We were married 35 years and have now been divorced for a little over two years. We still talked almost every day bought each other birthday and Christmas gifts. Earlier this year she move to Oklahoma to live with my daughter without saying anything. Just packed up and moved. Thats fine I guess but after she moved it caused a great deal of financial hardship for her and she would ask for help. She knows I still love her so she knew I would not turn her down. Well the help put me in a bind and I ended up losing my truck.

Then in early October she cuts off all communications with me, blocks me on Facebook the works. I found out a few days ago the she is seeing another man seriously. She is living her best life while I am picking up the pieces. She used me because she knows how I feel.

Now I feel like this is new again because of the way I was strung along for two years. And yes no one needs to tell me what a fool I was for doing this, believe me I know. I say this as a cautionary tale. If she comes to you telling you she doesn't love you and wants a divorce, start making plans and cut off communications with the exception of kids and business. She does not care what you go through and will use you until she feels comfortable enough to cut you off.