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Man watches his wife get nailed by an Alpha in a couple swap, can't deal. Never let another man in your bed.. ever.

Clauderoughly
July 26, 2013
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Title Man watches his wife get nailed by an Alpha in a couple swap, can't deal. Never let another man in your bed.. ever.
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Clauderoughly
Upvotes 65
Comments 115
Date July 26, 2013 11:08 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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Comments

[–]Just2UpvoteU 55 points56 points57 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

This story literally makes me want to vomit.

[–]16 TRP VanguardTRPsubmitter 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Don't watch "Indecent Proposal" then...that was hard to get through

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can watch it no problem because I think demi Moore is unattractive.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I actually saw that in theaters with a girl and wanted to walk out. The chick I was with was like, "No, it's ok. Let's stay." She was fat and I wasn't interested. Nothing happened. Damn that was 1000 years ago.

[–]Remerez 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My pulse rate shot through the roof. i think i mutter "oh fuck" three dozen times.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was left shaking after reading that. Fuuuuuck.

[–]Insomania 18 points19 points20 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This put me in a really really bad mood

[–][deleted] 33 points34 points35 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I always read these tales of sexual misadventures and think to myself, "I bet none of the characters are attractive in real life."

[–]Offensive_Brute 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

In my experience 3somes are made up of fat chicks.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah 1 fat chick 1 guy, 1 fat chick = 2 regular girls...so threesome.

[–]Offensive_Brute 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

all I know is that I titty fucked 3distinctly different pairs of boobs.

[–]RedHonest 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Latest update, it got worse:

UPDATE #2 - 12:00 am

If only that last update could be the truth. It was mania. Or a stage of loss or something. This is going to take a long time. We're going to find a counselor. Things are getting worse. I'm less rational. I want to fucking kill Harry. I hate him so much I just want to fucking destroy him. And.. I don't know. Just thought I'd let everyone know, it ain't that easy...

Problem as I see it, my girlfriend wouldn't let me have sex with another woman, this is a good sign about our relationship. You do want a slight haze of dread in a relationship to prevent this sort of situation from ever happening.

He says his wife was drunk...eh, I don't buy it. This isn't a good marriage, and it took something like this to find out. He's feeling in his bones the ugly truths that his mind is forbidden to reveal.

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I enjoyed reading update 2

[–]decltype 24 points25 points26 points 12 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link

WTF did I just read. I empathize with this dude. Clearly he could've avoided the situation had he pulled enough courage to voice his opinion in the get go.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 17 points18 points19 points 12 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Sally and Harry seemed respectful enough once he balled up and told Sally he couldn't do it any more.

Fucking his wife with "angry sex" later on was a failed shit test. Why reward your wife for being essentially a whore by giving her sex the way she wants it?

[–]roe_ 20 points21 points22 points 12 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Disagree - "angry sex" ie. pounding her into the mattress - is the natural male response to infidelity. How it works is, other guys sperm is inside her, you've got to get yours in and his out. The pounding action sucks the other guys semen out (which is why the penis is shaped the way it is).

Horrifying fact - guys who walk in on their wives in flagrante delicto immediately get horny - past all the hurt and anger - for this very reason.

[–]SE17 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Horrifying fact - guys who walk in on their wives in flagrante delicto immediately get horny - past all the hurt and anger - for this very reason.

Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. A source?

[–]Phyrd 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sperm competition theory. You thrust faster and ejaculate more sperm if you suspect infidelity in your partner.

The penis is even engineered to displace "enemy" sperm. Also, they're are different type of sperm. Some of which combat those "enemy" sperm within your partner.

http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886904001722

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man, science is fuckin' awesome.

[–]troubadour1492 -5 points-4 points-3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. A source?

Empirical evidence from my own life. After my buddy fucked my girlfriend in front of me, the first thing I did was climb on and dump a load of my own in her. That was just my instinctive reaction when I was in the same place as the guy in that article.

I didn't hold it against the girl, strangely enough, but I never talked to that guy again. I thought I was going to be cool with it, and actually encouraged both of them to fuck (lots of weed was involved), but once it was actually happening....

