I have done a lot of reflecting based on my previous post. I decided that I was ready to lay the law down, or move on.

On Friday I told my wife she needs to fix the pictures back calmly. She fobbed me off. I fogged and asserted, she brought out a camcorder supposedly to record me being aggressive "I'm recording this as evidence, this is illegal abuse". Cunt. 30 minutes later, I told her she has the weekend to fix them, and to fix everything that she has fobbed me on earlier. I told her any mention of legal/cop threat is an instant divorce. I told her she needs to get her last name sorted, and a bunch of other things I asked her about before. Saturday went by with nothing happening. In the background on Saturday I went and rented a place nearby. Paid 6 months rent upfront, not waiting for any credit crap delay. The reality is that I decided that this is that and I no longer want this cunt to be with me. On Sunday she went out with some friends. I packed her shit up and took it to this place. I packed the kids stuff and sent it as well - I told my kids they are free to stay in the existing house whenever they want. I had the locks to the house changed. I texted her that she needs to go to the other place when she's back. She comes around - the kids are there, in their new rooms. Food in the fridge, clothes where they should be. Absolutely stunned, she says she's going to the old place anyway. I told her the locks are changed and the beds are all out (I did that on purpose).

Then I hanged around for a bit, made sure the kids are fed and ready for bed, she went out dunno where to, then she came back. I told her I'll be seeing the kids in the evening. then left to my place. Last night was the first of a very quiet nice night. Previously I thought I would be emotional and shit - I was stunned to feel very relieved - as if the weight of a thousand handcuffs have been taken off . For the first time there is no tinkering around with the phone at night, no rudeness in the morning, I put stuff somewhere and it's left where left it. The feeling of freedom and exhilaration is awesome. Well, apart from the fact that every bone and muscle in my body is hurting from 7 hours of work to move things from the old house to the new place.

This morning I filed the papers and told my lawyer she's on board - i discussed the moving family home details previously and she thought it was in the clear. I made sure to hire the meanest bitch possible, she understand women very very well.

So that is that. Perhaps not the best boner raging RP success story, but I'm moving on. The only things I want to nail down now are 1) the divorce 2) talking to the kids. 8 year old and 10 year old. I always had them trusting me despite her trying to weaponise them multiple times. They understand what is going on and have told her multiple times to shut up when she was being cunty in front of them - they have better AM than me on her. I explained to them that I want the best for them and I'll be around always. I gave them a phone. I want them to feel that I'm not abondoning them. Any hints or experience as to anything further I need to do with them are appreciated.