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Attraction 101

by MrChad_Thundercock | March 28, 2018 | askMRP

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Listen up faggots, let's go back to our textbooks and review our notes on how to build Attraction.

If you are not flirting or Gaming your wife, she isn’t going to fuck you. Gaming builds her level of attraction for you. Just because you married her and dedicated your life to her, doesn’t make her want to fuck you. If she’s not fucking you, she’s not attracted to you.

You must develop this skill- because married game requires you to game the same woman every day, day in and day out. If you don't understand the concept, she will friend zone you quickly and you will be shit tested to death. She'll turn into a harpy, nagging, sexless little cunt. Ask me how I know.

For you STEM nerds, Attraction is a differential:

Attraction = High Value – Low Value.

You want that fucking sweet Rolex, right? Why? Because it has high fucking value. You can Feelz that excitement and attraction for it. You look UP to it. It’s way UP there. You are DOWN here, looking up.

You must come at your wife as a person with high SMV. Up your SMV by doing all the things we talk about here. Never come at her from the same SMV level or a lower SMV level. She will not Feelz the attraction. For betas in shit dead bedrooms for years, she already knows all your beta tendencies and faggotty ways, it can be done, but the sex comes last.

How do you build Attraction?

You generate attraction by breaking Rapport. For you faggot retards, Rapport means “a close and harmonious relationship in which the people or groups concerned understand each other's feelings or ideas and communicate well”.

Rapport is great for building comfort, but not for producing Tingles ™. Rapport dries up that pussy really fast.

You build Rapport by small talking, being Mr. Nice Guy, Mr. Agreeable, Mr. Understanding, Mr. Predicable, Mr. Boring.

Rapport is the OPPOSITE of ATTRACTION.

You break rapport by first giving her a compliment, and then taking it away by teasing her, challenging her, being a little disagreeable, and having a cocky, arrogant, playful frame. You tease her, challenge her, and game her. You make her qualify herself to you. You poke fun at her, treat her as a little teenager, you have a cocky smirk on your face - all done in a playful kind of way. Subconsciously, she'll sense that your SMV is higher than hers. This is how you build Attraction. She needs to Feelz that SMV differential. She needs to be looking UP at you, while you are looking DOWN at her.

I’m not going to list things to do- like grabbing her ass, 10 sec kisses, picking her up and grinding her on the edge of the kitchen counter, mocking her, etc. Come up with your own list and share notes. Anything on a list is all things confident cocky men just do.

Bottom line:

Build attraction by breaking Rapport. Stop being Mr. Boring Predicable Nice Guy that has bitterness in the air.

You need to treat your wife like a girlfriend you are trying to fuck.

Break Rapport.


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Title Attraction 101
Author MrChad_Thundercock
Upvotes 31
Comments 43
Date 28 March 2018 08:58 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204670
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/87vie0/attraction_101/
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[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret11 points12 points  (3 children) | Copy

I feel like I wrote a post on this...

[–]MrChad_ThundercockChief Autist in Charge[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I never read it if you did. Felt like we needed a back to basics post. Lots of low quality negative shit lately.

[–]hystericalbonding5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

From the sidebar

Practice is important. Mindset is even more important, or you'll end up like Mystery.

[–]pridebrah2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Felt like we needed a back to basics posts

Agreed. Can never get too much of the basics no matter how long you've been at this. It's all that really matters in the end anyway. If a man is attractive he just preemptively solved most problems he could ever encounter in terms of sex and frame.

[–]CaptJohnLukeDiscard8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

You missed a major opportunity to start this post with "Listen up, faggots!" instead of "Class..." I am disappoint.

Overall message is 100% on point. If your wife feels too comfortable with you, she won't want to (or NEED) to fuck you. That's the fundamental truth of dread. Women have an innate biological impulse to secure her prize with sex. If you ain't a prize, you ain't getting sex.

Look in the mirror. Think about how you interact with her. Think about how you act in a crowd. Would you fuck you?

[–]MrChad_ThundercockChief Autist in Charge[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Edited. Thank you. Was going with a kind, more gentle Chad. But fuck that.

[–]DanG36 points7 points  (9 children) | Copy

Good stuff ... yada ... but A problem with this stuff .... as was the problem with A. Kay’s (autistic) 10 Sec. Kiss™️ ... is that newbs who have created YEARS of resentment baggage with their wives try to pull this off and they only cause her to put up more walls. Then, they rinse and repeat ad nauseam - provoking the hamster into a rabbid, frothing frenzy. 100% agree that “LIFT” is Rule #1 and BMI is Rule 1a. But if there is a U-Haul sitting in the driveway full of the wives resentment issues, THAT needs to get unloaded with your newly found pecs prior to attempting to bend her over the kitchen sink with a “smirk on your face.”™️

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

incorrect

[–]hack3ge1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I’ve got a dumpster full of resentment built up with my wife - it’s definitely no simple task to undo. As I said to Dan - I could be Brad Pitt right now but with the baggage I have built up she still ain’t fucking me.

[–]Alpha_Engineer993 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Because you were a shitty captain all those years. She thought she was getting Brad Pitt and Prince Charming mixed together, but got you instead.

