Crossposted from TRP- Husband who was cheated on answers questions

BluepillProfessor · 2015-08-28T13:04:39+00:00

I'd like to point out something you quoted from RedPope which is the husband's attention (after 19 years of daily interaction/companionship) becoming 'useless'.

I think this is one of the key tenets of MRP that isn't given as much attention as it deserves. From time to time we'll discuss the fact that there is no 'end game' but rarely is this expanded upon.

As you said (to RedPopes points that the husband's validation wasn't enough to keep her from the cock), it is "one of the most painful parts of unplugging." We as Men are the more romantic and we are the ones who will Love the woman for who the woman truly is, while they love the way we make them feel in the moment.

This is why it is absolutely imperative that every Married Man is constantly improving and reinventing himself. No matter how cock diesel you are right now, if you fall into routine, pattern, or same ol' same you're wife will get bored.

Women do not follow trend analysis like Men. We see things for their overall worth, women see them for their current worth. If you're a Man who is currently doing the same shit you did 3 years ago. The same pattern during sex, the same schedule, the same hobbies then you are a boring dude, no matter what you've done to that point, she has become bored and now expects your routine validation and attention.

You have to accept that as a Masculine Married Man, if you want your Marriage to work, then you have to make yourself something 'new', always updating yourself, your skills, your approach, etc.

You are the prize, invest in yourself. If you aren't investing in your self improvement and your dealings with your wife, then don't be surprised when she leaves. If she does leave then that's fine as you'll continue on your mission. But if you want that woman to remain your wife, you have to ensure you're something she still wants so she can show you off.

Your wife is invested in you and as long as you're a good investment, she will fill her role and not hop onto the next 'Ashley Madison App'. If you're an investment that is not growing, then she will cash out as you're not providing her desired returns.

Keep it interesting, don't only have sex at night, don't only go to the same restaurant, don't be the same dude every day. Keep her on her toes.

I have recommended this before and I will do it again as it has worked for me. Once a week, plan something that she knows nothing about.

It doesn't have to be something big. This week, I got some stuff to make smores for the kids. Also, I told her to get some blacklights at the store.

She has no idea that I've got some white rope, new white boxer briefs(fancy), am going to install the black lights in our room and that tonight I'm going to tie her hands up while I stand over her in white and have my way shooting my glowing load like a shooting star over her.

The point is, mix it up and don't become a complacent tool.

[deleted] · 2015-08-28T12:06:03+00:00

He should have come here. Too many kids with bravado there.

Was funny though, SO asked what I was reading this morning. Couldn't figure out how that chick can keep the house clean and have affairs too.

dandar4600 · 2015-08-28T11:53:40+00:00

He's not unplugged and blames her on her personality disorder. He doesn't believe in capacity for AWALT.

ZeeyardSA · 2015-08-28T21:45:37+00:00

Glenbert · 2015-08-28T12:51:24+00:00

That thread was great to see - kudos on making it happen. It was good to see context for the article and sad to see that he hasn't learned enough in the past year.

OpiumPhrogg · 2015-08-28T14:10:45+00:00

I also am a husband that has been cheated on. But that's neither here nor there.....

Title	Crossposted from TRP- Husband who was cheated on answers questions
Author	theultmatecad
Upvotes	7
Comments	46
Date	August 28, 2015 10:32 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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