All about me...
- Write down your stats (height, weight, bf%, lifts). 6', 185, 20ish%, squat 235lbs., BB bench 185lbs., dl 275lbs., BB row 185lbs., OHP 135lbs.
- Write down all the books you have read in the sidebar and one sentence about what you learned from each one (even if you haven't finished it yet). What was your main takeaway from the other erroneous material referenced in TRP sidebar and here?
- MMSLP: Create a MAP, follow MAP, be attractive, don't be unattractive.
- NMMNG: Jesus the covert contracts were holding me down!
- WISNIFG: Fogging is a better approach than STFU, AA and AM need a ton of practice.
- SGM: Who didn't start with this book? Women like physically dominant men in the sack.
- Get your testosterone levels checked and write them down. GP has no interest in checking my levels as I currently have no symptoms.
- Write down your ratio of sexual initiations/rejections. 3/2
- Write down the number of women besides your wife you could call right now to chill this weekend. 2
- Shit, write down the name of the last girl you flirted with who isn't your wife. Selina
- Write down how many days over the past 15 you have actively gamed your wife. 14
- Write down two things you do that make you a good catch. Fairly humorous and own my style
- Write down what you would do today if you did not have a wife/kids to go home to. Lift, meet friends for happy hour, catch a movie, martial arts, replace the crap carpet with hardwood floors throughout the first level of the house, change up the landscaping in the front yard, this list can go on and on.
- Write down what Dread Level you are on. Maybe 2
- Write down how many more months you have to go until you are an attractive man with options. Apparently 8.
I'm here tonight as I was shot down upon a *scheduled initiation. *These are normal ways for her to avoid my initiations and simply put out duty sex once a week. The wife told me she has zero desire, not just for me but anyone. She went on about feeling 'dirty' with the kids in the house and how she is always thinking about it in the back of her mind. Yep, got it. I leave the room, she asks where I'm going, I state that 'I can't sleep' and retreat to my office to figure out what I'm doing wrong. I've read here long enough to know that my dread level isn't high enough, that I'm not fit enough, that I'm socially autistic when it comes to passing the big shit tests, i.e. tonight's example, and that I'm generally a faggot. My question, to those that truly live the MRP lifestyle, how successful have you been in keeping your wife and spinning plates? I plan to simply tell her that I'll be seeking outside resources to have my physical needs met. The door will always remain open for her to return to main plate status as she's a great mother, good housekeeper, decent cook and a full time teacher. I'd like to keep her around for those reasons. Advice, approaches and insults are all welcome.
*Edit: Thank you for taking the time to read and comment. I appreciate all of the feedback. As I've commented in replies, I should have posted here sooner. This sub helps a lot of guys so encourage every noob who wants to work to ask the question that's holding you back. You might be surprised how obvious the answer is!