The hot, attractive women who party a lot don't hit the wall, it's actually the high achieving, unattractive women

Young_Oryx · 2019-05-11T11:33:47+00:00

Everyone hits the wall eventually. The wall is called age. It's literally inevitable, and it's coming for everyone.

u443 · 2019-05-11T13:43:56+00:00

I’ve never heard of the red pill until the last month or two since it blew up over the internet. I’m still trying to understand what those people are getting at. The only merit I see in trp is that it helps men, especially those of lower SMV, little experience, or weaker personalities, be more careful of the true intentions of the woman they are in a relationship with. All the other crap the trp people talk about I just don’t get, they generalize everything.

I agree with your view. Girls who are more outgoing provide themselves with far more opportunities. My girlfriend’s friend was a party girl with a high body count, who red pill guys would deem as a woman of low relationship value, yet she had no issues locking down a high value male with high SMV when she was 25. I can think of at least two other girls like that. I made a post about this recently, just like you trying to understand the assumptions that the trp guys make.

poppy_blu · 2019-05-11T14:05:06+00:00

Asian women don't hit the wall because the genetics of Asian and other women of color are vastly different than white women, particuarly white women of northern european descent.

Take a white, black, asian and hispanic woman, all 40, and put them together in row. Chances are the white woman looks 20 years older than the others.

I'm 44 this year and still get carded for alcohol.

What is rather interesting is that, women who are highly highly educated (graduate degrees from Stanford/Ivy Leagues/MIT etc.) and not attractive very often end up in situations where they can't suitable men that are also interested in them.

Probably because their priority is their careers not their looks. I'm not sure why this bothers men here so much. If this is not your type of woman, just keep it moving. Why heap insults at her because she's making life choices that don't make her attractive to you? Is it because you're jealous of her intelligence and accomplishments? Or because you can't get the more attractive women you want (misplaced anger)?

In summary, this is the real wall.

No, this is you trying to throw shade on successful women. Again I don't know why, because if those women aren't appealing to you, just don't date them instead of investing your time and engery in cirticizing them for their choices. Seems pretty simple to me.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2019-05-11T13:53:38+00:00

Welp, that sounds representative of dating in the US

TheSuperStink · 2019-05-11T11:13:31+00:00

I work with some high-achieving very attractive women. A vascular surgeon I frequently do rounds with is a solid 9.5. Several of the women in my department are knock-outs and all have a Pharamcy degree, so 6-8 years of school. Others are in the late 40s to late 50s. All are married and have been for years.

There is a lot of mixing going on with the two groups. It's not really differentiated in any way that I've seen. Fiancée works in academia. A lot of very attractive women in those positions as well.

robertfrostt · 2019-05-11T13:37:27+00:00

Silicon Valley is one of the most one sided dating markets in the country, of course it doesn’t represent reality

And party girls who smoke cigarettes, stay out late, don’t exercise, age terribly. That’s the wall for them

NockerJoe · 2019-05-11T11:37:34+00:00

Everyone who counts on "the wall" is over eager. It doesn't kick in until like 35 on average.

When a "party girl" hits the wall it's not a gym bunny chasing an alpha male. It's a mess of a college girl who gets fucking blasted on poor life decisions and years of drugs and alcohol an 3am pizza comes at you fast. Nobody else really hits a wall until their age starts with at least a 3 and a lot of people not until a 4.

blackedoutfast · 2019-05-11T19:51:18+00:00

In summary, this is the real wall.

no, you just have no fucking clue what the Wall actually means.

hitting the Wall refers to how women's appearance undergoes a rapid decline due to age in a relatively short period of time. all this shit about dating and getting boyfriends is irrelevant.

misunderstood_9gager · 2019-05-11T11:26:53+00:00

Two things here:

In my experience from what I have seen (I have lived across the globe), is that these women do not get high value men. They refuse to lower their standards in terms of attractiveness, and only get good looking men with close to zero virtue. So if we are only talking about these girls in terms of being able to find a partner who is attractive and their SMV ends there, then yeah, I agree with you.
These men these Gollum-Waifus end up with, do they have any other good thing going for them other than being hot and making a lot of money?

ColCrin · 2019-05-11T13:06:34+00:00

Partying (drug abuse and alcohol abuse) is more likely to age people, but I see your point.

diffdedbed · 2019-05-11T13:37:39+00:00

Most of the high achieving women take VERY GOOD care of themselves in my field. You are completely wrong when it comes to say women in their 40's. IQ matters when it comes to long term planning. The 100% party girls are usually not the best at that.

Now the best is a hybrid, not all achieving girls are boring, and not all party girls are dumb.

reluctantly_red · 2019-05-11T15:56:16+00:00

Asian baby girl

I'm from the other end of the Bay Area but everyone in California knows this type all too well. They can keep their edgy tattooed BF's. This type of woman is the absolute worst.

ScootsScoots · 2019-05-13T14:06:59+00:00

"From what I've seen" so you admit your entire post is anecdotal and therefore most likely wrong.

Everyone hits the wall. EVERYONE.

[deleted] · 2019-05-11T13:15:49+00:00

Meanwhile the rest of the world ticks along much as ever. Nice to know you have the sf bay area all figured out though.

Wallstreet3 · 2019-05-11T14:35:59+00:00

TIL

Only certain women age, the other women stop aging at 28.

TheBookOfSeil · 2019-05-11T15:53:50+00:00

That’s really not true at all. There is no standard for people who hit the wall and people who don’t. Everyone hits the wall. Some sooner and some later. The bookish women that you’re referring to are somewhat stagnant their whole lives, but that’s not “hitting the wall.” Attractive women that party a lot are just as capable of hitting the wall at the same time (or sooner because of years of smoking/drug use and drinking) than the bookish girls are.

This post is pretty much a baseless assumption and we’re supposed to change your view on it? I don’t see how someone could rationally and logically come to this point by themselves without thinking that they’re wrong or lacking any perspective about the topic.

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Sir_Koopaman · 2019-05-11T17:33:50+00:00

Sounds like someone's trying to cope hard that the only women he's able to get are low-class trashy women. The Wall affects everyone, both men and women. It's just a matter of how badly it'll hit these women, and unfortunately for you it's the trashy women with fake everything that get hit the hard. Don't tell me that molly and weed prevent aging, because that's bullshit.

[deleted] · 2019-05-11T20:46:00+00:00

71 year old Stevie Nicks is one of the most vibrant beautiful women in the world, the wall doesn't exist for her! (Yeah I know she's a celeb but still.)

And I agree with op too. Women in general put more effort into their looks. There might be some noticeable aging by 50 or so but I know women into their late 30s who still almost look like college girls, so I think this whole "hit the wall at 27" thing is total bullcrap or RP men are using extreme outliers

kandyapplez · 2019-05-11T15:52:16+00:00

yeah i find the "girls who party hit the wall the hardest!!!" thing to be pretty much a falsehood, those definitely tend to be the older women who still look the hottest because they care enough to. there is literally nothing about going out and having fun that makes you age harder than anyone else lol (people will say "well smoking and drinking and drugs!!!!!" but uh the human body isn't that fragile and also there isn't that much difference between having some drinks at a club vs getting wine drunk in your apartment every night watching the office or whatever losers do)

granted i go out all of the time and still look like a bambi eyed newborn calf at 27

Title	The hot, attractive women who party a lot don't hit the wall, it's actually the high achieving, unattractive women
Author	robertfrostt
Upvotes	13
Comments	165
Date	May 11, 2019 5:30 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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