Are we already at the point where as a young man is better being gay than being an undersexed straight beta?

NockerJoe · 2019-08-23T22:50:20+00:00

Probably. I'm not gonna lie OLD has changed the game so much even during my lifetime. Both women and gay men can get what they need super easily while straight men need to work much, much harder. Bisexual men who use OLD have been very upfront that they can easily get like 20 interested men per women.

Being gay isn't really a choice but if it was I think a large portion of younger men would probably go for it.

-OpportunityCost · 2019-08-24T00:59:08+00:00

As far as getting sex then yes the young gay man is much better off. I still think a young gay man will have a harder time or just as hard of a time finding a fulfilling relationship. Not to mention I would think just in general it is harder to live as a young gay man than a young straight man in this world, especially depending on their environment and location.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2019-08-23T22:51:54+00:00

Yes, but you can't just choose to take a D. Personally I think you have to be born with that particular port connection, and it's a limited run item.

OatsGYOW · 2019-08-24T03:10:36+00:00

If I could choose, I absolute would be gay. Less for sex, and more for relationships.

As in, I would actually pursue relationships if I was gay.

meeselbon573 · 2019-08-24T01:46:20+00:00

Funny the comments that are like “you don’t get to choose your sexuality, so bad question.” Pure evasion. It is a perfectly valid question, as much as, “is it better to be tall or short.”

mydikishomofobik · 2019-08-24T10:46:54+00:00

Gay men get sex more easily than the average straight man. But they have a bunch of other problems. STDs, violence, male bodies not being physically compatible with each other (i.e. no vagina for dick to go in), limited pool of partners because a lot of men aren't interested in gay sex, etc.

Jacking off to porn is probably more enjoyable for straight men than gay sex would be. Because a lot of straight men find sex with men distasteful, but find females hot. So they'll be more aroused by looking at hot porn chicks and jacking off to that than they would be by fucking another man.

meomeowmeoww · 2019-08-24T11:15:20+00:00

considering the fact that men think they are not gay when fucking womens assholes, why cant "straight" men just fuck gay mens butts? PICKKKKKY.

thegoldensnitch9 · 2019-08-23T23:02:43+00:00

What the fuck kinda question is that? It's not like people choose their sexuality

smuthound1 · 2019-08-24T05:05:06+00:00

Probably. A gay man (regardless of race) will have a much easier time hooking up with other gay men than a straight guy will hooking up with women if we use apps or bars as the setting. A certain percentage of those hook ups become relationships so yeah, it's a better deal.

loke2dabrain · 2019-08-24T01:57:34+00:00

I think you could make the case that gay/bi men have it better than most straight men in terms of access to sex. They seem to have more chill relationships aswell.

On a side note i do believe male sexuality is as fluid as female sexuality. Women are just more free to be open about it since they are stll much less penalised for it, but things do seem to be changing.

They've already written articles about the surprising number of straight men who have had relations with other men. And you have to remember that "surprising" number are only those willing to admit it.

SpaceWhiskey · 2019-08-24T03:22:40+00:00

Lol I’ve been hearing men say this for literally 30 years. Some things never change.

rus9384 · 2019-08-23T22:35:26+00:00

That's not how sexuality works. You pretend any man has a choice of being gay.

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DaphneDK42 · 2019-08-24T07:09:03+00:00

I've been told that older gay guys have a problem. There was also a fat gay dude a little while back which started to whine about gay fat-shaming. In general gay dudes just spend a lot more time on themselves and their looks. If the straight dudes did the same, perhaps they'd have more wet pussy thrown their way.

Although, I suppose there's also a very good reason why alcoholism and drug abuse and various forms of mental diseases are so much more common with gays (& lesbians), than with normal people.

In any case, vagina is nasty as hell. If I wasn't into chicks, I'd forsake that wet dark beef hole with dubious fluids coming out of it. So gay dudes have it better like that. Except for all the butt stuff. That's even more nasty than vagina.

CupOfCope · 2019-08-24T08:29:00+00:00

"I now choose to live as a gay man." - Kevin Spacey, 2017

MrShakedown1 · 2019-08-26T18:21:39+00:00

> Being gay is now tolerated and you can marry or even adopt children in a number of countries.

Lol, not where I live in Europe.

