Now I’m confused

teaandtalk · 2018-06-19T21:43:06+00:00

Okay, I think there has been enough said here, locking this. Let's not stir up drama.

Astroviridae · 2018-06-17T17:59:17+00:00

Ok so there's a lot of backstory as to why there are two subs, I'll have to dig up the relevant threads at some point. The fundamental difference I think is male participation.

Redpillwives (RPWi) is a sub ran by women for women. All of the advice given is from the female perspective in the best interest of the female strategy. Women teaching women how to be good girlfriends/wives, do what's best for their long-term, committed relationship, and to continuously grow as a person.

Conversely, redpillwomen (RPW) considers itself "guests in the house of RP," meaning they are in the redpill network and are moderated by TRP mods and TRP approved women. Because RPW allows almost all male participation "as long as the advice is red-pill," men frequently post advice that best serves their interest or occasionally, complete opposite of what is best for women. You'll get posts on RPW that advise women to become being plates first then try to get "promoted" to girlfriend status, but you will never hear that on RPWi. Not even joking, I saw a post there by an endorsed contributor supporting men cheating in their relationships and blaming it on women. Thus, RPW has sometimes been called Plate School.

RPWi was formed over this fundamental disagreement. The original female mod team of RPW disagreed with TRP vision of what a female RP sub should be and wanted to continue keeping male management out of the sub.

xelaandra23 · 2018-06-18T04:43:53+00:00

The comments here already explain the difference, but I wanted to chime in that I am so happy I recently joined RPWives. The prevalent male influence on RPWomen unfortunately really puts a damper on the sub, which is intended to be for likeminded women. If I wanted advice from men, I would go to TRP or AskMen. Men rarely give proper advice to women, especially with regard to relationships.

Paupi121 · 2018-06-18T06:43:12+00:00

Hi, I know you already got your answer but I would still like to contribute, Redpillwoman is a more active sub but the quality of its content has really decreased and has had a quite an influx of male posters lately that don't belong on the sub, Redpillwives on the other hand has more wholesome posts and advice meaning that it's a better learning space for woman.

Redpillwoman is where I feel women who get introduced to the red pill go, so there are a lot of newbies there (and probably has more redpill men influence) while Redpillwives has more established and balanced women.

Title	Now I’m confused
Author	killerbeeeez
Upvotes	18
Comments	25
Date	June 17, 2018 4:38 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWives
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