplay and I make sure I'm clean and not smelly down there before.

Thanks in advance. Happy to answer any clarifying questions.