[–]projectself 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

google hysterical bonding...

[–]lono12 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Horrifying fact - guys who walk in on their wives in flagrante delicto immediately get horny - past all the hurt and anger - for this very reason.

LMAO.

fuck nature man

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It wasn't his request.

[–]roe_ 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Because she intuited an action that would start making him feel better... (Women understand men better then men understand women, absent TRP)

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It didn't work. Maybe she was doing it for herself?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Dan Savage calls this "sperm competition."

[–]luxury_banana 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Biologists do. Dan Savage is just a dilettante who seems to think the scenario linked by the OP is totally harmless because he's a gay man and doesn't understand how things work for heterosexuals.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Upvote.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvacuu 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

He did voice his opinion though, and he didn't want to do it. He wanted to talk it over sober. Just saying 'no' to his wife make out with the other wife would have made him look weak and clingy. After things started he was partially in shock and partially not forceful enough to stop the other 3 from having group sex. So the most manly option he felt he had was just to join in and be an equal to the other man. But it all fell apart. The other couple worked together and the man and his wife both got fucked that night. It was a predatory action.

[–]BowsNToes21 26 points27 points28 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Predatory my ass, the guy is just a giant pussy. My girlfriend made out with one of her female friends at a club to which I immediately adressed that it was not acceptable and promptly left the bar. Twenty minutes later she is calling me in tears apologizing for what she did, and I still didn't talk to her for three days. Just be a man and address situations immediately that you don't agree with.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Do predators prey on those who aren't pussies? No.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvacuu 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He wasn't a man though. He was weak. Let me ask you, why is it illegal for adults and minors to have sex? It's because older people have more powerful personalities and stronger personalities over-power weaker ones.

[–]BowsNToes21 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The difference being is that the older person knows a younger individual is weaker willed. The couple didn't know he had a weak personality if anything they would be under the impression he had a strong one by telling them he wanted to wait until the next morning when they were sober. The fact he said it out loud probably gave them the impression it would be something he would consider, there was nothing predatory about their behavior. The fault is his own and no one else's.

[–]www777com15 points 12 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Predatory? After saying he wants to talk it over sober, this happens.

when they first brought it up I stayed quiet - I was ok with doing it but I wanted my wife to say so.

and then

Sally started giving me head, my wife started giving Harry head, and it had started, we were all having fun. It was exciting.

This guy is fully responsible for what happened. And later he doesn't have the balls to except his responsibility; he puts the entire blame on Harry. He's not weak as in victimized; he's weak as in weak character.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

This guy is fully responsible for what happened.

he is simply to gentle and weak

Now he is raging and saying "I want to kill Harry". That's nice and funny but at that moment when his wife was screaming "please fuck me" to the other guy he couldn't get it up and licked other woman nipples and cried like a woman. He said he is scared to the other woman when her husband was destroying his wife. Lol.

I feel for him. His soul got killed there. Let it be a lesson for all of us, if you are weak and don't voice your opinion firmly, nobody will care about it and you. Not your wife and certainly not a guy who wants to fuck her.

Harry was cool. His wife told him to stop and he stopped. I'd probably tell my wife to sit on her face.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

He said he wanted to discuss it sober. Only Harry and his wife didn't care about his opinion and it ended like it ended.

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[–]itslikeboo 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not that elaborate. The rules are as follows:

As a woman in polyamory, I'll fuck any man I want. I'll choose the more attractive men (alpha) when I'm fertile and the less attractive ones (beta) when I'm not. I will never bother to require any exchange from an alpha, but I will make betas pay an adequate amount to participate. Since this deal sounds very bad for betas, I'll disguise it by saying that it's "just fun to fuck different people," and attack them personally by saying that "if you're secure, you won't feel bad about sharing your partner with my (alpha) partner because everything is "equal." I will win, the beta's mate will win, and the alpha will win. Betas will lose and be unable to even air their greivances.

[–]Clauderoughly[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's the fucking truth, I have seen it in action.

