My wife wants to go on a girls weekend to Tahoe. I don't want her to go. The girls she will be with are her ex-sorority sisters. It's supposed to be a "no guys allowed" thing.
We're both in our 30s and we have 2 kids. She's a stay at home mom and I have a good job where I make about 120k.
We are swimming in debt. She has a spending problem. We are trying to save for a house but making little progress. Here's about current expenses:
Rent $2500/month Student loan payment $1800/month. Utilities average $700/ month. Car payments a $600.
All of these things except my student loans were her idea. I had never spent more than $1000 a month before we got married.
In addition to the financial part, I think the girls she will be with are trashy and can have a bad influence on her. One is recently divorced.
What should I do?