Often there are two sides to a debate, bit what defines which grievance is larger? Let's say we're talking about the pay gap:

Men get payed more than women. Men might say that because women spend more, that they are privileged.- But women would say that men are privileged due to their social normality to being money makers, and being smarter\stronger. There are also many other aspects to these, and hidden aspects.

What actions do these things require is to make?

TLDR: Who is privileged, and why- and what defines privilege? What does this mean needs to happen?

I might be very wrong about these; please correct me! 😅