If i am talking to tall girls and if taller guys approach the same group and set, should i leave? Because clearly, women prefer taller guys and i think, i become a block between them. I feel girls might be upset with me because of that. They just don't show it on their face.

seduction-ModTeam · 2026-07-01T17:36:21+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

rich_god · 2026-06-30T11:42:34+00:00

No. Don’t let your height affect your self-esteem and confidence.

gamerfanboi · 2026-06-30T11:31:02+00:00

Nah depends on thier energy. If they are enjoying talking to you i dont think they would want you to leave.

If they arent enjoying talking to you they would want you to leave regardless of anybody approaching them or not.

Women arent some machine where they are scanning for the best most perfect guys i think

OpinionThink481 · 2026-06-30T13:13:38+00:00

Stop being a "mister nice guy". It's not your job to make sure women are never upset with you.

Quiet982 · 2026-06-30T11:58:57+00:00

Truly a bizarre mindset. If I was having a good conversation with a guy, and another guy walked up, I wouldn’t just ignore the original guy. Doesn’t matter how tall he is. I’m not a fucking bird, distracted by more colourful feathers.

IdeaLonely · 2026-06-30T13:54:08+00:00

It’s weird if they were having fun talking to you and you leave

Matter_Still · 2026-06-30T17:52:43+00:00

Absolutely, leave, but first apologize to both the women (and guys) for possibly getting in the way. Then, when home, give yourself five lashes with a willow branch, before putting on a hair shirt.

And don’t let it happen again.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-06-30T12:04:24+00:00

Why do you instantly assume every woman will prefer the taller guy? You should never assume such negative things about yourself until you actually have proof that she prefers another guy.

Generally speaking: Assume you're attractive. It will go a long way

Mysterious_Cat_4366 · 2026-06-30T12:50:34+00:00

This applies to all kinds of situations where someone try to cockblock you or steal your girl. Rule number one, don't fight with him, or don't try to one up him. If you compete, you lost.

Remember, that if you are talking with a random girl, you never know if it's her friend, brother, or someone else she knows. Also very important is to remember, that if she is talking to you and suddenly shifts her attention to someone else, that is rude from her part.

What I do is give her a short moment to handle the situation. Either I reply to messages, or I go grab a small beer on the bar and stay there, if a girl I'm with doesn't immediately dismiss the guy and I see they are going to have a conversation. Maybe chat up a bartender if the vibe is right, but I don't force anything. After I finish a beer and she is still talking to the guy, I leave without saying a word.

I don't have a problem to chat up another woman, I even think the initial phase is exciting, so I just take the "loss" and move on. What the guy gets is a woman who will do the same to him and because he thinks that it's cool to "outalpha" other men, all he has in the end is frustration and a lost girl.

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-06-30T12:55:00+00:00

No, just carry on, as far as you are concerned those guys are not there and do not exist, you are just in a bubble with the girl, the end.

razama · 2026-06-30T14:15:30+00:00

Nope, just because you’re short doesn’t mean you have to act like it. I am 5’5” and all my interactions usually are going to involve some taller guy in the vicinity somewhere.

There’s lots of great advice in this thread, already about the inner game, but I think it’s as simple as “yes and”

If I was with an attractive woman, and an even more attractive woman came by, if the first woman walked off in a huff or quietly slink away then maybe I would just move on from her and focus on the new person.

If she seemed excited to meet this new person and tried to include them in our conversation or compliment them, that would demonstrate she’s still controlling the frame and that she has confidence. After my initial attraction to the second woman, I would remember that there are beautiful women everywhere but this first woman is an interesting person and you don’t meet interesting people every day.

No reason you can’t be buddies with a new person you meet just because they’re taller than you. Either you’re all gonna have a great time or he is going to also feel unconfident and in his head and leave.

duke_awapuhi · 2026-06-30T16:09:22+00:00

Hell no. Hold your ground

Realwoujo · 2026-06-30T14:45:12+00:00

Dude you should never let any other guy affect your behavior at all. And you should also not be thinking about this shit.

WebNew9978 · 2026-06-30T15:40:31+00:00

I would defiantly say don’t leave. Because you may discover that the lady isn’t enjoying talking to the tall guy and would rather continue talking to you

HomelessMilkman · 2026-06-30T16:26:30+00:00

Absolutely, if she's asking for something off the top shelf - otherwise, you good.

clone0112 · 2026-06-30T17:19:40+00:00

No, height shouldn't even be on your mind.

four100eighty9 · 2026-06-30T17:40:15+00:00

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