After the text discovery in my previous post (which turned out to be her just thinking I was texting another girl about getting divorced. She was not able to see whole exchange. She was just upset I was investigating divorce behind her back). a few days passed of silence. Really, what I had been dealing with anyways.
Long story short, we sit down to talk tonight. She was trying to set "rules" for me to stay in the relationship. Though I liked her attitude and some of the ways she described what she wanted in a relationship with me, I generally refused any rules. She then insisted I answer a series of questions.
This was the moment of truth. Im tired of hiding, frankly. She asked if I have kissed any other womanand I said yes. She asked if it was the same woman and I said no. She asked where I kissed them and I basically said, public places ... really theres no reason to answer that. This is where she lost it.
She has cried hysterically, and has called her sister and told her I cheated. I heard the conversation and thats all she said. The sister is on her way over to the house.
You guys have been with me from the beginning. I was a wreck of a man. I'm far from where I need to be, and I wont stop working now. But this event was ahead of where I wanted it to be, but that's my doing. I went through the dread levels too quickly. I made decisions that will compromise my marriage, and I admitted to them.
The next several days, weeks, months will be difficult.