Pretty much everything is in the post, but for further elaboration, I see posts and just a general concept thrown around that there is a meaningful differentiation between someone a girl would consider for LTR vs. the guy she finds really attractive. I don't really know if this is how women operate because if this is a behavior then I have not seen it, because in general, I find attraction to be non-negotiable, women don't tend to do any cost-benefit analysis between a partners strength and weaknesses. But rather in red pill terminology, I find they simply think "does this man give me the tingles" if yes, then he is in, if not it does not matter what other qualities he has.