Emervila · 2019-08-23T23:26:06+00:00

wait, gay people have been waiting for this? sorry to tell you, not happening anytime at all

Straight male sexuality is changing: there are sex dolls who like it or not are growing ( I don't like them but I do respect those who like them), there's more clients for escorting services and so, young men are finding ways to adapt to this new sexual market place and get sex...It'll take a bit but an straight male won't gay bc he's a loser with the ladies, by definition a man fights back at the challenge... I don't believe it's going to be " you lost with the ladies go grab some nuts"

Cho_Assmilk · 2019-08-23T22:44:27+00:00

Depends if he's QB or Receiver

cracksniffer666 · 2019-08-24T05:18:39+00:00

I would say yes, and no. I'm MGTOW, and ironically, girls want to approach me more.. Classic redpill though.

People need to stray away from "er ma gerddd sex" and need to find a purpose, and what they're good at.
Sex ends once sex ends. Think about that. Once you orgasm, it's over, and hopefully he/she had an orgasm too..

but once it's over, you're still you. Find out who you are, what you love doing, and look up "flow"... it's a term I heard from some guy on JRE, and it's a state in which you aren't conscious, but you are. You're in the "flow."

Find out what gets you in the "flow" and do that. Sex is a biological urge that you can realize unless you're a mongoloid. "Sex" comes later once you find a special person, and it's "love making" which is fucking 1000x better, esp if your SO has a good musical taste. lol.

Being focused on sex makes you no better than a hyena, or some alligator. We're able to communicate with each other, because we're something *more* .... be that something more.

MrShakedown1 · 2019-08-24T14:29:10+00:00

What's up with this marxist bs. Feminists want men to turn into cucks and incels want all men became gay.

[deleted] · 2019-08-24T17:57:17+00:00

If that's the case, we're fucked.

Iron-Giant169 · 2019-08-24T19:18:18+00:00

snowwhiteskiller · 2019-08-25T01:43:01+00:00

Compared to when though, like when were men seemly engaging in more sex than they do now?

prostate-apostate · 2019-08-25T18:11:51+00:00

4 chan is living proof of this .

Female_urinary_maze · 2019-08-26T08:20:07+00:00

From what I've gathered gay men might have an easier time hooking up, but not an easier time finding long term partners. It's still a much smaller pool of potential partners which you can have a really hard time meeting. (outside of hookups for which you can just use Grindr) Gay men who don't fit certain aesthetic standards (weight, muscles, age, dick size, etc) also seem to be disadvantaged in the hookup market, so it's not like being gay is an escape from body standards in your sex life.

Additionally how hard it is to be a gay guy will vary wildly by location and parentage. For example it might be great if you come from a progressive family in San Francisco, but being a gay guy from a family of Christian fundamentalists in Alabama comes with dramatically increased chances of parental rejection, religious guilt, social isolation, and gay-bashing.

TrueReligionGenes · 2019-08-26T18:26:25+00:00

Definitely yes, most gay men are happy and have very little trouble finding partners, even if they are ugly. They can probably find one within days, if not hours.

SDW137 · 2019-08-29T02:54:52+00:00

If having sex whenever you want is what you mean by "better", we already passed that point a while ago.

skystar86 · 2019-08-23T23:14:09+00:00

If I was a guy in that situation I'd get a prostitute to have sex with and show around to make women jealous of me. I'd act like a big shot with my hooker. Taken men are more desired. Or get with a divorced MILF or foreign woman.

goatismycopilot · 2019-08-24T02:09:29+00:00

Probably so gay guys probably have more sex with other people both as single dudes and as dudes in a partnership,gay men tend to be more flexible about monogamy. So that 30% of non sexed guys can just be gay.

skystar86 · 2019-08-24T03:29:15+00:00

If I was a guy I could head over to Mexico or some other poor country to find a mate. I wouldn't have to go gay.

somegenerichandle · 2019-08-24T06:00:29+00:00

*it is better... If an SO is so important to you, go ahead, try dating men.

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diffdedbed · 2019-08-24T04:43:10+00:00

This is bad question and you should feel bad for asking it.

Its not a comparable thing.

Being gay vrs not having a good sex life?

Every dog has his day.

DXBrigade · 2019-08-24T10:50:39+00:00

Gay guys have it worse, but straight men are more whiny.

Title	Are we already at the point where as a young man is better being gay than being an undersexed straight beta?
Author	ifelsedowhile
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Comments	87
Date	August 23, 2019 10:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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