But I agree with you, it happened to me. Took about a year to get rid of the resentment. You need to focus on the sidebar, go back in your mind and untangle all the bullshit that’s in there. Stfu to her about your changes. Yes it will get worse before it gets better because she doesn’t believe it’s the new you. There’s no track record of you owning your shit. Would you trust you ? Fuck no.

[–]DanG30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

THIS!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve got a dumpster full of resentment built up with my wife....As I said to Dan - I could be Brad Pitt right now but with the baggage I have built up she still ain’t fucking me.

you've got this part right

it’s definitely no simple task to undo

you've got this part wrong

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Please explain. I think u/DanG3 has a valid point. Why am I wrong?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

you can change a woman's response to you in a heartbeat if you internalize your value and use a communication style that reflects that. faggots think nice physique = fuck circus. it doesn't. bad physique men who've internalized their value (even via delusion) fuck circles around pretty boys with abs who haven't. the problem is men are weak minded and need a mirror telling them they're a real man in order to feel like one. lots of weak minded men here so it's the only advice they can handle

[–]DanG30 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

“bad physique men who've internalized their value (even via delusion) fuck circles around pretty boys with abs who haven't...”

 

Correct for PUA, plate, etc. situations. Incorrect for marriages, LTRs and others when the woman has extensive past experience (baggage) with you. Thus, the ‘4 or 5 months of MAP to unfuck every year of fucked up’ guide. No LTR woman is going to trust a “captain” who has demonstrated shitty judgement, inability to hold his emotional shit together, bad financial management, etc. (Some guys - MOST guys - have no clue what a strong, confident communication style looks like.) That crap needs to get fixed and the women needs to see its fixed by observing the change over time.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

yup. weak minded

[–]johneyapocalypse6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I love the smell of napalm in the morning.

It smells like... unpredictability.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockChief Autist in Charge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

HOOAH

[–]PersaeusRed Beret6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

excellent 101 MCT, bros need to understand that

If she’s not fucking you, she’s not attracted to you.

is the currency of the realm. these reports of my wife is not fucking me for all these extraneous reasons (work/life balance) are male hamstering.

You generate attraction by breaking Rapport.

on a similar note; I have had a few discussions on this board on the difference between intimacy and romance. Many, including my pre-RP self, thought these two were one and same. WRONG, intimacy is rapport and it must be broken to produce romance.

i've preached it before; and i'll say it again if you want to see what women touch themselves to (credit: GLO) read romance novels. even the most sublime or prudish romance novel has Chad breaking rapport nonstop an orbiting Billy trying to build intimacy.

as the old timers would say: treat em' mean to keep em' keen

[edit]

Ask me how I know.

yeah i'll bite, tell uncle Persaeus how the bad woman hurt you

[–]MrChad_ThundercockChief Autist in Charge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good point with about intimacy and romance. My blue pill days I thought “date night” dinner and a movie was me doing both. She friend-zoned me fast.

[–]Trtntrenbrah2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Good refresher.

Someone smart once wrote “appeal to her body not her brain”

[–]MrChad_ThundercockChief Autist in Charge[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Yep, that focused more on lifting weights and looking as best you can. A woman wants to fuck a good looking man. I was trying to give more tactical game / everyday advice to break the boring nice guy routine.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

A woman wants to fuck a good looking man

Only if he's perceived as a challenge

[–]MrChad_ThundercockChief Autist in Charge[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I was quoting that other post.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I was agreeing with you

[–]Praxis0002 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

The trick is not letting any MRP lesson be a covert contract. I'm doing this for me not her. Deep down is this what your doing? If it's not shouldnt you be moving down the dread levels and nexting? See alot of coping and not nexting in here. Shouldnt a success story be also bitch couldn't tow the line? So time to move on to a fresh one to start anew and do it "right" this time. Last time I checked we have one life and we spending with a nagging bitch. Good times. No more coping "do it" and move with or without her.

[–]pridebrah0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

The trick is not letting any MRP lesson be a covert contract. I'm doing this for me not her.

Bingo.

Shouldnt a success story be also bitch couldn't tow the line?

I think so, yet it seems a lot of guys find a way to hamster things and rather than come off as progressing toward alpha, they seem to be continuously qualifying themselves to their wives/LTR with a redpill label.

[–]Praxis0001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The next shift of OYS should be Im doing this shit everyday and its working but she isnt so shes gotta go. Im growing and shes shrinking. Why stay. Only reasons. Shes your comfort zone/ kids/ validation for sex / too much work to find someone else. All excuses to stay in comfortable blanket that is actually cold wet and molded from your weak ass.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You of all people should know that Chad does fuck all of this shit. But i get it, its a lesson for everyone else.

[–]PersaeusRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Chad does fuck all of this shit

what do you mean exactly? Chad doesn't break rapport?

[–]dll1420 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well stated. The game NEVER ends. Women love mystery and unpredictably. The fucking (and quality of it) you get from them is a barometer of her desire.

[–]Praxis0000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The trick is not letting any MRP lessen be a covert contract. I'm doing this for me not her. Deep down is this what your doing. If it's not way would be moving thru the Dread levels and nexting. I'm speaking to myself in this also.b

[–]Praxis0000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sorry the first reply was written on a dumb phone on the toilet.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sweet. So step one is to be attractive, don’t be unattractive. Got it.



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