It's scary.

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[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The wife in the story (not Sally) got action from all three. She's the one that came out on top that night.

[–]Clauderoughly[S] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Gigity!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed.

Some people can handle it. Patrice O'Neal talked about doing this with his woman. He said he never felt threatened because he owned her mind. The few episodes of Black Phillip she was on made it clear that this was true.

I'm 34. At 24, the thought of swapping my woman sickened me. Now, I could see it depending on circumstances.

[+]PipingHotSoup -7 points-6 points-5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That sinking feeling in your stomach/heart in these kind of situations means something.

You're projecting.

[–]Circ-Le-Jerk 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel bad for the situation... While I've never been there, I can total imagine how I'd feel. It almost is like getting cheated on right in front of your eyes when you aren't okay with it. Poor guy just wasn't expecting it to happen like this, nor feel this way. I wouldn't say he's BP because of it.

However, he does seem like one of those overly emotional guys, in the way he describes how he felt, talked to Sally, and to his wife. How he dealt with it was very poor. But good for him on getting through it, and fuck the 16 year olds that I'm sure are from TRP that were messaging the guy talking shit. Seriously, grow the fuck up. TRP isn't about trying to put people down just because you can. Alpha's don't give a fuck, and are value givers, not bros.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

A dog does not need two masters.

[–]PipingHotSoup 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Telling your buddy's dog to sit before you give it a treat doesn't mean it has a new master. It means you had some fun.

If it gets weird, you terminate it.

As long as you're the one calling the shots, there's no risk: if you're worried about her leaving you anyway, it's probably already too late.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I suppose it is possible to construct a reality where you're right. If I'm at that level, that means a lot of new things I suppose and I'll leave it at that.

My current reality is I'm a dude who knows how to surf but has yet to climb on top of that surfboard. I'm 40 but I'm as new as you can make 'em. Gotta learn to crawl before I can run. What you're talking about is like the Ministry of Silly Walks.

[–]veggie_girl 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As a man, as long as you are leading the relationship and you have an aloofness that you could easily live without her if she doesn't follow you, she'll follow you forever.

As a woman we just need to find ourselves a man worthy of following, or else settle for an unattractive beta.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Made me sad and disgusted. One of the most horrible bits was when the other guy's wife could tell he was upset and actually felt bad for him and he tried to get the emotional connection with her. I'm not sure I'd call the other guy Alpha (he was relatively speaking) and I always get the impression swingers are ugly and slightly past it; I thought it was pathetic how he tried to blame the other couple, male hamstering tbh.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points23 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"But DAN SAVAGE said it'd be cool! He's gay so he should know!"

I remember the first time I heard of dp and it made me ill. Other blue-pill beta dudes were all like, "Man up! It's an egalitarian approach to sex. You can have two chicks, so she can have two dudes." And of course I had no clue as to how to get one chick let alone two chicks. So the concept alone caused me years of cognitive dissonance. I've watched my share of dp in porn but since swallowing the red pill I don't really need porn, let alone hardcore porn. One Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue is fine enough for me.

I guess you gotta be cool with feeling like a loser.

[–]veggie_girl 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

These guys have given up on life.

Well actually, it's an interesting topic. If you look at Japan where 90% of the world's weirdest porn comes from, their culture is one of men that have given up on marriage. They have a porn industry founded on using women purely for sexual indulgence since they have no interest in a relationship. But this includes both betas and alphas.

I think what I see among alphas is a disinterest in porn because when sex is easily attainable it gets put on the back burner. My last BF was very BF and he had vintage playboy posters that were really tasteful, and he never looked at porn. He was too busy for porn and he knew how to turn a woman on in ways that guaranteed he never needed to.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Once you figure out you can have a woman whenever you want one (even you), you're your own god.

their culture is one of men that have given up on marriage.

There was a discussion on here yesterday you might find interesting. Here.

Women being hardwired toward hypergamy means men at the bottom of the economic totem pole are fucked. Betas spinning their wheels with goddess worship and alphas mostly being a spectrum of haters. Everybody's miserable and children from that scene grow up to recycle the same problems.

