Beyond saving?

matrixtospartanatLV · 2018-10-20T15:44:21+00:00

Wow.

Unfuckingbelievable.

I hate you. The reason I hate you is because your pathetic life and even more pathetic description of it reminds me that the lack of money is not the only reason my STBX opened my marriage and started dating and fucking other men. But you didn’t come here to hear about me.

Well, God bless you, at least you’re looking for answers. The thing you need to figure out now are the questions. The answer was, is, and always will be; YOU.

History is important. Since you didn’t give much, I went through your Reddit history. Whine much? r/divorce. r/relationships. r/deadbedrooms. And of note; you’ve had at least three posts removed from r/relationships for not following directions.

Obviously you don’t make bank in a stem field. That would mean you have a basic idea of how to follow directions and protocol, and you wouldn’t have blown right past the ‘cut the shit’ post at the top of this sub. And based on your writing style, if you can call ‘shit’ a style, you don’t make bank anywhere near the education field. Just a guess, but are you a closet faggot sucking politician cock in downtown SLC?

Your post sucks. If you find yourself DEERing your answers, thinking, “No, it’s not like that,” then realize that the quality of the comments you get will be a reflection of the quality of your shit post. You can fix it right now by going to the ‘cut the shit’ post and editing your post to include this important information. Well, the popcorn is done.

Beyond saving? Yes. Your marriage is beyond saving. It always has been, and it always will be. You do not control the marriage directly. You influence it. You can’t save it with shitty behavior, but ironically, as you now know, you can destroy it with your shitty behavior.

Beyond saving? Yes. Your wife is beyond saving. She’s not a dog or a toy. She allegedly has a soul and is rumored to be capable of independent thought. You know, the kind of thought where she went back home to fuck Chad and cuck you into raising their child. More on that later.

She doesn’t give you blowjobs because you are repulsive to her physically. She doesn’t want you to touch her because you are repulsive to her emotionally. She only has sex with you at all because of your income. Your attitude, your beta-cucked faggotry, has reduced your little unicorn to a gold digging whore. You are the pimp. She is the prostitute. She’s fucking you for money.

She moved back home to get what she can’t from you; feelings and great sex. She’s hooking up with every high school guy, college guy, and coworker she ever wanted to fuck and she’s fucking them. If she finds one doing as well as you, you’ll be notified by mail of your impending divorce-rape.

In the meantime, she’s decided 50 men in a year may not be necessary. She’s found a good one. He is good looking, hot, great in bed, very personable and funny, and she cums twice an hour with him. She’s planning a 12 hour marathon session of sex with him, during ovulation, and then, “I can’t stay away from you any longer. The kids really miss you. We’re coming home right now.“

Inside your reserved wife is a raging slut. She may not fuck you, but she will fuck somebody. She will let him fuck her pussy into a lather, use that as lube to fuck her in the ass, and then she will suck the cum out of his cock.

“I don’t think she’s planning a slow play divorce.“ You’re an idiot. Why don’t you ask your ‘magic 8-ball’ why she won’t touch you or suck your dick? From your post in r/deadbedrooms 120 days ago; “With her very reserved personality and having 3 young kids I would bet my life she’s not having an affair.“ You fucking cuck. That is exactly what she is doing back home. What other level of female solipsism would allow her to remove three young children from their father? I hope you have a great life insurance policy.

“My issue is that I’m only around for maybe 6 to 8 days a month.“ I’m the high school dropout that makes 30% of what you do. But my 11th grade education was enough to realize that sex two times a week, four times a month, equals eight sexy times a month. So you are hitting it almost every time you see her? You ARE tracking her cycle, right? You KNOW when she is ovulating, right? You know when she is DTF, right?

Or is it this…

“Her issue is that she HAS to be around me maybe 6 to 8 days a month.“

You are not a decently attractive guy who needs to lose 15 pounds and you make 250K a year. From r/deadbedrooms, “We are both active, good looking and fit. I make 200K a year, don’t do drugs or abuse alcohol, and help a ton with the kids. Never been unfaithful or anything to cause her to not like me.“ Congratulations on your 25% raise recently.

You are a fucking tool. You are the beta-pussy-faggot-piece-of-shit that got cuckolded into letting your wife go back to her familiar, happy, hunting grounds to find your replacement while you foot the bill.

One more foot note to your shit post. We don’t use TL/DR in MRP. Why? Because if your content isn’t worth reading or important in the first place, then DON’T FUCKING POST IT!!

Well, I’m done. I’m spent. I fucked you in every hole I could find and really enjoyed giving you a pearl necklace. Looks good on you. You’ve been such a good fuck I’d like to give you some cuddles.

Beyond saving? No. You are not beyond saving. You CAN do it. The only question is whether YOU WILL, or YOU WON’T. It will be the toughest thing you’ve ever done. Way tougher than secretly sucking politician cock in downtown SLC, or whatever you do to make 200K, or 250K, or whatever it is you actually make.

If you want help getting started, then askMRP.

For clarity, this is the toughest mountain to climb in all of Reddit nation. The minimum to get started is 1 year of time and 350 hours of work. And there is not one known failure of someone who followed the entire praxeology. Quitters don’t count. They never do. That was a double pun, in case you missed it.

So the rest of your life, your marriage, your status as a husband, a father, and a man, all come down to this one very simple decision; are you going to...

GET TO FUCKING WORK!

Or

GTFO.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=y9rkK4IhNmI

Sepean · 2018-10-20T07:37:20+00:00

It doesn’t sound beyond saving at all. But that’s a shitty mindset. You become an attractive man for your sake and to have options and fun.

In all likelihood that means your marriage becomes enjoyable, but don’t make that your goal.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-10-20T07:38:46+00:00

Ya that's the story of a man that shows up here.

