If all women stop having sex before marriage (or commitment if they don’t want marriage), how will this change the behavior of f***boys?

wtknight · 2026-05-08T12:33:32+00:00

Removed. No internal questions (men asking men or women asking women).

Afraid_Fondant_7903 · 2026-05-08T03:35:28+00:00

I mean if it were IMPOSSIBLE to have sex before marriage fuck boys would just marry quick to fuck and then divorce lol we wouldn’t see fuckboys disappear we would see more divorces lol

ladybird_00 · 2026-05-08T03:35:43+00:00

They would get married, choose to go to prostitutes, or play an evil long game.

purplejellyotter · 2026-05-08T04:45:53+00:00

They'd get married then divorced most likely, a lot.

ThatBitchA · 2026-05-08T03:42:12+00:00

The same thing they've always done. Go to sex workers, 🍇, or marry quickly.

Look at religions.....People marry very quickly and very young because they want to have sex. Not because they are ready or mature to be married.

FineDevelopment00 · 2026-05-08T08:41:52+00:00

What will f***boys do if women are not allowing sex until marriage?
Would they get married?

They would likely get married, but their marriages wouldn't be healthy because their values would be incompatible with their wives' and they'd only be getting married for sex and not love as well. You can't absolve men of their own accountability by making women the sole gatekeepers; it takes both sexes to hold themselves and each other accountable for their own actions to create healthy thriving relationships.

Would their behaviors change altogether?

Not really. The only reason they wouldn't overtly commit adultery would be because they couldn't convince even one woman to participate in homewrecking. As I explained above, without a sincere change of heart they wouldn't ever actually be men of integrity worthy of virtuous wives because they wouldn't truly be offering the same fidelity their wives would be offering them. They'd still have wandering eyes, they'd still try to flirt and such with other women, and they'd likely abandon their wives (and without real intent from at least one spouse to be faithful, said "marriages" would qualify for annulment anyway) the first chance they'd get via divorce and then seek to get remarried to other women and probably repeat that process as many times as they feasibly could. No matter who they'd be married to, they wouldn't treat her right because they'd be entering marriage with the wrong mindset to begin with.

Would they just give up and never have sex?

Highly doubtful, especially considering in this hypothetical there'd be no porn either.

Edited to add:

men saying they must have sex in the beginning before they will even consider a relationship
What if women changed their methods by not allowing any of this?

Well, women can immediately weed out sooo many users and abusers by doing this yes and they should. But men should be waiting too, because virtue isn't a standard that should be limited to one sex. It does have many practical implications as well as implications of character though.

toad-wrangler · 2026-05-08T03:47:22+00:00

I mean, their behavior would have to change if they didn't have access to casual sex at all.

I assume that, if no woman would have sex with a man until marriage, that there would be a lot more marriage and divorce.

This would take woman sex workers and cheaters off the table too right? If no woman would have sex with someone until that person married them, then there would be no prostitutes or cheaters that were women.

Sonia314 · 2026-05-08T07:21:14+00:00

The divorce rate would probably skyrocket, because people wouldn’t know if they are sexually compatible or not and would be getting married to have sex instead of based on whether they are compatible as people do in cultures that currently practice that. The belief that divorce is wrong traps many people in unhappy marriages in those cultures, but this wouldn’t be true in most people’s case in this world.

People would be really miserable, because they are cutting an important part of life out of themselves.

There is a reason most people don’t choose this lifestyle in real life if they have access to contraceptives. Honestly the pain of the masses would be so great that I don’t really care about the pain of the fuckboys by comparison.

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Title	If all women stop having sex before marriage (or commitment if they don’t want marriage), how will this change the behavior of f***boys?
Author	Real_Benefit4723
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Date	May 8, 2026 3:32 AM UTC (2 months ago)
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