I officially broke up with my LVM EX boyfriend today. We had an argument in the car today and he said hurtful things to me that made me cry. He asked me why I was crying and called me crazy, childish and overly emotional for crying. He called me weak minded and a child for being hurt by the things he said to me. He then yelled and yelled at me to “get the fuck out of his car”.

I was such a pickmeisha when I was with this man. I supported him and his job, cooked for him , had sex with him any time he wanted, cleaned his room (he still lives with his parents at 31 years old), bought him food all the time. He’s gotten angry at me for getting a 6 dollar bottle of orange juice because it was too expensive to him.

I’ve been with him for 4 years on and off. He always said he wanted to marry me but his actions spoke otherwise. In those 4 years, he cheated on me multiple times but I forgave him multiple times (I am so stupid!). He secretly has a child with the woman he cheated on me with. He has not told him parents for months and months about the baby either.

I’ve spent so much of my time with this man that I forgot how to enjoy my own life. I really don’t want to fall back into this rabbit hole. I feel like he has groomed me in a way. Ive ignored so many red flags in our relationship because I loved him and I feel so stupid! I met him when I was 18 and when he was 27.