Start with the gym, and the side bar.

It's going to be a challenge with you only being there 6 - 8 days a month but that gives you a lot of time to work on you and that's what this is all about.

Your wife might not come around but that dosent matter.

Step one is to read the rational male. Do that right now. Start there.

Lurk for a bit, check out the own your shit thread and next week, make a post on OYS and get started. That's where the work is done.

And grow some thick skin. This is tough bastard work and we poor it on thick.

innominating · 2018-10-20T08:11:31+00:00

You’re betabux. You have your ego wrapped up in the money you make and you’ve neglected the traits that attract women. You’re unattractive.

Lift. Sidebar. Look into levels of dread.

You can save the marriage and have your wife blowing you regularly if you want.

If you nuke the marriage now, when you’re unattractive, you’ll end up in a similar situation with a different woman who isn’t attracted to you, so you need to lift and sidebar anyway.

weakandsensitive · 2018-10-20T08:34:16+00:00

Maybe if you made 500k, she'd let you touch her. Pussy.

MadMartigan420 · 2018-10-20T11:27:48+00:00

Find yourself a woman who likes you for you and not what you can provide for her. My gf lets me do whatever I want to her and shes smoking hot and I make alot less money then you. I get blowjobs literally every time we're together. Just saying, you can do alot better for yourself mate....

bueller6626 · 2018-10-20T12:30:20+00:00

Our opinion doesn’t matter so much because the stay plan is the same as the go plan. IMO the move was a test that you failed. Make the most of your freedom and get out and have some fun.

Redpillbrigade17 · 2018-10-20T13:11:51+00:00

She she she. You’re not living your life. You have blinders on and walk through this life fulfilling someone else’s agenda (your wife’s, your employer’s) and slowly dying inside as a result. You know it, you feel it. But right now you’re so far in your day-to-day routines and in your mindset from who you truly need to become to be happy - and attractive - that it will take you a long time and a lot of work. Get busy if you really want to change...

PhysicalPotential · 2018-10-20T13:38:02+00:00

Long distance doesn’t work. Either she moves back or you get a new job.

470_2_700_nm · 2018-10-20T13:50:08+00:00

You are the perfect fit for MRP. Welcome.

Now stop being a pussy. Become awesome. Then get blowjobs and the sex you want AFTER you’ve become attractive, which will likely take some time. Some of us found it worth while keeping our wives because they add value to our lives. Others realized Their LTR was a net loss on life.

Don’t Rambo and...

Sidebar mother fucker!

Edit... you are fat. And probably can’t deadlift much weight.

CalvinRichland · 2018-10-20T13:37:36+00:00

Spend every waking moment not at work in the hotels lifting weights. No more drinking with the guys. Lift lift lift. After you see the results when you come home throw her on the bed, no lift her in the air and fuck her. If she says no just stop completely, laugh and go do something else.

Fyi your job sucks too. Your hourly wage isn't far off from flipping burgers. I did the travel life its not worth it. Cut your lifestyle now and find a new job.

CalvinRichland · 2018-10-21T03:08:22+00:00

BRO. WHY DON'T YOU STOP FUCKING TRAVELING BECAUSE THAT IS A BIG PART OF THE PROBLEM

wkndatbernardus · 2018-10-21T04:11:27+00:00

You let her take the kids and relocate to another state? You must be:

A) a tard B) a shitty dad C) a colassal poontang D) all of the above

Under no circumstances would a real man allow some twat to remove his children from his home, unless legally compelled. And any woman that would do that can't be trusted ever again.

Dog, get those kids back into your household stat, and then start covertly planning an exit strategy. Maybe you'll never have to actually put the plan in motion but, the fact that it's there will help you to ngaf which will, ironically, help the relationship (if it can be helped, at this point).

Meanwhile, start working the dread levels although, to be honest, those might be useless if you're a fat pig. Also, if she doesn't work, push her to get a job so that, if the nuclear option is taken, the divorce raping won't tear your sphincter too much. Finally, be a strong and engaged dad to your kids. This will make all the bullshit you go through with your wife, worth it.

screechhater · 2018-10-21T10:01:20+00:00

So do you actually think she will leave the “money ?”

My question is how fat are you ?

How often do you shower ?

Do you exercise or even lift ?

Do you actually think it’s a good idea to bring another kid into the world ? Is this going to make your life better ?

runnowxxx · 2018-10-22T02:06:01+00:00

i”m sad to hear ur wife doesn”t love you anymore. love dies. it happens. maybe she expected u to be white knight that saves her soul. maybe you expected her to be a unicorn. but when dreams fade this is what you face.

let her go in ur mind. if you cling onto her, she”ll use you up until every single dime is squeezed out of you. u”re the beta buck now.

gd luck. if u can take it, you can come back for more insults, ppl here will gladly dish it out to you.

and most importantly, STFU and lift, faggot.

RedPillCoach · 2018-10-22T17:12:35+00:00

This is not "beyond saving" but it may be well beyond "worth saving."

This is classic behavior of a wife who is not sexually attracted to her husband. This is also hotwife/cheating behavior. You really think your 32F wife is not having sex with anybody when she sees you only 6-8 days a month.

Take the Red Pill my friend!

Your wife moved away because she wants to get away from the disgusting, pawing hands of a husband who she knows is desperate and cannot do better.

Your choice is to show her she is wrong or to accept that you are an unattractive simp.

The benefit is that when you internalize and KNOW that you can do better than your wife, because you improved, are confident, and are getting attention from other women, suddenly the frigid wife finds that you are attractive after all and gets her freak on.

MRP is sexual Judo.

Title	Beyond saving?
Author	1985phoenixopen
Upvotes	5
Comments	48
Date	October 20, 2018 7:02 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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