Me, I just like chocolate ice cream.

[–]watersign 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, talk about a good read. Dude is obviously a beta, what gets me is the amount of worthless pussy faggots who are saying "go get a skilled therapist" ...no motherfucker....get a skilled LAWYER!!

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 12 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Why call the other guy alpha in the title? He gave up his wife as well.

[–]Netlinfo 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I guess it's for the comparison, but I agree with you. He's not alpha, he's just more used to give his wife to other men.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvacuu 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

His wife didn't even get penetrated though.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but that was incidental, not because he's alpha. He is clearly more alpha than the other guy though.

[–]veggie_girl 26 points27 points28 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

That "alpha" might not give a shit about his wife and just use her as a trading token to nail other women.

The guy feeling regret actually loves and cares about his wife.

[–]watersign 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This. 100%

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I already said he was more alpha than the other guy but using your wife as a trading token for other women doesn't seem very alpha to me. What's the point? He's still that guy that lets other guys fuck his wife.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That "alpha" might not give a shit about his wife

She's currency to help him get pussy other than her own. He owns her, he uses honesty as a weapon and tells her he's going to fuck other women and she's going to be okay with it and she's even going to help him get that pussy or he's going to leave her, that takes way more skill on a psychological level than merely spinning plates, if she's significantly attached to him, he's strong enough and she's weak enough then she'll do that to keep him, hence why she engages in this perversion to keep him with her.

The wife stops being complicit in this and he tells her he'll replace her with a woman who will. Iron fist, she's in servitude to his dominance which she respects He uses her to undress other mens wives and suck off their husbands to get their guard down so then he can stroll in and get his fill of other women. Notice how he's not limp because he loves his wife or any such shit, he's having the time of his life. His wife out of fear and this guys game facilitates his fantasies so the man that has her enthralled won't leave her. Women are extreme. They are fiercely loyal when they think you're the strongest, a sniff of weakness and they will betray you in a millisecond. Not everyone can be "the strongest" so the majority of society has terrible experiences with women. Under this logic, if it were true, Harry would be mega alpha.

This may be incredibly perverted but perhaps you can see the logic now.

[–]veggie_girl 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

using your wife as a trading token doesn't seem moral to me

FTFY

Alpha does not imply morals. Morality is a separate issue.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Letting someone else fuck your woman still doesn't come across as alpha to me. There are cultural connotations that go with the term wife. It's not some side piece he's using to get sex, it's his wife. What he's doing is basically cuckoldary.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvacuu 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Predator?

[–]forgot_the_pw 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

because every single thing is either alpha or beta and the link must be labeled as either alpha or beta so we can know what to think about it and know for sure that OP is down with TRP.

/s

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can we call a guy in a swinger relationship alpha? Is that not a totally different classification?

[–]itslikeboo 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He didn't care about losing his wife. He knows that more women are available to him if she runs off with one of her other partners. The crying beta husband did NOT have this advantage.

This story is like a hedge fund manager and a coffee shop barista trading bank accounts for the month. One of them is used to big expenditures and can handle big losses, and the other one has to be careful and frugal. It's not "equal" for them to swap purchase habits, because one can easily handle any potential loss while the other can't.

[–]watersign -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They're swingers and he had no problem with someone else bedding his wife.

[–]GushyWetWet15 40 points41 points42 points 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

My wife is back. We’re a team again, and we’re not really happy with Harry and Sally. We both feel a bit like victims. Obviously her reasons are different from mine but the bottom line is Harry and Sally damaged our relationship with their behavior. My wife is not to blame for being swept into a situation neither of us were prepared for, and happening to enjoy it. She would give up anything to spare me that kind of pain, let alone last nights activities.

lmao yes it's never the woman's fault right? its harry and sally's fault that your wife wanted to get fucked by another man right? fuck this beta, hope his wife cheats on him more for being so fucking stupid. and then to fucking sit there and act like they are victims. peoples stupidity knows no end.

