I'm nine odd months in and things are moving along ok.
Lifting / diet is good, stfu and other mind moves are a bit slower. I talk too much AND have a "no filter" attitude, which works against me most of the time.
I have a fairly specific question though, so i will save the long post for another time.
I want to know what the value of the constant initiating... Always be closing... theory is?
My view of this is that i want sexy time 3 times or so a week, we hover between 1 and 2, at least equally important to me is my re positioning as Captain, and FO is a reluctant FO if you get what i mean. You can look at my older posts about workaholic narcissism.
Back to the question, I find the constant initiating tiring and unproductive, and even worse it comes off as needy and desperate. Chad doesn't need to constantly chase the wife around, Beta bob does though. Its not like I sit around waiting for her to initiate (although it happens maybe 1 in 10). I am all for daytime game and kino, just making less effort to push ahead, when the signs aren't there.
Thats probably my biggest question (thinking outloud here), why push ahead for sex when the signs are not there (you know, tired, complaining etc). I don't see how a long shot at sex is going to help except to be a DLV etc.