how do you reset every day?

screechhater · 2018-10-15T02:43:23+00:00

Probably the hardest part for all Red Pill newcomers and even veterans, as I read their posts, reports, questions, etc is breaking through the myth, of belief that their SO, LTR, wife’s naggy, bitchy- cuntiness laden words should have any weight or bearing on them

And, yet they do. Little do they know, or understand that same woman slinging those words will turn into an angel or unicorn instantly in public view, kind of like the perfect church lady that is prim and proper to the public, but denies her husband sexually but takes it in the ass from the pastor.

It is so blatantly obvious that we have so many men so wrapped around their phone, tv, computer, porn or woman, that removal of too many of these items would most likely a traumatic epileptic inducing seizure, and therefore the ability to actually think or be creative is so hampered, that a good daily wack off to porn is a stress relief and the dopamine receptors get fulfilled for the thirty seconds, but the ability to shrug off words and just not give a fuck, becomes a carsclimic hurdle.

The problem solving, creativity or sense of self directive analyzation of a situation for a rebuttal has gone right out the window with common sense for most men, and yet they are born with it, but all the sensory overload has it taking a back seat

Fear of the “comfort” being shaken out of one’s habitual daily routines including being bitched out, is almost too much for most to confront. The “rocking of the boat” per se’, would lead to the “unknown” consequence wise and therefore complacency is just easier.

In the grand scheme of things, men must understand women’s nature is such that it is driven by a seeking of good times as much as possible, but a little bad is ok as long as it is not outweighing the good, or getting in its way. Therefore, as in the “anti slut paradigm,” bitching you out one moment and being as sweet as pie the next is actually a righting of the circumstances per se, to not be the cunt, “see you made me nuts for a moment” so I’m not the asshole, you are.

“You made me do that.... “. Now there is only one person to blame.

In the “reset” your frame must be fucking cast iron. But it does get easier. The secret ingredient to “reset” is to “not give a fuck as to any consequences what so ever” and to make damned to sure she can’t snif it out STFU is your best friend. Even at an advanced level

My long winded statement above boils down to a suttle, “stop giving a fuck what she says or does, because in reality, just because you are married, it doesn’t mean shit. Her words should have no bearing on your life, the marraige liscense is not carte blanche to treat you like shit, but your fear driven cowering of what will happen if you respond honestly” is your own god damned fault, so therefore “you are letting” her words hamper you

To summarize, get out of yout fear mongering state, quit fapping to porn, and for fucks sake, realize this is your life. Nothing should influence your happiness or lack there in, but you.

weakandsensitive · 2018-10-15T03:32:26+00:00

It's funny, the guys who are going to ask the "How" are the same guys who haven't asked "Why?".

Why do you reset everyday? Because if you're going around day in and day out as Mr. Salty McButthurt Chucklefuck, and you don't realize how unattractive that reactive, emotional behavior is, while taking exactly zero steps to fix it - how do you plan on getting anywhere in life?

Clinging on to dear life to your fragile emotions, no effort put into dictating and determining, exclusively, your own mindset - that's no way to go through life, and that certainly isn't attractive to anyone. Who likes hanging out with mopey ass grumpy fucks? Nobody.

And if that's what you're portraying day in and day out, how long do you think it should be before any self respecting person says to themselves, "You know what? Fuck that guy." How you do it doesn't really matter, but if you aren't doing, think about the disservice you're doing to yourself by pearl clutching for your fragile ego.

If you are not your own mental point of origin, then someone or something else is. What a sad way to go through life.

RandomlyChosenTitle · 2018-10-15T02:08:49+00:00

If a four year old called you a poopyface, would you dwell on it and let it dictate how you behave the next time you saw her?

You give too many fucks. You reset easily when you honestly DNGAF about her childish behavior.

DownVoteForDickPic · 2018-10-15T03:10:34+00:00

i have a simple routine. visualize myself dying as i go to bed each night. i’m a new man every day. literally nothing a woman said matters tomorrow.

or to put it in wider perspective. nothing anyone said today - including you - matters more than a fiddlers fart tomorrow.

ReddJive · 2018-10-15T11:16:19+00:00

A man's life is hero one minute and zero the next. It can happen in .03 seconds sometimes faster.

Get over it.

seedster5 · 2018-10-15T02:35:57+00:00

You're on a mission. On a mission to be the best version do you the world has never seen. Either her nor anyone is gonna get in your way.

My girl will bitch about a lot of things that are dumb and she apologises for all of it later. I lift, run, make extra money on the side, am hungry in my career and most importantly make time for my friends and go out. She called me crying one night saying how I'm gonna break up with her. I'm not. Then I go with the comfort test and at the end of it firmly tell her this is not acceptable because I'm gonna choose who to hang out with. She has me time and she has her time. We both have bounderies. We have been together for 3 years.

In summary. Better yourself always. Stand firm. Let her know what's acceptable and unacceptable. She's gonna try to trap you into an argument but there's nothing to argue about. Unacceptable behavior is unacceptable behavior regardless of who does it.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-10-15T12:25:30+00:00

That’s why you need a vision and actively working towards it.

The point of power is always in the present moment.

johneyapocalypse · 2018-10-15T02:24:29+00:00

Choose to just forget it and reset.

SorcererKing · 2018-10-15T03:17:43+00:00

What is the alternative? You keep dwelling on some shitty thing she said or did? That's just retarded, especially when you know she did it just so would dwell on it.

You probably have the pussy on a pedestal; you should see to that.

justpickanyusername · 2018-10-15T02:20:37+00:00

Give less fucks. Live in your frame. Everything outside of it is amusing. She either provides value or she doesn’t. If you are a high value man with options she won’t disrespect you for fear of you exercising your plentiful and many options.

Judging by your short account age and post 26 days ago you are still a beta bitch and are butt hurt because she hurt your precious ego.

Read the fucking sidebar and put in the work.

Title	how do you reset every day?
Author	gonnafff
Upvotes	19
Comments	28
Date	October 15, 2018 1:53 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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