[–]the_letter_P 36 points37 points38 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

You gotta love the way she was apparently screaming "Fuck me. Please fuck me", but somehow she is a victim in the end. I think this sort of stuff is the only thing in the entire world were a "victim" can scream for you to do it to them.

It makes about as much sense as hearing about a "victim" shouting "Rob me. Please Rob me"

I don't even fully understand this guys problem. Its his fault for allowing it to happen. They are the ones who voluntarily went along with it without any protest. What did he expect when he said he was interested in it and then sat there watching it happen? Its like if I voluntarily lay on some train tracks and die and claim to be the "victim" of the train, and then everyone attacks the train driver as a murderer.

[–]Clauderoughly[S] 25 points26 points27 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

His wife emotionally manipulated him so she could get some guilt free, superior alpha cock.

He didn't have the balls to say no.

Alcohol is no excuse, no matter how drunk I am, I would never say yes to another man dicking my wife.

[–]PipingHotSoup 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

See, I just don't get that.

If the other chick is hot, and you know your wife digs you, why not go for it? IMO, the problem was that the guy in the story was being totally beta and giving in, not the swap.

[–]itslikeboo 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If you are OK with your committed partner having sex with other men, there's no reason not to do it. You just have to realize that your relationship with her will be more like friends with benefits, but REALLY GOOD friends with benefits. The love bond that you share WILL be compromised through the act of sharing her, and there's nothing that either one of you can do about it -- her body chemicals will simply give her feelings for the other men she sleeps with. Women can't avoid this. It doesn't mean she loves you LESS -- but it does mean that she loves other men MORE, and that this will result in you getting less of her actual, real-world loving attention.

Again, if you're okay with this and you want to live this lifestyle, then go for it. It's fun. But it's damaging to love and it's hugely fraught with complications, ESPECIALLY paternity fraud. You really do have to choose between a serious loving bond and a shallow play-relationship.

Also important: women almost always gain at the expense of men in the shallow version of the relationship. It gives them more men to latch onto when something isn't working with one of her many mates. When men try to do the same thing, they are shunned as "creepy."

You really only stand to lose as a man who swings, UNLESS you really don't care about losing the girl you're swinging with.

[–]PipingHotSoup 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's the type of answer I was looking for.

That actually happened with my ex!

[–]Clauderoughly[S] 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you are in a LTR with a woman you never let another man dick her, because it breaks the bond and reminds her that there are other dicks out there.

The only time you do that, you have to be ready for the fallout that she'll want more strange cock.

Plus, who wants to kiss a woman knowing she has recently had her mouth around another mans cock? ew

MFF is the only acceptable 3some for a LTR. Women don't bond with other women as easily.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the problem betas have with freedom. They do not want to take responsibility for their actions; always looking for someone to blame.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My wife is back. We’re a team again, and we’re not really happy with Harry and Sally.

"fuck me, fuck me please"

Oh I think that wife is very happy with Harry ;)

This guy is a sucker but that we know.

[–]Nutz76 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Just another example of why shouldn't try going outside the relationship if you've always had a closed relationship.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well if you never go outside you will stay inside.

There has to be that first time. And this guy just had his.

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

seeing Harry fuck her in my mind, hearing her beg him for it

Made me smile.

I actually really enjoyed reading that story.

[–]Clauderoughly[S] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He is now on R/sex blaming them for "bad advice"

http://np.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1j66rg/rsex_is_not_representative_of_the_general/

he is blaming everyone but his wife

LoL

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[–]mutualaid 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are several comments left by women with similar experiences in that thread.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You mean a woman has never been upset at seeing her man having sex (and enjoying it) with another woman?

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If there's any possible way you could find that study, I'd appreciate it.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It was pretty wrenching to read, but I don't see Harry as being alpha, nor do I see the man as being beta.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm a fucking grade a asshole and this sends me to a dark place. Nothing short of sociopathy will make you immune to the pain of that shit.

[–]watersign 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

The ultimate cuckhold story. The amount of beta in society is disgusting....telling him to "work it out with her" and shit. for fucks sake people..she begged him for the cock and one guy even commented that this whole thing was planned.

