Women's primary complaint with men is that they just want sex and don't really care about having intimacy or a relationship. They will only commit to a woman if she is hot or young enough.

It's true that most men do want to have casual sex, even if they can't make it happen. They idolize Chad and wish they could pump and dump a harem of women well into old age. They don't value emotional intimacy but rather they see it as a burden they must endure in order to get sex.

However, there is a certain group of men that seems to have more than the average number of NAMALTS. Despite the most vocal incel men being trolls, there is a hidden section of incel men that are very kind, gentle, and interested in women for relationships. They would be so happy and excited just to hold a woman's hand, cuddle in bed with her, or talk to her. They actually seem to crave intimacy emotional intimacy as much as women do.

I know the vocal trolls of /r/incels make them look bad, but a sizable portion of foreveralone men dislike the elliot roger worshipers too. These men are very easy to find, and they would be extremely grateful if a woman reached out to them. There is basically zero chance of him pumping and dumping you.

I am not sure if there are any women seriously struggling here, but if there is, why not pick one of the many incels who would be happy to have you?