Long story short, my ex ex-wife divorced me I helped Raise her boys as my own because the present Father at the time was not around and he eventually went to jail for life. Fast forward I was devastated when she divorced me. I did not want her to get the best to go so I went back back-and-forth on being in the kids life or not.

I thought if I just stay away, then she’ll realize what she lost because she won’t have the only stable manager in her life, but I then realize she’s gonna go do whatever she wants to do whatever she wants to see whether or not I’m in their lives or not.

I would rather have a life for those two boys are in mine then none at all.

I know some people will say I’m an idiot and a cuck but I am not involved with the ex-wife at all and I only text through the oldest to make plans