I'm actually pretty curious about this question because I myself could probably have been classified as BP until a few months ago, despite knowing a lot of stuff about RP for years.

What changed me, funny enough, was a girl who convinced me that we were soulmates, broke my heart and went out with another guy who played a certain game that she was interested better, and had more followers on this certain social media than me. (Trying to stay as anonymous as I can sucks heh). That was when I finally gave in that almost all women (tho I'm not inclined to say AWALT just yet) are hypergamists.

There's a lot more to my life that I really don't want to talk about here, but let's say that for years I had been very much against principles regarding TRP because the ones I did know who were part of that group reeked a little too much of sociopathy.

Not just this one girl, but this one group of girls in general that I had met during my time on this activity truly did change my views a lot about women in general. Over the years in general, I've had my heart broken so many times in the last decade plus, I've pretty much partially gave in and started sort of seeing things their way. You'd be an idiot not to, at least IMO. TRP's proof is in the pudding in some of the things they say because they've actually happened to me. And I can't deny it anymore, at least in some of what they say.

I feel like the only reason any man would remain BP at this point is because they got lucky and found the right girl at the right time, much like my ex-best friend's husband did meeting her. And it's pretty clear why most women would remain BP here.

So I am curious to know how many BPers have had their hearts broken and how many times?