[–]TheBalconySmoker 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"My wife is back. We’re a team again, and we’re not really happy with Harry and Sally. We both feel a bit like victims. Obviously her reasons are different from mine but the bottom line is Harry and Sally damaged our relationship with their behavior. My wife is not to blame for being swept into a situation neither of us were prepared for, and happening to enjoy it. She would give up anything to spare me that kind of pain, let alone last nights activities."

I felt really bad for this guy. Now I kind of want to slap some sense into him.

Shit like this is why I could NEVER be poly.

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[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I'll call them Harry and Sally." nice job, columbo

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. I've been around. Reads fake to me.

[–]Offensive_Brute 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

I love a good cuckold story. Theres nothing quite like dominating another man by fucking his wife while he watches pitifully.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

If you get off on that you are a very damaged person, enjoying other people suffering is not TRP way.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

oh jesus come down from your high horse.

TRP is not about morality but sexual strategy.

[–]itslikeboo -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

TRP is named after the plot point in the matrix where neo could choose to wake up or not to. TRP is not about strategy, it's about seeing the truth. if you view this place as a repository of tips and tricks to be the winner of the sperm wars, you are not redpilled, you are just a hopeful alpha, still plugged in, but wanting to game the system.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

read the sidebar.

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/12v1hf/almost_a_hundred_subscribers_welcome_newcomers/

The Red Pill is men's sexual strategy. Reality is happening, and we need to make sure that we adjust our strategy accordingly.

and of course under required reading there is:

Sexual strategy is amoral

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1djuc7/puppies_randomly_punishedloved_develop_stronger/c9r0vu3

My point was that sexual strategy is amoral. You might stick to your values, but those who have sex .. have sex.

It's best illustrated through our ancestors. The idea was that whether or not we like the methods used- whoever procreated made children, and those who didn't.. didn't.

Your understanding of how morality works is a bit flawed here. You see, there is no universal morality. There is nothing in the universe applying any law other than those of physics. The rest is abstraction.

Morality is not black and white.

[–]Offensive_Brute 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

its a pretty popular genre of pornography. I like the one where the boss coerces the employee into giving up his wife, and at first the wife is against it but does it reluctantly, and then by the end shes gargling the bosses cum and smiling. LOL

I don't like the bisexual ones where the guy also fucks the husband or the husband is made to eat the dudes spooge.

The cool thing is, its versatile. There are men who like to be the the man in that scenario and there are men who get off on being the bitch. Some guys are into humiliation. I prefer not to judge people by what makes their dick hard, as they have as little control over that as they do the color of their skin. Some of its natural, some of its the result of socially inflicted wounds on the psyche, but you never really choose to be aroused or not around by various stimuli.

[–]watersign 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

fucking someone elses wife is pretty alpha. IAmA Bull, ASK me anything!! lol

[–]eternal_sleepwalker 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know. Nothin gets me off like a good cuckolding story(both ways).

[–]Trolly-McTroll 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That sounds a little homoerotic. Just sayin'.

[–]Offensive_Brute 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

not really sure how.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Offensive_Brute 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

People like to throw around the words alpha and beta and relate human social behavior to that of lesser species. Here you have it. The beta male sits and sulks like a child while the alpha takes what is his by law of natural order, and the wife, she LOVED it.

[–]grandmazboy 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It sucks, and I certainly feel for this guy considering he loves his wife. But he didn't speak up and now has to live with it. Poor fella, I don't know whether to say he didn't deserve this or that he did.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Well judging by his edits, it seems he might have a chance after all to right that situation. Also, I think that was improper use of the term Alpha.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is also a very valid point, for any idiot "equality" spreading feminist reading this: http://np.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1j3xtu/my_wife_and_i_had_a_foursome_last_night_with/cbb3b8j

[+]watersign -8 points-7 points-6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is fucking classic.

http://i.imgur.com/xIb7kCw.png

bhwhahaha

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well is his wife dude... If you ought to have oneitis it might as well be for your wife.

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